[Group Sex] Your Swapping / Swinging Experiences

[SilverSinner69]

Hi Everyone,

I'd love to hear your swapping/swinging experiences and whether you thought pre-covid that "The Lifestyle" was increasing in popularity here's one of my quite recent experiences.

A couple of years ago I started seeing a then recently divorced lady Sue she'd got out of a crappy, loveless marriage and was now VERY keen to make up for lost time and wanted to experience things she felt she'd missed out on. In the July
I suggested a "naughty" weekend away to the northern UK resort of Blackpool ! we booked into a small but very nice bed and breakfast - I don't know about anyone else but staying in B&Bs and hotels always get me horny ! it did the trick with Sue too no sooner had we got in the room than she was rubbing my cock through my jeans and wanting to "test" the bed ! and did we ! we fucked like crazy not caring if anyone heard us that was part of the thrill.
The following day Saturday we went down to breakfast where we met Claire who was waiting on the tables she was a typical bubbly northern blonde about thirty with a great figure she wore black tights and pink tabard that was just short enough to see her arse added to that she had great tits too we laughed and joked with her and my jokes got dirtier as I tested the waters - happily Claire loved it !
Now the main reason I'd suggested Blackpool was because a few weeks earlier Sue and I had talked about going to a swingers club I knew in the resort and now I was going to revisit the idea, after breakfast we went for a walk down the "Prom" Promenade - coastal front ! and stopping at a bar I suggested the idea to Sue - her face lit up and I could see she was very excited by the prospect - we headed back into Blackpool and bought Sue some sexy lingerie that she could wear that night - it was all we could do to keep our hands off each other hahahaha !
That night we had a few drinks before making our way to the club I dont know if it was because it was July but the first thing we noticed was that it was busy ! once in the club initially we decided to stay clothed but had keys for lockers we made our way to the "chill out" lounge where we sat chatting with some great people and drinking some of the drink we'd brought with us.
Suddenly a familiar voice called out "Hi" there was Claire wearing just a pair of red stilettoes fuck she looked good her trim fit body, tanned and with some tattoos looked amazing her tits were ample and very pert and her pussy was shaved both Sue's and my faces must have been a picture since Claire burst out laughing as did Sue and me, we kissed and Claire went off to find her boyfriend, returning shortly afterwards with a tall well built guy called Gary we had a few drinks and chatted some more and then Claire said it "So are we playing?" Sue and I looked at each other "Oh yes" we both said before heading back to undress, Sue wore her stilettoes and new stockings and suspenders but left off both her bra and g-string, I was naked and carried our towels, we found Claire and Gary again they'd managed to get us a play room - not easy given that the place was very busy !
The four of fucked the rest of night away I loved watching Claire and Sue 69, and watching Sue being fucked hard by Gary while I was fucking Claire.
What a great weekend that was and one I hope to repeat in the future.

[ripstar1]

I have been in the lifestyle for many years. I'm short of time now, but I will contribute later.

[GRITS]

All ours are on the... OPEN- sharing your wife...THREAD.

[samsucci]

A picture is worth a thousand words. That’s my ex getting her pussy licked. I enjoyed fucking the other 2 ladies and another one not the pic. Both those guys fucked my ex + another guy.
Good times! A crazy night just a lot of dancing, drinking and sex.

[mamanrc]

We've been in the lifestyle for 5 or so years. Married 14yrs. It's been fun. We're more FwB people than out right swingers. Have only met one couple we didn't see eye to eye on. But then again we don't get out much either due to kids and some finance issues.

It's been positive. Can't be jealous at all. Communication is key. Overall it's been a fun sexy ride. We're kid free Saturday and I'm hoping we can convince the wife we need to get out and meet another couple for drinks.

