renters toilet
 

Was over at my renters. Having prob wtih toilet and so I checked and replaced fill valve as she watched. I didnt make a move on her but tol her as I was leaving that I'd be right back to address bad spot on kitchen ceiling.

Wen done I put my tools down and approached her..staning in kitchen. she didn't pull back!!! With only a bit of vocal protest she let me feel her tits over her clothes, then pointed out we were close to a window. I moved her away fro window and lifted her top and bra with no resistance. I leaned and sucked each nipple...back and forth.

As I did this I felt for her pussy and she said no and pushed my hand away. With only a bit of protest she let me rub her clit thru her clothes (she loves that)

I told her I wanted to lick her pussy and she said no. Why? I'm havin problems down there. Ok. I kept sucking her nipps and rubbing her clit. She started to squirm then pulled away, pulling her top down.

I stopped her and lifted and held her tits (they ARE a bit saggy) for a second or two before allowing her to cover up

Yeah, that's called sexual assault. Make better decisions.

Actually, sexual battery.

Sexual assault!!!?? No no. This is jus a sexual game we play all the time. She loves it, jus hates to 'give in'. Sometimes we go as far as me eating and lickin her pussy. We been friends for over 40 years

Well, then why didn't you say that?

My wife likes to play that game where she says "no" and means it, but wants me to keep going and it drives her crazy later. I am not totally okay with it, so I will do very basic things (like reach up her skirt and pull her panties off when others are around the corner or lift her shirt when her back is to people), but I don't really like it. If we are in public and I work my way up her skirts while she says "not here!" it drives her wild and she loves it, but I don't do it often.

As far as renters, I used to help my father in law with properties. It was AMAZING what women would wear around us, and they knew we were coming over. I remember one gal in particular was standing at her stove eating mac n cheese in panties and a paper thin t shirt while we came in to get her furnace working again.

she is never the aggressor and ALWAYS starts by saying no, no. So I gotta guage whether she means it or not. Of course when she wants me to, she is less serious, like the other day.

There are many things you don't understand
 

It seems to me you are a ils d man with old fashioned manners, who don't understand that rules have changes, and is very lucky to have an old lady as a wife. Nowadays, you don't have to guess if a " no " means yes or no, it means no and you don''t have to force a woman who says no. Were I live, in France, with the feminism 2.O, and the rules that have been set, if you do that to a young woman, you are very likely to be sent to prison for ****. And we, men, all have to deal with that.

On dangerous ground
 

"... aggressor ..."

Naddy3, you seem pretty sure that:
- even though she is vulnerable (facing eviction) and less powerful
- and despite her words,
you know her mind - that she really wants you and consents. You are certain that you are not deceiving yourself regarding sex - probably the aspect of life with the most wishful thinking.

Suppose the lady in question used her phone (even on audio) to record her "No, No!" and then some sexual activity where she says "please, no, don't touch my ....". Then she went to the police - where would you stand against this evidence in court? - if you were a juror would you convict on this evidence?.

That's assuming she felt she did not fully consent or you were taking unfair advantage of her.
But if she was consenting and greedy (or needed money later), she could easily blackmail you by threatening to play the recording to your wife.