Closet exhibitionist wife
 

Rather than ask on the thread I have ongoing I thought I might open another.

My question is, are there others out there that dated and married a secrete closet exhibitionist?

I post this question now because we were talking about past and present exposures last night and she brought up a couple she had not mentioned prior to our dating and while we were dating. I was blissfully unaware of how much my wife gets off on exposing her body and getting reactions. I was unaware that she would expose herself before dating, during dating and during our marriage.

I am happy to find out her true feelings and actions but it has been a surprise. At least now I only make suggestions.

Married one.
We often go to sauna centers and nude beaches.
She loves being naked in public.
But she also loves showing her naked body in pictures and on cam, including erotic action :).
But the pictures and camming is always headless, cause for the outside world, she is still a good, decent loving wife and mother.

Thanks for the reply. I guess I left the wrong impression with the question. By closet exhibitionist, I was referring to her keeping the activity and her feelings from everyone especially me for years. Not sure how I would have reacted early in our marriage.

With no idea of her previous enjoyment exposing herself, I looked at her exposures around me as a cheap thrill. Again, cheap thrill meaning I assumed she was embarrassed and I was happy with the reactions I thought were embarrassment. Now looking back on each event I see her reactions differently. If you read the (no setup) accidental first exposure to my friend Tim, I wrote that from an embarrassing perspective. She was not the least bit embarrassed. I thought she was brave as we were in his shop and after at her casual nature not covering her tits or allowing her shorts to expose her pussy. After the initial surprise she was enjoying the attention and reactions from both Tim and me.

I also assumed alcohol was a necessity. I was wrong. She's happy to be completely sober exposing.

The only thing it seems during most is she needs the deniability of her actions. Other than flashing truckers, she needs an excuse for the behavior. We have not discussed that side yet. We have talked about my feelings but as one can tell I question everything. I have relayed my support but still have questions as she tells new additional stories of her exposures from prior to our dating and forward

Closeted even to herself
 

My wife has always been a little conflicted about being exposed. It took her a long time to admit to herself that she actually enjoys it. She gets wet every time she's naked in a risky or public situation. She's also always nervous and reluctant. So it is strange, because she is always glad she did it after the fact, but is always hesitant before the fact. She knows she'll get horny, but the horniness doesn't happen until she's exposed, so she has to kinda psyche herself into it.

My wife is a little the same, but after a few times, it becomes part of the sex experience and it becomes a normal part of sex. But it can only be brought up once sex has started. It's fine for me to have it planned, but if I ask her about it in a non sexual situation, she doesn't want a bar of it. It's almost like it's not her. The woman doing all that sexy stuff is sexual her. So I rarely reveal what she's going to do until she's suitably horny and at that point she's well up for most of what I do.

Now that you mention it...
 

Thanks for the reply. Now that you mention it, she does seem to enjoy it more when she doesn't see it coming, or if it's a surprise. If it's planned out, then she's more likely to say "Idk about that." But if it's sprung on her, she's a lot more likely to just roll with it and even get excited and proactive about it.

Alcohol gets her hot too, and sometimes she'll tell me that she's planning to drink a little, and she'll tell me once she's "had enough" to do something a little nuts. One time was at a campground, where she said she was drunk enough to step out of the tent completely naked (it was 1 in the morning, so everyone was asleep, but still). She just stood right outside the tent, open to the moonlit air, for no reason other than, she was drunk and horny and wanted to be naked in a risky place. After standing out there for 2 or 3 minutes, we went back into the tent and had sex.

Another time, she was sober (unfortunately) we were just going for a walk in the neighborhood and found a nice, quiet, dark street. She said, completely unprovoked, "this would be a good place to go streaking." I darted her a look and she said "Not tonight, but maybe in the future, if I have a little to drink, we could go for a walk out here and see what happens."

She knows what gets her motor going, and under what circumstances she's able to psyche herself into it lol.

I wrote a post about my ex over here ("Secret Exhibitionist"):
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...d.php?t=249818

She never wanted to admit that she liked to expose her naked/topless body, but she did it quite often. Changing in front of a window with the curtains open, being topless at the beach/garden/hotel, walking back naked from the shower when we lived in a dorm (I don't know the correct english word, it was a house with four apartments, but we had to share the bathroom and the kitchen), insisting I include the topless pictures and nude pictures (nothing too explicit though) I had taken of her during our vacation in the photo album (which she showed to her friends and family).

For everything she had some casual explanation.

For being naked in front of a window with the curtains open:
"Oh, silly me, I didn't notice the curtains were open."
In every house we lived we had very large windows and very dark curtains. Also this happened far too often. No way she couldn't have noticed this! :D

For being topless on the beach/pool/garden:
"Tan lines will look very weird when I'm wearing this or that dress."
This might be true. But no need to expose her breasts, right? Also she spend most time in the shadow of a sunshade or parasol reading a book, while still staying topless. I'm not complaining though! :D

I will write about the dorm and the pictures another time, probably in my own thread.