[Handiwerker]

My experience of swinging/swapping lifestyle (in the UK) started with an ex, Amy, just a few years ago now
We got together when we were both 22 and lasted for about 30 months when we split for something not connected with swinging.
Our sex life was great from the start, we got to talk freely about fantasies and one time when watching internet porn, Amy admitted that a particular 4some video was really turning her on. We developed this into our sex action, talking as if it was and would happen but didn’t do anything particular to push it until during an especially good session, mention was made of ‘sex club’ or ‘sex parties’.

We both spent time investigating the possibilities and eventually decided on a swingers club advertised near Bournemouth which seemed to fit the bill and indeed was hosting a ‘Uni Night’ a few weeks later. One of our considerations was we thought the swingers lifestyle was more an older ‘thing’, so the likelihood of young students more in our age group appealed. Since we lived a distance away we booked a hotel for the weekend and travelled down arriving Friday afternoon and proceeded to prepare ourselves for the club later that evening. We’d thought a lot about how Amy should dress for this new experience and decided on heels and barely black hold ups and a pretty bra and thong set, under a zipped shortish leather skirt and lacy top. She did look fab and we almost thought of a shag before the club !

It was a bring your own drink club (but they also had a pay bar) so we got a couple of bottles of wine and glasses and arrived at the club not really knowing what would happen. The receptionist was a pretty student type and explained everything…we could just chill out in one of the lounges , use the sauna and pool and any of the fun (bed) rooms were free to use whenever. She gave us a key for a locker to leave personal stuff and clothes It didn’t seem overly busy but we were pleased to see most looked like 18- mid 20’s which relaxed us a lot. We thought ok, let’s take one bottle and sit and chill in one of the lounges and see what transpires.

It wasn’t too long before we started a conversation with a couple ( we discovered named Jo and Sam 19 and 21) who were similarly virgins at this sort of event. I must say the sexual tension was rising especially as we could see partially into a couple of the bedrooms where obviously others were in various stages of sex ( and indeed within the lounge itself). Since we had got on, we thought…what now?... I think Sam said words to the effect , let’s go for it before the beds get filled . We found one room with two big queen size beds and both were free free, walked in and Sam and I got undressed to boxers ( and the slippers the club had provided) while the girls took our clothes to the locker room and shortly came back dressed in their lingerie….wow they both looked great and I certainly couldn’t help a little rise to the occasion! Amy had a sexy tan after our holidays a few weeks before and Jo was in black bra and panties , hold ups ( good choice for Amy too).. They were giggling and said they had had several offers and a few touches from boys on the way back to us This increased my horniness, even just looking at Amy and she whispered about how she was so excited too..

Seems strange now but when we all got on the bed we sort of agreed and shook hands (lol) about ‘well, here we are, whatever goes down as long as we are all ok about it’

(There is so much more I could add about that evening but whilst composing this I realise I have already gone into more words than I anticipated)

What an evening it turned out to be… Amy had shagged and been filled up with cum by Sam , also some uni boy had nearly cum inside her and then a random boy empties his balls over her and Jos faces. I’d filled Amy and also shot into Jos mouth and then ate out some unknown uni girl And none of us were drunk!... well drunk with the excitement of it all

We all decided enough was enough and went for showers, meeting up and finishing the second bottle we never had in the bedroom. We offered for them to come back to our hotel but sensibly decided it was already late and we needed to consider everything we had all experienced . But we met the next lunchtime , spent the Saturday afternoon doing touristy stuff and then all back to our hotel…but that is another story.

We stayed in contact with Sam and Jo and occasionally would travel and meet up and replicate in part, that initiation evening. Amy and I also tried another couple of swingers clubs although neither matched to the exciting first time. What we did however was, usually during our holidays abroad, meet and connect with other couples in our age range and using a drunken night as an excuse, drop swinging and swapping into the conversations…. Happily many such situations ended up with the four of us in bed. Indeed, one couple we met and staying in touch with, introduced a third couple when we met at a midway hotel for our two monthly swinging sessions back in UK,so that was a particularly hectic and fun weekend.

