Jacking off in relationships

[SixPointFive]

We were away this weekend without the kids. A boozy lunch was followed up by a boozy afternoon and falling into bed early and making good use of the alone time by having sex a couple of times. Next morning I woke with a raging boner and when I made it known to my wife, she declined more sex and suggested I jerk it myself. Not needing to be told twice I started to jerk as she sat in the bed next to me fixing her make up and giving me the odd sideways glance. She even passed me the tissues when I was done.
I've jerked in front of her before, but it's usually as part of sex or her finishing me off. This was the first time I've jerked as if no one was there and it's the best step towards just doing it without permission should we be lying in bed together at night/in the morning. Quite like the idea of her waking up to find me wanking or me just starting up as she's flipping through Facebook before we go to sleep....

[FarleyGingle]

My wife knows that I masturbate regularly, she encourages it.

Her favourite foreplay is to ask me about my most recent sessions. She likes it best when I've masturbated to her pictures, to fantasies of her friends, or hetero-flexible porn. The more detail the better. Occasionally I'll video myself to include the porn I am watching and she loves that.

"Have you jerked off lately?"

"Yes, last night, i made a video"

"show me!"

[arsicus]

I had a conversation with my wife about the fact that I have a higher sex drive than she does and it leads me to struggle to focus.

Her response: "Why not just masturbate"?

Music to my ears because she has basically given me carte blanche to masturbate whenever I want.

I decided to push my luck a little bit and respond a little later with:

"If I'm going to masturbate, I'd rather it be to pictures of you"

Cue photo session

[pedals]

Originally Posted by arsicus

I had a conversation with my wife about the fact that I have a higher sex drive than she does and it leads me to struggle to focus.

Her response: "Why not just masturbate"?

Music to my ears because she has basically given me carte blanche to masturbate whenever I want.

I decided to push my luck a little bit and respond a little later with:

"If I'm going to masturbate, I'd rather it be to pictures of you"

Cue photo session

This isn't dissimilar to my experience. We always had wildly different sex drives, mine being higher. I've always masturbated, whereas she rarely did, even when younger. As the decades have gone on, her interest has declined further.
She has always known that I masturbate. In years gone by, I'd often do it even at the end of a fucking session, as I felt the need for a second orgasm. Jealous of the wife having multiples? Despite her low sex drive she has always had a lot of orgasms, which seems a bit odd to me.

Because of her lack of interest, sex with the wife, is far less frequent than it used to be. Therefore, masturbation takes up the slack. She is OK with this. Recently, we have been far more open, talking about it.

[Dfa1980]

I’ve had relationships where the sex had dried up nearly entirely. So I would jack off every day. I had one girlfriend who didn’t like that I did it but also only would have sex with me once a week at most. When we had sex she would analyze how much I came and if there wasn’t much sperm she would ask if I had been jerking off and get mad about it. Crazy behavior. Once I realized how nutty she was I broke it off with her.

[thefergieferg1]

Mutual masturbation is key to a happy sex life, experts claim

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/a...rts-claim.html