All agreed. It's the 'plausible deniability' and the right situations that can get my wife going.

My wife prefers not to have a public audience, but is very comfortable when its a small crowd. Things like flashing a boob to a girlfriend, showing off a titty pic on her phone, or squeezing tits through clothes all come into play. If its a fun atmosphere, she can get competitive among the moms. She knows her tits look better than her friends, so she enjoys one upping them in that way when she gets a chance.

Wife's latest new experience
 

Late the other night, about 11:30pm, my wife wanted to have sex. And knowing that putting herself into an embarrassing situation was a surefire way to get me into the mood, she said "if you turn the porch light off, I can probably step out onto the front porch naked." I agreed this was a good idea, lol. One mistake she made, was she's already decorated for Halloween.

So she stepped outside wearing a little nightgown, and very quickly realized that there were a bunch of little orange lights in our lawn that were lighting her up. So even with the porch light off, she was still pretty visible. But she already said she would, and a deal's a deal, so she took a deep breath and then took her nightgown off. I took the nightgown from her and started making out with her.

I stepped inside briefly, still holding her nightgown, locking the door behind me, just to give her that quick thrill of actually being locked out of her own house completely naked. It didn't occur to me at the time, because the orange lights were already illuminating her, but I should have turned the porch light on just to get her heartrate going. After a little while, I stepped back outside (no longer holding her nightgown. I left it inside) and made out with her some more.

What finally ended the fun was, we saw some car headlights coming around the corner, and she got nervous and jumped inside. It wasn't a super long experience, but it wasn't quick either, and it was a lot of fun. A nice first step. I'm looking forward to seeing how far away from the house I can get her to trek in the future, without any clothes on.

It's the surprise of it
 

Same for my wife - If I try to plan things out she always backs out or finds reasons not to... but the best time we've ever had is when I texted her to come pick me up from work and "wear loose clothes" the surprise of it all and the unplanned nature led to us both being completely naked in a public park having sex.

My wife
 

My wife is a closeted exhibitionist. She likes the thrill but doesn’t like to get caught. As I write this she is conducting a meeting on zoom with her camera off, fully naked. This is an important meeting where higher ups are there. She will probably tell me about how she feels when she finishes but she is actively speaking at the meeting and is fully naked.

she looks amazing! 10/10 would nut in her bush :D

She is definitely an exhibitionist. She does not like the term though. She thinks that if it appears accidental it's just that, plausible deniability. Other occasions she just needs an excuse. I have chronicled some of her more current exposures and several of the stories she has relayed on another post. We, she continues to enjoy exposing.

she doesn't care
 

Mine is just nonchalant about her nudity. She's neither a nudist nor an exhibitionist, but if the thought occurs to her to do some task, she gets right to it, regardless of what, if anything, she happens to be wearing. Might be totally naked pushing the waste bin out to the kerb, or fetching something from the garage even whilst the door is open, or scrubbing the front door steps. Mostly adults in our sparsely-populated neighbourhood, so nobody complains. If someone is walking past, she suddenly realises her nudity, waves, and comes back inside. Or, if it's a friend, she may engage in brief conversation whilst carrying on her task. (By the way, she is very pleasant to look at.)

Wait, I thought you were supposed to imagine your audience naked :-)

this thread made me recall of a EU Cruise i did with her a few years back. She was wearing a white spaghetti top with a bra that gaps. At the port of call, we went down for shopping at a nearby mart.

At the checkout counter, she placed the cart behind and kept bending down to pick up each item. A tall dutch guy just stood there and stared at both nipples, which i would describe as my most ideal downblouse nipple moment we've had. That guy probably thought she was poor and couldnt afford proper clothes :)

and again, we went to a convenince shop. One asian guy noticed the gaping bra gap and stood there stunned, even when it was his turn at the counter. He let her pass and had a good look yet again when we were leaving.

Cant wait to travel again to try this

My wife
 

She has always been into exhibitionism. When we got married we fucked with her plastered against the window where anyone could see. Another time we were at a local lake. I was fucking her from behind. I noticed she was holding her leg up. When I looked there was a couple down below watching. Loves nude sunbathing. Favorite is being Eaton while others watch. Wish I could get her to go out in the general public without underwear and flash single guys at bars and see where it takes us

Not my wife, but wife of friend. We went to dinner with them last Friday, somehow the conversation got to being topless at a C/O beach. My wife told them about her adventure in Cannes going topless, the husband said your not the only lady here who is an exhibitionist.

His wife got red and punched him in the arm, so we demanded to hear "rest of the story". Sheila, real name, works for a CPA firm, she likes to go to the office on Saturday morning to clean up stuff for the previous week and get set up for Monday, she says that takes a lot of stress out. She said the building is not air conditioned on weekend ands it gets pretty hot, she is always the only one there, so she frequently starts stripping to stay comfortable. Well one Saturday the owner came in, she didn't hear him, he was in his office and they both went to the break room for a soft drink at the same time. Sheila only had a thong and tennis shoes on, she said she surprised herself, she didn't panic, she just said "it's casual Saturday".

