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Youre in quite a predicament..takes guts asking for help from us perverts!

Neverthless..sounds like youre in an abusive cycle all around..husband sounds abusive toxic and the ginger lez also ...group members are likely to be intimidated rather them actually liking her.."better it happens to her than to me" kind of way.

She was likely abused herself..think most lesbiams were and with all abused people/traumstized..they unleash on others.

Being scared sucks. But. Louder your voice becomes..better it gets..more likely the abuse will decrease..

That advice about curling up and crying and playing the victim only makes it worse..abusers thrive on the weak.

Challenge is..how do you draw boundaries and stand up for yourself without them saying somethinf us wring with you and hokding it against you...especially with unhelpful chair..

And yes..as a reward to us when youre situation improves..we wanna see a picture!