Details of those times and the latter situations when we would use Tinder to get couples ( rare) or single lads for Amy to enjoy while I watched are maybe things I could relate another time. The disappointment is that after Amy, none of my GFs would be on the same swinging/swapping wavelength… yes of course, me and ex’s got on and had fun but I always remember those years fondly

I have gone on far too long and in way too much detail so had better conclude briefly. But doing this has brought back so many fun sexy memories. They say you should never regret what you have done, just what you haven’t….so I am so glad Amy and I and the several others we met, had the safe , happy, horny and non-complicated times we did

I have attached a photo of Amy from the holiday we went on just before that first swingers club evening, so you can appreciate why she got the looks and more that night

[Handiwerker]

Originally Posted by Borracho100

This is a fabulous account; thanks for sharing it. Did you ever get to watch Amy with another girl?

Hey
Not like totally one on one, but whilst in a foursome , yes there were several times the girls would just play together
Cheers

[Rachellus]

I am posting this in two parts. This is what led up to our first sharing experience


I have been in open relationships with previous boy friends and while they can be exciting and interesting none of them have went the distance of a long term relationship to anything close to marriage. Now I am in a relationship that has been very sexual and very normal in a monogamous sort of way. He is over 20 years older than me and we have a great friendship.

A friend of mine in this forum asked me the other day if he and I read the forums together and talk about our experiences. We do not read the forums together and in fact he does not know I relate my life experiences here.

But . . . We do discuss our experiences and he knows a lot of general knowledge concerning my past. He says it does not bother him and I believe him because I have been with guys who want to know all the wild stuff of your past and then every time you have a disagreement, they throw it in your face. I don’t waste my time going any further in a relationship any more once that happens.

Two weeks ago on a Thursday night we were discussing open relationships and people we knew in them. The talk went from that to my own experience and the single relationship he had in college with a girl that he said was his first true love. I was in flannel pjs, warm but hardly sexy and he had on a pair of sweatpants that often doubled for his pjs in cooler weather. We lay on top of the bed talking and half watching a show we had already seen on TV before.

He asked me if I had ever let guys take pictures of me having sex and I sighed and I told him the truth, his eyes growing wide as I told him about pictures, a short sex video I did for a short film that never got finished because of financing and various other times a camera may have been present. He said he wished he could see them. I got up and went to my big jewelry lock box and unlocked it and got out the SD drive and my lap top.

I asked, “Are you sure you want to see these? You can’t ‘unsee’ them.”

He assured me he did. So I put the drive in the USB port and called up my viewer, went to the folder and opened it for him. I showed him where to click to move forward and I lay beside him as he checked out the picture of me giving a blow job in a bathroom to an obviously older man.

“Who was he?” he asked me as I shook my head and refused to tell him.

“I am not telling you names,” I said finally. “It was in college and I wasn’t the only college girl who was giving him blow jobs that semester.” He looked at me and went to the next picture and it was the same guy, but the intentness of my face indicated correctly I was trying to swallow the cum being shot down my throat.

“He shaved himself,” he noticed.

“He had shaved himself. I think older guys who watch porn see it and they do it.” I looked in his eyes. “Just my opinion. I don’t know for sure.”

I noticed he was hard and I reached over and loosened the string on his sweatpants and he moved them and his briefs down as I took his semi-erect cock in my hand and started jacking it off. He kind of groaned in satisfaction and moved down a little to lay more on his back as he checked out my pictures.

His cock was hot and hard in my hand as I rolled the skin over the head and he sighed from the feelings as he looked at a short video clip of me in a play – no nudity. He smiled at me.

“You looked sexy in that play,” he said, closing his eyes and just enjoying the hand job.

“Are you finished looking?” I asked and he opened his eyes and shook his head. He started looking again, asking me questions when he had one.

“Why are these pictures so blue?” he asked me as I seen he was looking at the stills from the short film video I had made.

“In filmmaking they use green screen and blue screen for special effects, but I think he did that for the surrealism. My character is his young wife who had sex with men from the internet and he had hidden cameras to tape it. She was dead and he was watching video of her encounters.”

