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Originally Posted by spunky1
Thank you all for your advice. yes i would love to just watch and take photos of my wife and another man but she says she isnt interested in persuing my fantasy she just wants me. which is great with me but i still have this fantasy in my head  i suppose what im asking is should i continue to talk to her about it or just give up and accept im lucky to have a loyal wife. or how did anyone else convince there wife to do this...? surely women like attention from other men or am i wrong?? |
As stated, you should NOT force or demand such things for your wife. Maybe years from now, who knows... you got advice from others. And people's sexuality taste do change over time. Things I've done with my wife a few months ago, I didn't do 5 years ago in that she wanted to try different things.
Now, is it fun... yeah. And SpyStrip has told your straight up, you can be trending on dangerous waters.
While I wasn't in to cuckold as we did MFM/MFM/MMFF, etc. There are obvious times in which she is getting laid and I am not and other problems developed. Our relationship has other issues and "playing with others" exposed those cracks in bad ways.
My wife did things because she loved me, not because she wanted to. AND that was a communication failure as I never would have agreed to such things if she felt that way. Yes, we both had fun - but it was for the wrong reasons and we're still sorting this out.
Here is the situation you may end up. With enough pressure - your wife may DO IT in spite - then resent you for it. And that thing grows until it blows up. Again, I didn't pressure mine - she mistook my ideas and experiences to means she HAD to meet those exceptions.
I'd rather cuddle with my wife (without sex) than have sex with another woman for the fun of it. At this time, I don't know what our kinky life style is, its not that important at this moment.
Also, like SpyStrip says... if you do such things, do it once or twice a year. Now, there are cuckold people here and all over the world who are in loving stable marriages... where the guy licks the other guys cum out of her vag. Each their own - doesn't bother me. Just not my thing.
If you want, read my thread on this... over the course of 6 months of what has happened. And it even includes photos:
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/showthread.php?t=187097
Things could have gone better, but its about communications.