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Originally Posted by Carrie K
Conversations on here have got me puzzled...
Some wives are happy and confident
Some are insecure or even frigid
What do guys do to build their wife's confidence and self image so they are comfortable sexual partners?
One thing my husband does is framed pics of me on our bedroom wall. It feels good knowing that I'm his poster girl. C.
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My wife has always been super confident in her career and social life. Yet when I first met her, she was not quite so sure about herself as a woman. Men had pursued her and she'd been in one long term relationship, but no one had quite been able to draw out her sexy side.
She certainly wasn't frigid being a lover of nude beaches and naked sleeper. I am nothing special, but for some reason she started to change with me. Maybe having children helped. The first sign was our wedding photographer getting her to relax in front of a camera for the first time in her life. Nonetheless, she didn't pick up on his subtle hints of the possibility of her doing something more risque.
In the run up to the wedding, I spent time with a Chinese friend. He told me how wonderful my bride to be was. Then quite out of the blue, he said "I really want see her naked." Not sure if this was some sort of weird Chinese compliment or a serious request, I was lost for words.
The possibly of her stripping for him turned me on, but I didn't think there was a cat in hell's chance of her obliging him. Knowing her better now, I think she might have done it to please me if I'd really wanted her to. I wish I'd been braver, as it would have been an amazingly sexy thing for her to do to celebrate getting married. Much better than the threesome with a bi female workmate that she offered me on the actual day. I didn't take that up either.
to be continued later