What turns you on most about the thought of your wife or GF with another?

[MFN]

Your original question was about "the thought of...", so I'll address that.

She's had lots of cocks in her before me, and I do think about it a lot. What turns me on the most is the thought of her public fucks. I witnessed some of the outdoor ones and I cherish those memories, just like she does. The visuals of certain hard cocks pistoning in and out of her as she smiles and laughs stays with you for a long time. The real turn on is when her smile explodes into an orgasm, the guy pulls out and she lets her legs flop open.

She always allowed watchers but never photos. The images in my mind are better than any photograph.

I enjoy fantasising, but she's actually done nearly everything I can fantasise. Just wish I'd been there for the early stuff.

[MFN]

Originally Posted by Emperor Wang

I've given this whole thing a lot of thought (it's what I do!). ... "She can suck a dozen other men's cocks and I'm fine with it but if I caught her having a romantic dinner with anyone else I'd totally lose it."

I agree. Even though she hasn't shared her body outside our marriage, I think maybe I'd be OK with her doing so as long as she didn't become emotionally attached. I don't think I could fuck a woman without getting emotionally attached, which I really wouldn't want to deal with, but she's always told me she can compartmentalise recreational sex from emotional commitment.

[hip_i]

Our sharing days are over but looking back the thing that blew my mind the most was the time when my wife rejoined me in our bedroom having just been creampied by my best friend in our spare bedroom. Her sheer glee and joy at having succeeded in seducing him to completion sent me wild.

So even though I'd always been squeamish about immediately entering her c*nt whilst still full of another man's cum, the urge to reclaim her was utterly irrestisble. Her still-hot slipperiness created an explosive sensation as I entered her and brought on the swiftest and most intense orgasm I have ever experienced.

[GRITS]

Me
I like her to be happy and enjoy OUR swing lifestyle.. I like making her happy as she does me.....

As far as knowing her w/ another only?....::::::>

--I like seeing her w/ her high heel waving around in the air missionary.

--I like seeing her perform w/ other guys, sucking/fucking/etc.

--I like seeing her taking several guys @ once, ,, or seeing her used .

--I like sticking my cock in her sloppy seconds pussy knowing someone elses big cock was there.

--I like when I stick my cock in her sloppy seconds pussy that she cuck-talks me about it all.

We are swingers from day one...

-----To add to this her prespective-- She likes the same seeing me w/ other women.. example: she will get behind me and push my ass into whoever Im fucking missionary.... or face sit them looking at me to see if I'm enjoying myself....

[Two4more]

Originally Posted by JakeUK

why does it turn me on so very much when she tells me about guys she has fucked before we met, especially if they were a good fuck?

I too wanted to know why seeing my wife fuck and cummed in by another man, so did some research. Without a long explanation, I came to a reasonable conclusion.

If a man's woman fucks another man, it triggers an instinct on all men that no matter how angry or jealous he gets, it makes him ultimately hard for her used c*nt. Why? Its an instinct to prevent her from bearing another man's child. Making him hard lets him fuck her and replacing the other mans sperm in her c*nt. How? Because the last to fuck a woman is the one most likely to impregnate her, found be empirical results. Secondly, as shown by experiment with realistic dildos, the human penis is the most efficient shape to remove existing semen from a vagina.

Nothing else can make a man so aroused as seeing his own woman being fucked by another man and recognizing her pleasure of fucking another man. And what man doesn't want to slide his cock into her freshly fucked and creampied c*nt?

This extends to the desire to hearing minutest details of her fucks with other men before you. It only serves to increase your lust for her more than if she never had another man.

[Handiwerker]

I have added comments to threads before regarding the couple of years with an ex gf and our sharing experiences.

