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Originally Posted by Thatguyhusband
Those of you who are swingers, poly, or otherwise non monogamous, has anyone from your “vanilla” life found out about your lifestyle? If so who and how?
For us, our families all know we’re polyamorous. It’s hard to hide when we’re always with our other couple and their kids at all the family events.
As far as non family, most of my coworkers know, because I’m not shy about talking about my wife and my gf. A few are intrigued and curious, however, only one person has been judgmental to my face about it.
All her friends know, and are happy for us, and my best friend knows. He however found out we were swingers before we became poly and automatically assumed it meant he could sleep with my wife. Now I’m not opposed to it, quite the opposite, but his assumption was wrong, and my wife has no interest in fucking him.
Can’t wait to hear your stories!
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It’s funny you say that when your best friend found out he automatically thought he could sleep with your wife- I had exactly the same experience. I had two friends my wife did want to sleep with but he wasn’t one of them - though I wouldn’t mind watching that at all.
We told our siblings and moms, our dads have no idea. It makes it easier scheduling things and eliminates secrecy to an extent. Most of our friends know, coworkers do not. For the most part we told everyone, the only people that found out on their own was two of my cousins who happened to be at a totally random event my wife was at with her boyfriend.
She didn’t see them there and was making out with him, obviously everyone else we knew at the event was aware. They said hi to her and she has the holy shit moment, then just introduced him as her boyfriend and said I was hanging home with the kids so they could have a night together. When I found that out it was hot as hell.