Do you know something sexual about your wife's past that she doesn’t know you know?

[Wdyitc]

I started a thread a while back called “Do you know something sexual about a woman that her spouse does not know?” This is a similar question. Are you aware of something about your wife or girlfriend’s past that she doesn’t realize you know? How does it make you feel? Jealous? Aroused? I have two examples.

My wife and I were open about our sex lives from the beginning. But I think it’s normal to exclude certain things. My wife said I was her ninth sex partner. And she told me about each one. A few one night stands but mostly ex boyfriends. This doesn’t bother me at all. In fact I found some of her stories, especially the one night stands to be quite arousing.

A few years ago, we stayed with a couple she had known for a very long time. My wife and the other wife were out shopping and the husband had a stack of photos. There was one group shot where my wife and a guy I didn’t recognize had their arms around each other. The husband explained it was a camping trip with three couples when they were just out of high school and made some offhand comment about how the family next door to their campsite must have been annoyed by the sounds of three couples having sex in their respective tents at night. Now it’s possible they didn’t have sex but he was pretty adamant that there were three separate women moaning at the same time so they must have at least been fooling around. I’m not sure why she excluded this particular sexual partner but part of me suspects that maybe her “magic number” is higher than she originally disclosed. This particular guy just didn’t make the final list. I’ve debated over the years whether to bring it up. I’d love to find out she had more stories.

The other story is about one of her exes I was aware of. Shortly after we started dating she had an old laptop repaired so she could save her college papers and recover some photos. She disclosed that there were a lot of her and one particular ex she was dating at the time of the laptop. They ended on a bad note and she hates him to this day. I asked if they were nudes and she admitted there were some but she had deleted all the photos of him and the nudes because she didn’t want to remember. Well, a day or two later I was home alone and curiosity got the best of me. My wife has never been computer efficient so I opened her laptop to see the recycling basket icon was full. She had deleted but not emptied the bin. I opened it up and found about 200 photos. Mostly just them at parties or camping. But probably about 30 or so were sexual in nature. The thing is they weren’t just photos of her taken by him. There were photos from her perspective of him naked. She has always claimed I’m as big as anyone she dated but that’s obviously a lie. This guy is about 8 inches to my 6.5. I don’t have any issue with my size but it’s interesting she lied about it. Makes me think she enjoyed the bigger cock more. I couldn’t resist and saved them to a flash drive then put them on my laptop and emailed them to a secret email I use then erased them off my laptop and flash drive. She has no idea. I’m not sure why but every once in a while I get the urge and I go flip through them. There’s everything from her blowing him to fucking. And even 5 short video clips. Recognizing her moans in these clips but caused by another guy is very hot to me.

Anyone have stories to share?

[raysallx]

That was quite a jackpot you found in her computer's trash bin.

I don't have anything nearly as spicy, but one day my wife's best friend told me about how they both lost their virginity. They had decided it was time. They lived in a group house with male and female roommates, and as luck would have it a couple guys from out of state came to visit their male roommates. My wife told me it was a one night stand, but her friend said they had sex with the guys the first night they arrived, and they stayed a week. Everybody was about 20 years old, so you can imagine the amount of fucking that took place. I have tried to get more details from my wife, but she claims to not remember...

[Thatguyhusband]

Oh I know quite a bit that the Mrs thinks is secret to me.

A few examples being: she let my friend finger her long before her and I got married, let alone open our relationship. He told me all the details after he found out we were swinger.

I also know she blew a guy she was talking to online when she went to a girls weekend.

I also know her and her bf swapped with another couple at a sex club just a few months ago.


Non of the actions on their own bother me, as I encourage such behavior, it’s the lying that sucks.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by Thatguyhusband

Non of the actions on their own bother me, as I encourage such behavior, it’s the lying that sucks.

Yep, we have a deal that I can touch and do things with my wife's lonely best friend (but not sex) as long as I tell my wife everything. If I leave something out, then it's cheating, but if I get her friend off without intercourse and tell my wife, then it's all perfectly fine!

