Sharing nudes showing your face

[Nakedeve]

I guess this thread is aimed at the men and woman on OCC and probably every other person posting on an adult online site out there. Are you comfortable showing your face or the face of your partner in pictures and videos where you/her/him is naked or involved in a sexual act? Bearing in mind that that picture or video will possibly be available somewhere online for as long as the internet exists?
Personally I know that my husband is not comfortable knowing that there is pictures and videos available online in which I am clearly identifiable, he has no problem with me naked in front of anybody in real life, but the fact that those images of me will be available forever Worldwide and that there is no way of controlling where somebody might post them and who might see them still seems to concern him. Being a exhibitionist and artist, and possibly the fact am a millennial and only 26 old growing up with technoly and the internet, I personally do not have to many hang ups about who sees me naked online. In many ways I suppose the whole artistic and freelance model image helps because it is largely accepted that artists and models see the human body differently and I for one have no ambition to ever become a public leader or high standing moral figure in any way, the type of career where sexuality, moral and religious values are constantly fine combed. The only situation I would probably like to avoid would be embarrassing family members, on his and my side, in which my nudity and sexuality is photographed and filmed in a very explicit way. Let's be honest I am fully aware that my father and brothers are men too and think and talk like all other men about women showcased in the ways I like to expose and show myself off to anybody out there. I can understand how shocked and hurt they would be if they ever see those pictures and videos of me, or find out from somebody else that I am secretly one of "those" girls. By all means would they defiantly be just as hurt as any other father or brother out there who finds out their seemingly innocent daughter/sister is the hot sl*t other men in the world discuss and sexually fantasizes about or look at totally naked to help them get sexually off with. Not even speaking about how my mother might react and feel. Still with all this in mind, the rush and sexual satisfaction I feel putting myself out there in that context, makes it hard to respect my husbands concerns and not push boundaries to far or recklessly. With that said from my side it would be nice to hear from you guys out there if you think its worth the risk and share your face and hope the wrong people never find out, or is it better to suppress the urges and rush you get from being seen and regodnized and play it safe and maintain as low a profile as possible?

[pball2295]

Originally Posted by Nakedeve

I guess this thread is aimed at the men and woman on OCC and probably every other person posting on an adult online site out there. Are you comfortable showing your face or the face of your partner in pictures and videos where you/her/him is naked or involved in a sexual act?

Good question! For starters, I thinking the "showing the face" question has got to be posed to the person being photographed first and foremost. As much as the idea of sharing my partner fully exposed online (face included) turns me on, I'd never do it to her (or anyone else) without their explicit permission. On the other hand, I do think it's fair that your husband has a vote in the matter too. Heaven forbid you were ever exposed in a major way, he'd be roped into the situation too.

Unfortunately, I think the only real answer is that "it depends." If your family would laugh it off if they ever found out, then who really cares? If it would crush them beyond measure...might want to think twice, lol. Personally, here's what I think. You mentioned you were an artist. The culture (and psychology) of female nude sharing is very much about voyuerism, reality, and amateurism. I think that a relatively "safe" way to show yourself off (face included) is to post artful nudes of yourself. Professional looking, rather than amateur "I'm sending these to you but never show anyone" type pics. Men still enjoy looking at artful nudes, but I don't imagine they'd run the risk of traveling far and wide, simply because the taboo-ness of voyuerism is stripped away, and it's just another nude of a model. I checked out some of your pics. First off, your'e a total babe. Congrats . Second of all, your black and white photos do give off that vibe, so I think you're already on the right track, at least in terms of staying fairly low-key.

The other thing to consider (quite frankly) is how attractive the person being shared is. You're hot, so you're in a bit more danger of being shared.

At the end of the day, I'd suggest two options. 1. Stick to artsy, erotic photos, rather than "girl next door" amateur photos...show your face on a side angle rather than straight on. 2. Really expose your body, be naughty (if that's your thing) and censor just a littleeee bit...like blurring your eyes. The chances of anyone ever discovering you are really, really minuscule. Even if they did, they'd have no reason to assume it's you.