I explained it in more depth and he was very interested as he perused that set of pictures.

I had not stopped rubbing his cock and the tip was moist with his excitement. He was breathing pretty hard. Soon he told me he was about to cum.

“This is a no-mess hand job,” I said, taking his shaft in my mouth and squeezing it harder as I rubbed him. With a grunt he cum in my mouth as I swallowed every thing he gave me. His right hand was in my hair as he held it and the lap top with his left. When he finished cumming, I started rubbing him again.

Before he finished looking he came a second time and it too was a no-mess hand job and he put my lap top to the side. I took the drive and put it back in my lock box.

He said, “I would like to watch another guy fuck you.”

I laughed. “You are just horny!”

He laughed. “I am but I have came twice and I came once from my birthday blow job this morning. (Yes, I am still doing those every morning until the 1st of the year). “ He shrugged his shoulders. “Would you do that?”

Nodding, I said, “I will, but you have to be sure you really want me to do that.”

“When Marvin comes to visit the weekend before Thanksgiving, I think I would want you to do it with him,” he said.

Well, I am not that fond of Marvin. He is my boy friend’s best friend he grew up with. When my boy friend and I first started dating seriously Marvin and his wife was getting a divorce and he was a horse’s ass to her and maybe she deserved it, but I did not like the way he treated her. My boy friend told me I had seen the bad side of a good man, but I was not comfortable around Marvin.

I knew he trusted Marvin. I knew Marvin lived across the state from us and was someone we did not see that often. I knew he seemed to be very loyal to my boyfriend.

My boyfriend pulled me close to him and I lay in the crook of his arm. “I never had a problem with it in college with that girlfriend. She is the one that broke it off with me.”

I knew that because he had told me before. “If you want me to do it, I will, but you have to set it up.” He smiled and kissed me. Then he rolled to his side and started taking off my pj bottoms and panties. I felt him spread my legs apart as he kissed my tummy and then started sucking on my pussy and clit. I figured he was going to give me a good oral orgasm, but I was wrong. He fucked me for quite a while that evening before he came inside of me. I had came twice during that same amount of time.

I was not sure about the coming weekend with Marvin. It would be a lot to think about.

[JonThink]

A friend of ours has wanted to fuck my wife for a long time. He was willing to trade his wife for mine. The only problem is that his wife did not turn me on sufficiently to trade my wife for her. He has said numerous times that I should be more amorous with his wife and have failed to do so to date. Of course, I know that what he wants is that I start fucking around with his wife, so he can do mine.

Before we went out together as couples this past Friday evening, he began telling me to get amorous with his wife. However, just recently my wife has had some female problems and can't fuck again without a surgery. I had to tell him that this was the case. He said, "All bullshit!" However, I convinced him that it was true. He then said, "Well, she can still give me a B.J., can't she?" I agreed that that was a possibility.

So after dinner we came back to our place and climbed into the hot tub with all totally nude. He gave me the look that it was time to start playing with his wife. I did, and she was most receptive. She grabbed my dick while I played with her pussy, and we both worked on each other. The other guy started playing with my wife's tits and kissing them. She also appeared to enjoy the attention he was giving her. We all had been drinking margaritas for dinner and had now started having straight shots of Tequila. My wife and his wife both get loaded on Tequila and lose their heads. His wife started ducking under water and taking my dick in her mouth. She did this numerous times. Then I saw my wife place her arms and hands under the other guy's butt, and raise he and his dick to the surface of the water. Then she began giving him a B.J. He managed to support himself in that position to allow her to free her hands. She kept working on him in that fashion. His wife asked me to sit on the edge of the hot tub while she crawled between my legs and started providing me with a B.J.