For me ( and it maybe a bit cuckoldish) it was the look of absolute sexual intensity she displayed, passionately kissing and touching other lads and helping their cocks slide inside. Joint orgasms and enjoying their cum. It was as if she was in a different place and a different person. So erotic to me
We had two rules regarding sharing eachother with others...1) always in same room ( with some slight variances) and 2) Not older guys and where possible, actually just a bit younger ( so as not to have a direct conflict/comparison with me and our relationship....)

It worked for me so many times seeing Amy have so much fun ...and me too

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by Showife

Yep.... My ex-had an affair, which by it's nature involved a lot of lies and deceit.

So, sex with others -

No problem as long as it's an honest and joint decision.

Deceit, lies, and breaking of trust = the end.

Interestingly, after several months she suggested we give it another try, her reasoning being "We've both learnt so much"
My reply "Yeah, I've learnt not to trust you"

EXACTLY!

[Handiwerker]

Originally Posted by Almost_There

The pleasure she got from it, her responses, the look on her face, what she looked and sounded like when she orgasmed, her moans, her erect nipples, his moans, the image of the man's penis thrusting inside her, the fact that he got hard looking at her naked body, the pleasure he felt from her vagina enveloping his penis, the pleasure he felt ejaculating into her

Totally agree.. well explained

[explorer98]

I like the idea behind this thread and it's actually something I'd almost got round to doing myself but didn't really know where to put it. I'm also very much with the OP in terms of my feelings about such an act.

I guess I've been quite fortunate in that I've actually been able to bring this to life with two women in the past 35 years and also that even now, there are still three ladies in my life who this applies to, one of those being one of the previously-mentioned two!

The first time happened when I was in my middle 20's - probably 25 or 26 in reality - and was living with a woman 11 years older than me. Carole was a gorgeous little thing! Lots of dark hair, small, VERY cute and often taken by others as being her 14-year-old daughter's older sister!

She was also delightfully submissive and this is what came to bear....

We'd gone to visit a guy who had been my best friend at school and with hindsight, I'm now thinking I must have wanted something to happen because I had her pack a very specific item of 'clothing' before we left.

Some time after we arrived, T and I got talking and it emerged that life hadn't been particularly kind of late and he hadn't had a girlfriend in quite some time.

The Dom in me saw an opportunity and decided that Carole should fuck him - or - perhaps more specifically, that I would give her to him. So I did!

One evening when everything felt right, I told her that I wanted her to have sex with Tony and to change into something appropriate. While she did so, I told him my 'fiendish' plan and to some surprise, he went with it!!

She came back in just a see-through, purple sarong - nothing else, and sat down next to T and promptly started to fondle his cock through his shorts. They just basically got it on while I watched. he stripped her (didn't take much doing!) she sucked his cock, he gave her a good licking then fucked her quite hard on a pile of cushions spread around the floor.

When it all 'became too much' I suggested we both shot all over her and we did just that - almost simultaneously we both pumped loads over her face and tits, leaving her a sticky, spunky mess on the floor. No awkwardness or embarrassment afterwards but the three of us never got to do it again.

On another occasion, I came home just after she'd had her hair done (at home) and the guy who did it was also a friend of ours and someone I knew she'd have no problem fancying. I'd often teased her that one day Jimmy and I were going to give her a really good seeing-to and decide that today was that day!

He was about to leave when I said "There's something I want to show you" at which I peeled her sweater off leaving her in just her bra and jeans. Jimmy was standing the other side of her and so I undid her bra and as I did so, we took a nipple each and sucked deeply.

Carole's knees let go and I caught her as she headed for the floor. I undid her jeans and she stepped out of them and her panties and as we fondled her, she dropped to her knees, unzipped us both and started to suck both our cocks alternately before breaking away and making a run for the stairs.

I caught her at the top, pushed past and sat down, forcing her head down on my cock. Jimmy came up and immediately slipped into her from behind and started to fuck her.

"I hope that's where I think it is?" I asked him, knowing how much he loved anal and also that his partner couldn't do it after a birthing injury. He just smiled and carried on fucking.

