[Voyeur] Family exposures

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by xxxxenophile

I for one would like to see you start a thread called "The Honestly True Stories About People Naked Around Me" and frame it as only for those who will believe you, so the Mods have to delete any "I call bullshit!" posts!

You live a strange, charmed life. I have friends that get naked around me, but not family (which for me is fine) and not in the deliciously-awkward ways you describe. I'd love to hear, as someone used to say, "the rest of the story."

That sounds like a great idea. Go for it, Gnome! (Hell, there's a few guys here living charmed lives who should do this.)

[juliets]

Although I have been an exhibitionist for many years I have always made it a rule not to exhibit to family members or coworkers. I like the idea of strangers seeing me and try to make it seem accidental initially but then carry on if I know they are looking.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by juliets

Although I have been an exhibitionist for many years I have always made it a rule not to exhibit to family members or coworkers. I like the idea of strangers seeing me and try to make it seem accidental initially but then carry on if I know they are looking.

I am one of the unusual people who would definitely rather be naked around close family and friends instead of strangers; and I would rather see close family and friends naked rather than strangers, too. I have thought about why over the years, and I think it's because I trust people I know very well much more? Not sure.

[juliets]

Each to their own I say. What works for me would not work for others. I am always careful to keep myself safe. I exhibit a lot in changing cubicles entertaining bored husbands and partners who are waiting for their wives. I also do quite a lot of flashes to delivery guys and give lots of no panties upskirt views when I'm out and about.

[Mrpager]

Originally Posted by juliets

Each to their own I say. What works for me would not work for others. I am always careful to keep myself safe. I exhibit a lot in changing cubicles entertaining bored husbands and partners who are waiting for their wives. I also do quite a lot of flashes to delivery guys and give lots of no panties upskirt views when I'm out and about.

And where are you from? Lol I’m always bored when shopping 😂😂

[piecenick]

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

I am one of the unusual people who would definitely rather be naked around close family and friends instead of strangers; and I would rather see close family and friends naked rather than strangers, too. I have thought about why over the years, and I think it's because I trust people I know very well much more? Not sure.

Because there is a fine line between nudity as a sex signal (I am interested in having sex with you) and casual nudity in front of people with whom sex is out of question. Usually same sex nudity is not a sex signal, it is for bathing, changing clothes, etc.. That doesn't mean the other person can't enjoy the view, it's just not for sex. Nudity between siblings or other close relatives of the opposite sex is more complicated, if nudity was common in the relationship or not is important. For instance, most developing teenage girls would not want to be seen nude by their father. when my daughter was 15 she caught mono, her fever was so high the doctor recommended a cool bath, my wife was not there, so I had to do it, my daughter could not stand up on her own. She was grateful for the care, but she said it was still embarrassing.

Nudity between a family member such as a sister/brother-in-law is usually a sex signal, so it can be pretty volatile. I saw my SIL nude many times, usually in like group skinny dipping or a group stripping game.

Nudity, who you show, who you see, what is a sex signal, what is not, can be complicated. Signals can be misread, I just remember the words of my favorite comedian, Ron White: "Once you've seen one woman nude, you want to see all of them nude".

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by piecenick

Nudity between a family member such as a sister/brother-in-law is usually a sex signal...

It is? You lost me here.

[Couple6872]

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

I am one of the unusual people who would definitely rather be naked around close family and friends instead of strangers; and I would rather see close family and friends naked rather than strangers, too. I have thought about why over the years, and I think it's because I trust people I know very well much more? Not sure.

I love reading your adventures with family I thinks it's awesome...disappointed when I cant find any new ones from you. Hope you post more soon

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by xxxxenophile

I for one would like to see you start a thread called "The Honestly True Stories About People Naked Around Me" and frame it as only for those who will believe you, so the Mods have to delete any "I call bullshit!" posts!

This reminds me of a time, long, long ago, when I was part of a composer's forum (as in classical music), being a professional musician and all. Forums like that rarely attracted the pros because we rarely had time to screw around on forums, but I thought I was being helpful. People called my bluff all the freakin' time. Drove me insane.

Finally, once the technology became available to "prove" myself (that is how long ago this was), and I revealed my actual identity and my CV with "proof" as best as I could, everyone was shocked that I was telling the truth the whole time.

I tried to explain that it would have been far more work to make crap up for 5+ years than it was to just tell the truth. After that moment, I realized that, like other pros, I didn't have time to waste with people on a forum, and it was no longer worth my efforts to help people when I had real life work to do. And I haven't been back since (if that forum even exists; certainly not in the way it did back then, at least).

[piecenick]

I posted "Nudity between a family member such as a sister/brother-in-law is usually a sex signal, so it can be pretty volatile. I saw my SIL nude many times, usually in like group skinny dipping or a group stripping game."

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

It is? You lost me here.

I don't think it is in a group situation, but if SIL is "accidentally" flashing, or forgetting to close the bathroom or bedroom door when she is nude, I think it is. My SIL came into the kitchen in just her panties while we were home alone. 'I couldn't find my nightgown', her expression said 'sex signal', not "you're my trusted BIL, I know you're not interested in me". She was in a bad place emotionally at the time, I backed way off.