My wife was really working on the guy and giving him all he could handle. Finally, he blew his load. I knew my wife was really drunk, because she does not like to swallow. He held her head down on his cock, and she licked down every last drop of his load. Then she passed out while laying over the side of the hot tub. He could tell that his wife and I were fully engaged, and said, "Don't worry, I will put your wife to bed." I said, "Now, you know medically that you can't fuck her. Is that agreed?" He seemed offended by my comment and said, "No worries -- what do you think I am." So, off the two of them went to our bedroom. In the meantime, I suggested that his wife and I get out of the hot tub and lay on the grass for a while. She agreed. As soon as we hit the grass, she started climbing all over me. We commenced to full-fledged fucking right then and there. We both enjoyed a great climax. Then we returned to the hot tub. I don't know whether she ever told her husband we had fucked. At that stage, when we finally went back into the house, he obviously thought she had only provided me only with a B.J., which she had once we went back into the hot tub. I didn't want the guy to think that he had been shortchanged by not getting a fuck that night, so I never corrected his assumption. Although his wife doesn't turn me on all that much, I think I will do her again and again. It was certainly good enough!

[Captain Carter]

Our first time was before we got married. We met the couple at the church for the vicars get together for new couples getting married in the same month. It was part course part well sex ed thing lol. But also so the couples could have others to share the journey. We instantly was draw to an other couple in their 30’s and we laughed and joked. He encouraged us to be open with others etc. so this was six months out from the wedding. We had these 2 times a month. Second time we swapped numbers and addresses. Me and fiancé went up to an erotica convention. We had an eye opening time there it was not what we had expected but in a good way. We bought and we got a train home. But on the train was the couple we paired up with. We got chatting and she saw a tag to some underwear we had bought and said did I love this brand. We laughed and went red and she flashed her bra and said see. He said we are going to the eroticas convention tomorrow you should join. We said we had already been. He laughed and said if the vicar could see us now.

We chatted and agreed to go again with them. We arranged to meet at the station the next day. We kissed good bye and they seem move touchy to us. My fiancé said I think I felt his cock in his jeans pressing. I said she pushed her tongue to my lips. We thought nothing of it. She wore the outfits we got and one was too big so I said good job we are going back. She got out the toy and said fuck me with this as I suck u off.

We slept like a log and we got a txt could we met at their place and we said ok. We got there and he was in a towel and said sorry we was running late. We walked into the kitchen and there was another couple and said hi. They went upstairs and then left. She came down In A towel and said sorry she kissed us and said to my fiancé would she help her into her dress and she said ok they went upstairs ( later found out he walked outta the onsuite naked and she saw ) then he came down in something not really him leather trousers and tight top. Then fiancé came down and told me she saw his cock and that they are not new to this convention and she walked down in a lace dress tight not hiding anything she grabbed a long coat and thigh boots and said we have to run to make the next train.

The chat was normal on the train. We got off and wasn’t long.before we was at the event. She left her coat in the cloakroom and first we went to change my fiancé outfit and this is when the couple started to be more open. We walked around and they was hugging and kissing others. Got to a friends booth and she was wearing on of his dresses he said who’s this and she told them. He said well can’t have u not wearing me a dress and joked in public anyway he said boys go for a walk. While walking the guy told us who the couple was this morning and all about swinging. We met a lady that he knew and he introduced me to her and she smiled and said where’s Jill he told her and she said well I will go find her. We walked around and he said we best get back and there was my fiancé in a white lace dress her nipples was hard and out and she had on a thong that was so obvious lol. She walked over in bare feet and said do u like. I said do it. She said good as I do too. She kissed me and said is it working as she grabbed my co k and said oh it is. I said it would be better without the thong as the owner came up. He hugged me and said that’s what I said and she said you would let her. He said to me can I do the honours and I said if she keeps the dress. He said it’s hers already. He gently pulled the tight last r and removed the thong and smiled as he handed it to me and said she likes it a lot more than she’s letting on. I felt why.