We took her to bed and spent an hour doing everything two men can do to one naked woman and once again, I loved giving her away!

Jimmy and I also fucked my current partner on a few occasions but that was in quite a different (more balanced?) context as she hasn't got a submissive bone in her body! I'd still love to see her fucked by others though, even now she's 65.

I'd love to see her stretched and fucked deep and hard by a really thick cock. I'd love to see her taking a really big guy in her ass (she still loves anal sex!) and I'd love to watch several suitably appreciative guys spunking over her big tits and her sexy, bare feet. I guess this is the eternal voyeur in me!!!

With Amelia, it's quite a different context. I know she'd had a VERY limited sex life before she and I became 'acquainted' and I know how much she's enjoyed exploring and discovering since we've been an item. One thing I never quite got over was one night we spent together where every time she was awake (and there were a few!) she wanted sex!.

Despite being 17 years younger (she was 59 at the time, now 76) I found it hard to keep up and ever since, I've wanted to put her in a hotel room with 3 - 5 fit, young (30-ish) preferably black guys who would enjoy a much older white woman and who between them could ensure an never-ending supply of large, hard cock and hot cum and maybe that way we could find out just how big her appetite really is?

I would have loved to have arranged something like this for either her 70th or 75th birthday and it probably won't happen now but I still love the idea.

We we fucking one night after work, half in, half out of the back of my 4 x 4 and I was sure I could hear someone watching us even though it was quite dark. I mentioned this to her and her abrupt reply was "So??!!" and then to push her ass back against me to carry on fucking!

It was at that point that I developed the idea of having her 'positioned' somewhere so that any number of guys could simply wander up behind her and fuck her anonymously. She's not allowed to argue or refuse, they can fuck her in any hole but they are required to cum only in her mouth and I will decide when she's had enough.

I also like the thought of her doing the sex club or theatre sl*t thing where guys line up to fuck her and cum in or on her. I just want to see her taking lots of cock and in particular, tasting other men's cum. Amelia LOVES cum so in my simplified logic, surely more is better.....??!!

Again, I guess it's a combination of the voyeur and the Dom in me plus my lifelong thing for older women. If someone had offered me a woman 30 years older with big tits, huge nipples and an insatiable appetite for cock and cum - at any point in my life - I'd have thought I'd died so now that I have my own, I'd love to bestow that on a younger guy who hasn't had that luck yet!

And there's teh added delight of creating my own - quite specialised - porn...........!!!

[Potteruk]

Originally Posted by ukgoldfish

The thought of a guy 22 years her senior getting off in my wife is a great turn-on. Her .a what she looked like back then when he was banging her:

She looks amazing, very sexy. I can definitely see why he’d be making sure he had as much sex as possible with her. Did she say how much she enjoyed the sex with him? I’m guessing that like many younger girls she will have been keen to impress / please an older guy?[/QUOTE]

Just joined OCC and have spent ages just reading through so many hot stories.

My wife has pretty much been open about her early years and sex, which always turns me on hearing the details.
She was 14 when she lost virginity to a guy over 3 times her age,
although she had given many BJs before.

In reality, because she spent most of her teen years with much older guys, friends of her family etc, she took it for granted about what they expected of her so it was a little 'like lie back and think of England'. They undoubtedly loved the availability of a pretty , slim, nice boob size teen girl being to hand whenever.

Yes, from 14-20 she was used sexually ( not in a forced/rough way if that makes sense) by many older guys who she knew and eventually settled with a guy about 30+. Again , from what she says , although she was expected to perform for him and his gambling friends, she saw it as what she had to do not what she necessarily wanted. She admits that sometimes she did enjoy the orgasms that ensued

It was only after she realised she deserved her own life that she packed up and left , drove 200+ miles away and started again for herself.

There is lots more I can say and tell about how what she says is both telling but a total turn on to us both when intimate, but I am conscious this is my first attempt at a reply so don't want to go on too long