how to get husband to allow me to have lover
 

How often do you noramlly get an oil change and what weight?

I am 12.5 stones and normally change my own oil as it's an old car...

i no know
 

I would be saying that we have many of the attributes
i have seen being applied to this definition, but i think it open ended term or one of many degrees. Not to point where he chained under bed in the pink underpanties while entire Pacers team is doing the filling of me with their sperm. Other attributes are present so I trying to take control in some senses. I would need to talk more with him to answer rest of question of his fears.

yes i think every day of such things and of receiving a very hard pumping by a strong man. He no know
i on this forum. he would recognize avitar and thus stories so this clearly put me at the risk. I alos think how he find it and it say things to him that i no can manage in person and that it change our lives for the better. Odds not likely though.

Still no sure I understood
 

Naak: I no sure you are understanding or have done the between the lines reading. I feel betrayed by him keeping his little problem from me in contemplations of our marriage. I feel I need him to admit to and apologize for and do things to be making up for his shortcoming. You are free to think of me as being a b*tch for this. Just for that I go wake him up now and try for sex but he almost can never get firm in mornings, especially where I know he up late last night at computer And probably relieve his many day buildup with his hand. I will then tell him how horny i am and how horny in the a.m. (where he is at weakest most times, especially after evening discharge). Do you feel sorry for him or do you envy?

I envy him
 

...it must be frustrating for you my friend

But - I envy him for having such a lovely and sl*tty woman...a woman of free thoughts and a sexy brain...and soon a wife that fucks other guys with lust

I envy him

Pitty?
 

There are many sides to things a man (or a woman for that sake) "cannot help it"

Some men are short - and live with that
Some men are fat - and live with that
Some men are smart - and trive on that
Some men are plain stupid - and live with that

But at the end of the day: they adjust their lifes in such way that their attributes will not make then suicidal or in other ways jeapordize some kind of normal life

Some men have small dicks - and live with that

and how do they adjust their lifes: As the fact is that they cannot really satisfy a woman, they have to make choises. They can live their lifes in sollitude, or they can marry a woman. In the latter case, if they want to have a happy woman -- they will let their woman fuck whoever she want and not complain

Its all a matter of adjustments. Fair? Not fair?....well Naaktstel: I guess it's just life

Who at the end of the day say that all should have the same privilages, rights, liabilities, possibilities, money, and all other including the ability to be charming and big-cocked enough to bed any woman they want (and keep them as lovers if they so wish)

Life is just not fair. That's it

sounds like you are all about you and your dick. i never heard a bigger pile of generalizing garbage in my life. the size of a mans dick by itself has absolutely nothing to do with sexually pleasing his woman. it is one little piece in the much bigger love puzzle. the guy with the biggest dick is not automatically the best lover by default. matter of fact normally, the bigger the dick, the bigger the ego, the worse the lover is.

There is a story there and I can get to it maybe in morning with more time. I no blame him other than I think he could have been much more with the disclosure, not just as to the size bit the hardness and the power to be lasting. We did much kissing and grinding and touching in courtship and I later learn I was feeling hard penis. Oops gotta run.

I sounds like you have not heared a lot in your life...and don't blame me for that....just start listening, and you will hear a lot of bull shit. But: even just starting your comment in this way is you trying to control the discussion by dismissing my comment

I am old enough to know that big words and loud talking do not make any argument better

And I did not say that any man with a big cock is good lovers. Did I? Any woman that claim that they do not love a big cock better than a small dick is lying. BUT: the criteria for selction of a man are many. This is only one. If they could describe their dream man, they would definetly NOT list a small dick as ONE criteria...

I am sure Old Sarge that you will use big words again, and express them in big letters. I for one do not care. I am man enough to stay behind my meanings and arguments

Sorry