The rest of the day was like that they posed for pics and then we got a train home. Talk was very open. They answered all our questions ………….. we got off the train and we walked to where we would go one way and they would go to the other. We stopped and hugged and then the guy said did we want to come back to theirs no pressure to fuck but we would love to. I looked at fiancé and she said it was getting late. We kissed and the lady pushed her tongue in my mouth and her hand went to my crotch. My fiancé got her ass squeezed as they kissed. We said good night and we walked away hand in hand. We got down the road say 5 mins when we stopped and she said was we mad to not go with them and I said we can say no if we want and she said let’s go. We walked fast lol got to their house and knocked on the door. The door was open and a voice said come in. We was greeted by her on her knees sucking his big cock. He said we had a feeling. He moved and walked over and said come in. He took my fiancé long coat and smiled as her nipples was on show and said do u want a drink. She said please. His gf stood up and kissed me and said first test passed as guys don’t always kiss a girl after her sucked a cock.

She said I would love to see what’s under here but I can wait as she gripped my crotch. I lolled at my fiancé and she was talking but looking at his cock as he handed her a drink and then me. He said we can go as slow or as fast as u want. I took the drink in one and said I feel over dressed and took off my shirt and went to take my belt off and she went don’t let me. She knelt down and undid the belt and then my jeans and then saw my lump and smog d looked at fiancé and said nice. She didn’t waste any time and she pulled it down and i sprang into life. She took it in her hands and pulled back the skin and looked it over. She licked the tip and then sucked the helmet. She then turned to her bf and said don’t be a bad host and at least ask the lady what she wants. He moved over and said sorry I was waiting for you to make ur oooohhhhh as my fiancé took his cock and moved her open mouth to it. She sucked him and me and him looked at each other. Then his gf stopped and watched. She sat next my fiancé as she sucked hard and reached between her legs. She opened them adjusting and we all heard how wet she was. The guy was heavy breathing and u could tell he was gonna cum his gf said move back and he did. My gf smiled and leaned back and had a few tears in her eyes. The gf told us both to leave the room as i heard my gf cry a bit.

I was worried. He said don’t worry. It’s just nerves I bet you. We poured a few drinks and about 10 mins later his gf came out and she was made up and in underwear sorta and kissed her bf and said to me she’s ok. She was shocked how excited she found it all. She wants a chat. I went and she said wait she left a lipstick mark on my cock. I went in the living room she was there in underwear we bought and she said sorry for that. She kissed me and said as she looked me in the eyes I want to do this. She looked at my cock and smiled and said I got a mark too. And sat down and opened her legs. Across her pussy lips was the same colour lipstick mark I smiled and said so ur ok with her too. She smiled and said I have a confession at the booth I did touch and kiss her already. I said wow. She said ur not upset. I kissed her and said how could I be. We went in the kitchen and they was there waiting and we kissed each other and my fiancé walked over to the guy and said u want to follow ur wife’s lead and clean her lipstick. I looked at his gf and she made an oops face. I kissed her and said to her let’s see who’s better at licking u ladies. So we took them up to the bed room and I went down on her and he went down on my fiancé lol. They turned into 69 and them both cumming. Then it was time to bust our cherry’s and it was hot. We started with missionary first as we both wanted to watch. She said to me don’t worry if u cum it’s ok. My fiancé asked me was. It ok if he came in her and I said I can’t say no can I. She leaned up and some how we kissed. Then Back to fucking the ladies held hands or touched each other. Was t long before he came first and a min later I came. He pumped in her and waited then pulled out and moved to his gf and she sucked him as I came in her. I looked over at a very very flushed fiancé and her pussy was leaking another man’s cum. I pulled out and offered my fiancé my cock. She licked it at first then liking it she sucked me. The gf moved over and went down on my fiancé that got us both hard again and he moved round and slid in to my girl again. This time she had us both. We swapped over and over. We stay there till the morning. I woke up to my fiancé sucking his cock as his gf was fingering herself. Then we had breakfast and showered and we left. We walked home happy and a little sore but in a good way. We was staying still at her parents and well they was a little worried was didn’t tell them lol. Mother was more down to earth than her husband ever was lol.

We didn’t see them till the next church meeting and that was about sun and not straying lol we had to keep it together.