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11. Get a dozen or so subtly-scented candles (vanilla, sandalwood or patchouli are sensual–not strawberry or artificial sweet scents) and put them throughout the living room before he arrives home in the evening. Then dim the lights. Greet him in a silky negligee with a glass of champagne. Don't say a word, just smile.

12. Give him a sensual scalp massage.

13. When he's watching TV, ask him to take his socks off. Then bring out a basin of hot, scented water and bathe his feet. Dry them softly, then rub them with powder or lotion scented with a manly sensual scent like sandalwood or vetiver. If he is not used to having his feet pampered, be warned! He could get used to this!

14. Make his favorite meal. Then ask if he wants dessert. Then run a bubble bath for the two of you.

15. Greet him at the door naked, with a pitcher of martinis.

16. Take his hands when you're both sitting on the couch and slowly give him a thorough hand massage, lovingly caressing his fingers and palms.

17. Mail a package to his office with something naughty: a discreet sex toy, for example, or a book on the Kama Sutra.

18. Bring him to a classy strip joint, if this is something you'd also like to experience.

19. Offer to share a pint of ice cream with him, but only bring one spoon.

20. Leave a trail of your clothing from the front door leading to the bedroom and wait for him to follow it in. Be naked on the bed, or wear sexy lingerie. (Naked works best for newer relationships, while the lingerie seems to spice things up for long-time couples)

21. Tuck a note inside an envelope into his jacket pocket in the morning, scented with your perfume. Write "I can't wait to see you" on it

22. Next time you're at his place, put lipstick all over your lips and leave a nice kiss on his bathroom mirror.

23. On a hot day, offer to get him a frozen treat. Unwrap it for him. Then, before letting him eat it, slowly run it across your nipples, or between your legs (or both).