They laughed about it and then they both went back to work. It was never mentioned again.

I didn't know my wife was married to you, too! It's crazy how she will act scared or ashamed of exposing herself but then is SO turned on afterward. When she sends a guy friend a pic, then gets a hard-on pic in return, she fucks so much more passionately. She loves the positive feedback but struggles to do something that elicits the feedback. I love when she shows off, so I am not a factor in her hesitation!

Many Women
 

From these stories I think we can generalize that many women like to "show off," especially if it is in a safe situation and they have plausible deniability. They don't like to be labeled "exhibitionist" because that brings to mind old men exposing themselves to young girls. These women just simply forgot to close the shades, or felt more comfortable, or didn't realize anybody could see. Innocent and simple, except for the fact that it turns them on. It's sort of in their DNA.

My wife can be quite prudish in how she dresses and acts, but has no problem being nude on a beach or at a resort. As long as the location is listed as nude or C/O, she's all in, even if she's the only woman on the beach. I remember once bicycling on Cape Cod where she once lived and it was very hot and humid. We stopped at a beach where everyone was clothed. She went off to the side, stripped off and jumped in the water, not more than 100 feet from clothed crowd. I joined her. Her excuse, "Well, this used to be a nude beach." We didn't have towels so putting on clothes when wet took extra time.

Closet Exhibitionist
 

My wife loves to blame me for making her exhibit what she has to offer. Although I buy her the sexy outfits to wear, I think she likes strutting around in them. She has no problem being totally nude at nude resorts, dancing nude at the resorts and playing sports nude at the nude resorts. She wears extremely sexy clothes at biker rallies, swims nude at the rallies, models sexy lingerie on stage at the rallies. and goes topless for games at the rallies. She likes to get practically naked or totally nude at the late after parties at the rallies and will even pose for a friend of ours to take pics of her in various states of undress. So, she can blame me all she wants. I love watching her exhibit what she has. The last rally we attended, she let a guy wrap her up in a rope and we pulled her down The Alley like that in a Chariot. I guarantee that I didn't bring the rope for her or the Chariot -- she sought that one outfit for herself. It was kinda of sexy though.

Pushing the bar
 

We have been very open discussing her fantasies of us being watched or seen. She gets excited on the idea of it. When I ask her if she would be shy about her being naked, she says she would be so caught up and turned on with me, that it wouldn’t matter because she knows whoever is watching will get the greatest show.

As soon as I found that out, I made it a point to make use of our vacations as far as fucking with hotel windows open at night, against windows, encouraging and buying more exposing outfits, etc.

I posted a full story here somewhere, but the night of our resort stay and having curtains drawn back completely while her on all fours on the couch footrest, and in the center of a wide open room, was the biggest thriller thus far. It drives her wild. She once tried to push us going to a stair way, in the middle of the hotel rooms courtyard, to fuck her around 3am. That was something I backed out on:rolleyes: , but that established her excitement of public exhibitions.

We do get in late night tipsy-talks on vacation to have a stranger watch…from in room. She doesn’t care male or female, and I too find that arousing as hell. Lastly a goal for me to get us too, is one of her go to porn get offs-watching a guy masturbate. My hope is one night to make this a reality of having a guy watch us while masturbating for her. I feel she would completely lose it and be mind blown! It’s just a matter of the right guy in the right moment of us out some night. Wish us luck!

"Plausible deniability" is often a key word when it comes to closeted exhibitionism for women.

At the nudist resort, my wife will deny that anything she does is for attention. It was either an "accident" or "she just wasn't aware." But her body-language tells a different story...

Like straightening her towel on her lounge chair, on all fours; then looking behind her, seeing people looking at her from behind...and still staying on all fours - with a smirk on her face.

Or standing in front of a seated nudist friend while chatting. She could have closed her legs or crossed her ankles; but no, she chose to stand with her legs open and the guy being able to see up into her shaven pussy. She's done that several times.

Or the time she was in the hot-tub chatting with another nudist friend. She's got hard nipples, and she could have chosen to stay immersed. Instead she props herself up to where her nips are above the water line, and arches her back to really make her hard nipples pop out.

My wife certainly falls into this bracket. We live on a busy main road in NW England and have big bay windows. We never close our curtains and nine times out of ten, she’ll get undressed for bed with the light on.
She always spends at least 5 mins with her breasts out. She’s a double D with amazing nipples. I can’t imagine how many people have seen her breasts over the years.

She’s also taken to opening the bathroom window wide when she has a shower. The neighbour can see straight in and I’ve noticed his window also seems to be open at the same time. It’s a thrill when he pops over as I know that she knows he’s seen her completely nude. Such a turn on.