[Daddygd]

I knew she lived with a very old couple before we got married. They were old enough to be her great grandparents at least they looked that way. She was quiet young in her early years of college when we met and she moved in with me and we got married. She visited them quite often after we got married, mostly while I was at work.

They passed away a few years later. They had willed everything to her. While cleaning out their home so she could sell it, I found a large boot box in their closet. It was full of pictures of the three of them and several other old people having sex with her. I have never asked her about them but then of course, she doesn't know I have them and doesn't know I found out about her past.

[1michael]

When my wife and I had talk for awhile about having our daughter away at college for 4 nice Long years and what we should do for adding more Spice into our SEX life, we went to our neighbors for a lesson!
We knew they went to plenty of Adult Events with other friends and neighbors, along with the naughty things that happen at these places and how the women get exposed for strangers as well as pics!
It was our 1st time at the neighbors house on a week-end and we got invited to view some of their Naughty adventures!
I have to say that finally being able to view my neighbors Busty wife, showing off her tits in public for strangers was exciting!
After we had a few drinks and were able to relax the nervous tensions, the clothing started to come off but I was still a bit timid or worried about being all exposed with another couple even if we both knew them so well~
There came a time when my wife got tired of just waiting around to see if anything was going to happen or maybe we'll have to call it a night, so she moved over to the Busty neighbors hubby and started to fondle his cock with her hand and later her tongue too!
My wife would look at me while she played around with the neighbors cock that she got to grow and did plenty of oral on it now too!
I did get to the point of enjoying his Busty wife too, but it always stuck in my head that it seemed to me that my wife was a little too fast for playing around with another guy in front of me!
I was a little leery about doing anything to the neighbors wife, in front of him and my wife too while this would be the first time for both of us!
So I kept my mouth shut for many years and never said nor asked a word about what I was thinking!
So just lately I seen the neighbor outside and went to chat with him about Summer coming around, then I brought up my thoughts about my wife!
He stood there for awhile without saying a word, then said if I told you the truth I hope and don't want you mad at me or any of us! I told him that I was glad that it happened and wished it would have been sooner, but I wasn't sure if it was something I should talk to my wife about sharing SEX?
Then neighbor Rich spilled the beans, he said him and his wife Carol got frisky while nude in their house and started going to it in the kitchen! They were so involved with doing everything that they didn't notice my wife was in their house and watching the action. When they noticed her, they stopped and covered up a bit by hand while my wife was giving the reason she came over and since nobody came to the door she just walked in~!
They had a conversation going on, but it seemed like the reason for covering up now wasn't needed and they both enjoyed having my wife standing there and looking at them all nude!
For those few minutes Rich was loosing his erection, so my wife and Carol both noticed it. Carol grabbed Rich's cock and started to stroke it while asking my wife is she wanted to help her out?
Rich told me that it wasn't long before my wife was dong handy work on his cock, while Carol was trying to get my wife's clothing off~
After that sexual play was over, Rich said that my wife was stopping over pretty frequent for sex with both of them!
Then they all got to the point of thinking different ways to get me involved in the same naughty action?
All of that now made more sense to me for watching my wife doing the girl or girl thing with never talking about it but jumping into it on the first chance with Carol~
I was told this was going on for a few months and Rich said he wore a condom every time he had gone all the way with my wife!
So now the only ones that know about this and me finding out is me & Rich, I asked him not to tell Carol cause she might blab it out to my wife!
But when you have that gut feeling, you might be right as I was on my thoughts!

[piecenick]

My wife used to teach middle school, students between 12-15 y/o, just when they are little hormone machines. Occasionally she would have to confiscate porn that the kids were passing around in class. Mostly it was Penthouse type stuff from the boys, those got thrown in the trash, sometimes the girls would pass around X-rated romance novels. I found out that the women teachers would pass these around to each other as masturbation material, not only that they would talk about the sexiest ones, usually BDSM related stories.