Anyway...I realize you might not have been asking for personal advice, lol. Just thoughts.

[tobenida]

Yup there are views from both sides, I'm a member on a "youtube" type site and have several videos and pictures up of myself jerking off and many have my face in full view. Now, I restrict the people who can see it so it isn't just available from anywhere but I do accept the fact that they could or will be copied and shared...
If this was the case then if anyone did recognise me or queried I'd just either deny it or say they were stolen. Of course you've got the point that whoever saw them and you know them also would have to explain away how they came across them, more often on not on sites similar to this one or those "youtube" sites.
If it was someone on the same site then in a way it'll be exciting as they'd be on the site for the same reason as me so it'd be fascinating to see how it went from there, similarly if I recognised someone I know too the biggest dilemma would be to either get in touch and risk scaring them off or not to get in touch and then never getting any further to what could be a very exciting scenario!
Now saying all this there is the very real possibility of someone kicking up a storm about how they saw me jerking off and either being ridiculed or being accused of being disgusting when it's a harmless pursuit which brings pleasure to many people but I like to think that this possibility is smaller than me being run over by a bus lol
On the other hand I like to put back in what I receive and as I find watching others pleasure themselves showing faces etc exciting and enjoyable I like to do the same back, besides without faces it's almost starting to become a medical text book lol

[MrBrummell]

Originally Posted by Nakedeve

Personally I know that my husband is not comfortable knowing that there is pictures and videos available online in which I am clearly identifiable, he has no problem with me naked in front of anybody in real life, but the fact that those images of me will be available forever Worldwide and that there is no way of controlling where somebody might post them and who might see them still seems to concern him.

That's kind of my wife's stance. She would love to be fully naked with her face visible, but she has a job where face pictures getting loose would be a death sentence and we just can't afford to play that way. She loves it when I show her, face and all, to my friends (she actually gets quite ludicrously aroused by it) but posting her that way just can't happen.

I still hope someday I can share her in real life, but until then I'll settle for showing her to my friends and seeing their wives and girlfriends in return and loving the effect that has on her.

[Oralpleaser69]

Originally Posted by MrBrummell

That's kind of my wife's stance. She would love to be fully naked with her face visible, but she has a job where face pictures getting loose would be a death sentence and we just can't afford to play that way. She loves it when I show her, face and all, to my friends (she actually gets quite ludicrously aroused by it) but posting her that way just can't happen.

I still hope someday I can share her in real life, but until then I'll settle for showing her to my friends and seeing their wives and girlfriends in return and loving the effect that has on her.

My response is very similar to MrBrummell. I also think it is up to the woman because if they are recognized they would need to deal with the consequences. As for whether I should have a say in it, I am sure that my wife would take into account if it would affect me negatively or not, but at the end it is her body to show as she chooses. Luckily, I like others seeing her nude and she is fine with me showing our friends pics of her nude.

[Nakedeve]

Hi guys thank you all for your replies, and based on them it would seem that we all feel rather similar over the topic. I agree that being a model it takes allot away from the whole voyeur experience, something many of you is part off the community for. I am going to try to get Mr,Adam, to open his own profile and share his views with you. In many ways from my side I feel that being nude in photos and videos is pointless if nobody ever gets to see them....The reactions and the comments makes it so much more fun, especially when nobody ever expected they would get to see you naked....Naturally there are reasons that I am less shy or embarrassed about showing off my body but that is something I will share only once I feel you guys know me well enough.
I will probably very soon post normal clothed pics of me openly showing my face and who knows I might twist Hubby's arm to allow me to post more revealing and natural pics of myself and us, nude or maybe get him to share them with you. (A clothed/unclothed theme before and after specifically outdoor shoots is HIGH on my I want to share with you list...!) A couple of me nude in public or in a amateur setting might be more appealing to many of you and odds of getting caught out hopefully a bit less.
And to answer the guys who emailed me, Yes there is a few websites where I post my nudes I am not going to tell you where yet and if you have read what this thread is all about you will understand why. I am busy with a "art" "self awakening" video porn project as inspired and inline with the projects Missy Jubilee does in which I am going to share my thoughts and edited videos and pics from the age of 19 when I got together with Adam, up to now and forward as part of my exhibitionist once off bucket list. I would like to film all items on my list as part of a documentary about my kinda crazy life and if I can build up the guts and twist Adams arm share it publicly with everyone who is interested and hopefully help others with the same urges but have no one to help them live their fantasies out and make real life memories from them. I should probably put together a album for my profile but had to get comfortable on the site first and have to accept that the images I share here will be available out there forever...like the ones I shared in threads and didn't read the terms and conditions of all the way through only to realise I can't remove them and they are now always available for anyone to look at! Big mistake Major Turn On lol!

