wife is such a prude
 

Yet she dresses in a way that usually accents her 38B tits and nice ass and legs. but she thinks anything I do or say is perverted.!!!
I wish she was receptive to things I might say to her to do to her like:

'your tits sure look nice in that bra and top.
'I hate when u sit with that wrinkle in your top above your tits.
'I love when I see you in your short little night gown
reach and feel her ass as she vacuums
reach over and feel her tits while sitting in car with me
I love seeing down you top when you bend over.
Your ass really looks great in those pants.

That is too bad. I understand how it feels, though, based on other scenarios.

As far as the topic at hand, my wife comes across as a prude to everyone else, but for me she isn't.

If anyone sees down her shirt on accident, she acts like it's the end of the world unless I am the reason people can see down her shirt, then she loves it.

Just yesterday, she was sitting on the steps with her legs closed tightly because she had a skirt on. I sat next to her and put my hand between her legs, forcing her legs open a bit so that people walking by could see up her skirt and see her purple panties, and she didn't mind one bit.

If she is sharing a hotel room with friends or family without me, then she dresses in pjs that a nun would wear, but if I am there, I can get her into paper-thin pj tops and tank tops without a bra and letting everyone see her puffy areola as she walks around.

And if I don't say something "perverted" to her at least twice a day, she asks me what's wrong.

Yup that pretty much sounds like my wife

yes
 

GET A DIVORCE AND CUT YOUR LOSSES BEFORE YOUR TOO OLD TO ENJOY SEX...

glances and stares
 

I think sometimes she must 'catchh' me glancing at her tits or ass (fully clothed). I either divert my look before she turns toward me. Or she 'catches' me in mirror reflection. I wudn't be surprised if sometime she don't say "do you have always stare at my tits and ass?" or..."why are you always looking at my tits and ass?"

I think she, like many women, think of their tits and as like men of our elbow or knees?
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Hearing about these women makes me wonder what a therapist can do for them.

Reactions like that in reaction to someone you are in a long-term relationship with aren't normal.

Come to think of it, my mom was the same way. If my dad looked at her or said anything, even totally appropriate and normal, she would get really upset at him. Interesting.

She was never really into sex, kinda jus tolerated it for ME. But as she got older and we had sex less , she became like this.

Some of it can just be women who are closer to primitive nature, too. There is truth in that some women will be aggressive in finding a mate, then once she has that made and has offspring (or gets older) thus has no need to mate, and won't have any desire in mate-type activities.

Then sometimes women have a trauma that was dealt with by being quite into sexual things, then one day that trauma is met with a sudden desire to have no sexual interest at all.

Sometimes we will never know.

We have discussed it and she said she cud change. And she did...for a few days, then same o same. We've been married too long and have too much family and we too old to do anything about it now.

Oh so true. and I have to sneak around but I have a couple outlets for my fustration, including xxx cinema close by

Perhaps the way you express these things is too direct? Just I know if I said those things to my wife out of the blue and in non sexual situations, she may not react all that well to them. It also may come across to her as you being a little desperate and not fully in control, giving her the power. Most women love power in men. Maybe...

"Your tits sure look nice in that bra and top." = "That top really suits you. You got great shopping sense. I love the way it looks on you."

"I hate when u sit with that wrinkle in your top above your tits." = Never tell a woman you hate something about them! Haha. Instead give her a quick shoulder rub and get her to stretch her body and more than likely sit up straight and in turn that will show off her tits or she'll be appreciative and unconsciously show her body off better to you.

Reach and feels her ass while she vacuums = she's doing chores while you're getting frisky. She's obviously not happy doing the chores, so maybe prepare her a drink for when she finishes and once that smile kicks in you've then got a chance to give her some physical affection.

Reach over and feel her tits while sitting in car with me = Warm up to that. first drive in a way that's pleasurable, then talk about something fun or positive, then thigh rub, and then you can move on to the home run. Put her in the mood so she wants it and you're giving her want she wants, even though it's secretly what you wanted first.

"I love seeing down you top when you bend over" = Many women, if they aren't feeling frisky, won't actually be turned on by such things. You're sexually objectifying her when she's in a non sexual mood. That's fine if she is feeling sexy and women enjoy being sexually objectified when it's on their terms or when they feel sexy, but not so much if she isn't in the mood for it.

I truly believe that for sexual compliments to work best you also need to compliment women in non sexual ways. If all they hear is sexual compliments they'll think that's all you're interested in. Cynical? Perhaps. Works? 100%

I agree. Women want to feel loved and appreciated, and not just for being around when you're feeling horny.