Have you figured out what you're going to do when her husband inevitably finds out what's going on? After all, he is your neighbor. He sure doesn't sound like a guy who will take it well (neither your exhibitionism or his wife's knowledge or "tolerance" of it.
I think that when he realizes that he really can't do much about your habits, he may force his family to move to another neighborhood. He has already expressed his wishes to do so. Either way, it will be very uncomfortable for you, not to mention what he will put his wife through.