[rracoonz]

I have a nude pic of the wife on my wood shop wall. Her only concern is if young children might get a view. I reassure her it is covered when kids are around. However, any adult coming into my shop has a clear view of the pic, with her laying completely naked on the bed with our dog. Should they show any interest, I offer them a view of an album, sitting right under the pic. The album has no actual sexual content, but every angle of all parts of her body, including facial expressions, great ass shots, pussy shots, and tit shots are in it. She trusts my judgement on who may be shown the album. All the album pics are in plastic sleeves with tape sealing the opening of them, so none can be removed. (Although I tell them it is to keep all the saw dust out.) Probably most of my friends and neighbors have seen the album. A few head straight for it whenever they drop by, just to see if i have updated anything. A lot of women have also seen the pic on the wall. Interestingly, most of the women have said they wished their husband cared enough to keep a nude pic of them handy like that! I have offered to take a pic for them, but so far no takers! LOL

I also have a hidden security camera in my shop and will often excuse myself to run into the house for a moment and watch the guys reactions on a monitor as they review the album.

But, long story short... I don't share pics of her, with face showing, anywhere that I don't have control over the pics and who sees them.

[Havingfunwithus2]

No would be my immediate answer, although I have done so and I have become slightly more comfortable with the idea but still to only a few people whom I hopefully have not misplaced my trust in.

The potential impact it could have on my life or that of my family really worries me. My husband is also quite concerned and is more cautious than I am, though he has left it in my hands how much I wish to show and is constantly reminding me once on the web it will always be there. So thus far with few exceptions I sadly have cropped or blurred most of my images where my face is showing.

[Archelon]

No, not for me or for my wife. Even the two most sexually promiscuous people I have ever known don't put their faces in their nude and/or topless photos.

Why? It only takes one wrong person to make your life a living Hell, that's why. Ask anybody who has ever been stalked by an ex or even a prospective suitor. I have a couple of online acquaintances to whom this kind of thing. One, a woman, had a work colleague in whom she had 0 interest find her online photos with her face. He made her life such a living Hell that she quit her job and moved out of state to get out of the situation.

And, I have posted a couple of clothed and in public, faceless pics online of my wife. And the pushy assholes that contact me by email leave me no doubt that it would just be more shit than I want to deal with even to post clothed, in public pics with her face in them.

I know the odds are small, but the downside is huge.

Your mileage may vary and, at least for the OP, apparently does.

[eviltwin]

Originally Posted by Havingfunwithus2

No would be my immediate answer, although I have done so and I have become slightly more comfortable with the idea but still to only a few people whom I hopefully have not misplaced my trust in.

The potential impact it could have on my life or that of my family really worries me. My husband is also quite concerned and is more cautious than I am, though he has left it in my hands how much I wish to show and is constantly reminding me once on the web it will always be there. So thus far with few exceptions I sadly have cropped or blurred most of my images where my face is showing.

Totally understand, it’s a shame it has to be like that, but there are so many assholes out there...
Your pictures are still beautiful though, you have a great body!