what is your kink and why

[scouty]

I just love the idea (in different scenarios) of a woman giving into to her sexuality when normal conventions say not to.

1. A massage that my wife enjoys too much and despite her initial inhibition she ends up wanting and then letting the masseur do what he was always planning to do.

2. My wife posing at a secluded beach for bikini pics for a male friend and gets aroused enough to remove her top… then her bottoms.. and then finally spread for him.

They all end with her coming home slightly red faced at having to confess to me that she couldn’t fight the urge that these guys knew they were creating.

[thegrayprincejt]

Watching women pee - I can trace this back to growing up with nieces my age, and my mother, living in small one bathroom houses where they would have to come pee while I was in the shower. Also to playing in the woods and us not wanting to go stomping home to pee so we just did it there.

wife sharing - learned it from my parents

ENF/exposure . Always was around casual nudity in my house, which made me enjoy seeing the "socially conscious" reactions to flashing, exhibitionism, and just casual nudity or sexuality.

masturbation again, growing up with my nieces as close as we were it just happened to be a regular thing to pass time

[ted roberts]

Originally Posted by luvs2spin78

I have lots of them too, but one that I can easily trace it to one specific moment is spanking. I love seeing a woman's bare bum cheeks... and patting them, caressing them, groping them, squeezing them, kissing them, and spanking them! Clearly I'm an 'ass-man' and I especially love it when a woman's bare cheeks come into view so unexpectedly, like if she's flashing or mooning me, or gets pantsed, or gets caught naked in some wonderful ENF manner. (_!_) I lost track a long time ago of the number of women I have spanked, but everyone of them has been a thrill to have had over my lap.

As for the why? That's easy. One summer when I was around 12 yrs old I was over a neighbor's for a pool party. Just a bunch of kids of various ages from the neighborhood and some moms on a hot weekday. The family that owned the house had 6 kids and the pool was offset from the house a bit with its own bathroom. We were told to just hang out at the pool and not tromp into the main house with our wet suits, and that all food and drinks would be out by the pool. As I said, I was only 12 but remembered starting to really take an interest in seeing some of the older high school girls running around in their bikinis, and in particular starting developing a huge secret crush on Kelly, whose house it was and who was the oldest daughter. She was a senior in high school and was SO pretty that I couldn't help but try to get a sneak peek at her long legs and shapely body in that teasing bikini everytime she walked by me with her friends. Nice girl and a total goddess.

At some point in the afternoon I had to use the bathroom but since someone was in there, and another kid was waiting in line to go #2, and I was all dried off, one of the other moms who knew the owners well said it would be okay for me to go to the main house. I knew the house well, and off I went. As I walked in off the patio, the sliding door to walk in, I heard the mom's stern voice scolding someone. A few more steps in, and an archway opened up wide into a TV room. To my absolute shock (and delight!) I'd stumbled across Kelly laying over her mom's lap, with her bikini bottoms down at her ankles, getting her bare bottom spanked (!). My eyes must have widened like saucers and I felt like someone just knocked the wind out of me!! I just stood there in disbelief. Total shocked! Mouth must have been hanging open to the floor. I was feeling a bit scared too about intruding on them... but just absolutely thrilled at suddenly seeing Kelly's bare white cheeks just shamelessly mooning away at me and couldn't turn away. OH MY!!! Her mom (who was known to be a very nice mom but quite strict too... I suppose you had to be with 6 kids) saw me standing there and just kept on spanking. I forget exactly what she said, but as she was scolding Kelly she also used the phrase 'see... this is what happens in this household...' which I imagine tipped Kelly off to the fact that someone else was now in the room. Oh how I wish I could have recorded that moment of when this high school goddess...my oh-so pretty secret crush, who was getting her rear end spanked like a recalcitrant schoolgirl, turned her head over her shoulder to see who was there. I am sure in her head she was PLEADING that it be one of her other sisters... or maybe even a neighborhood mom... but certainly NOT a young lad several years her junior. As she whipped her head around, clearing the hair from her pretty face and looked over her shoulder.. we locked eyes. OMG the look on her face was PRICELESS... She looked absolutely MORTIFIED and SOOOOOOOO over the top emBARE ASSed. Her face went into a cringing cry as she wailled "nnnnooooooooooo" and started kicking her legs faster while bucking her torso that caused her pretty hair to fly around all the more. Her mom must have taken this moment of maximum shame to drive the lesson home and it appeared to me started spanking harder and faster. A part of me was shaking with excitement and feeling a satisfying 'victory' everytime a SPANK landed on her cute cheeks, and I was almost secretly rooting the mom on and relishing a silent "yyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssss" in my mind as spank after spank seared its way onto Kelly's bare bum. PHEW... But a part of me was scared to death that somehow I might be next!! I'm not sure how many more spanks or time went by before I started feeling like I was over staying my welcome and at some point went on down the hall to the bathroom. I sat in there trying to calm down and process all that I just saw and all I was feeling. After an extended stay in there, (much longer than needed) I ventured out and walked back past the den. They were both gone and I'm not sure if I was more relieved not to have to face them again or disappointed at not getting another peek at Kelly being spanked. Suffice it to say, spanking became a kink for me although it would be years later until I finally got to spank a girlfriend. Obviously no photos of that amazing scene, but here's shot of Susan Dey (from the 1970's) and one of Ashley Greene (from this decade) who both remind me a bit of what Kelly looked like. So pretty. So hot!

great story and so very similar to mine ,but mine being short on the actual spanking ,just the threat of one that has stayed with me for almost 60 years and made spanking a large part of my sexual identity

i was about 7 and we were all off on a coach trip organised by our local church st Gabriels to the seaside early 1960s ,all the kids were excited and a bit loud ,one lady Mrs Nile who had a 14 year old daughter Sharon , was unhappy about this and to bring it to a close

she stood up and told in a loud voice Sharon to behave right now or she would take her pants down and smack her bare bum in front of everyone

the bus fell silent as i imagined everyone was imagining Sharon over her mothers knee panties pulled down getting her bare bum smacked in front of us

i know i was and still do sometimes

it was the unobtainable to me ie Sharon bare bum

being exposed by a figure who had authority over her so casually , and Sharon having no choice but to have it happen regardless of the humiliation and the sting of the slaps on her bum and it being exposed for all to see

especially me lol

from then on i imagined all the girls i fancied having their knicker pulled down and bare bottoms exposed and spanked by mothers fathers teachers uncles aunts shopkeepers park keepers farmers etc

you name it any authority figure that had that power over them and that could and i hoped would expose and spank their unobtainable out of my league bare bottoms of the girls i fancied for me to see lol

id spanked many a stroppy stuck up young lady and put them in their place to both our mutual pleasures over the years ,but it was missing that little bit of something extra

then when i met my wife who had similar desires but hers were to be exposed and spanked by older authority figures it really clicked , so i was engineering older authority figures the reverend and a couple of boss daddie types to expose and smack her bottom for her usually while i watched but not exclusively

this transported me back to times past when i could only dream about seeing lovely unobtainable bare bottoms exposed and spanked by authority figures and seeing this happen to my wife in front of me

or when she came home with a red bottom and had to confess that her boss had had to put her across his knee spank her for her misbehavior this made my wife even more desirable to me than before

happy to share my wifes story on side of her attraction and desire for a exposed and slapped bottom if anyones interested

to give you a flavor here is the reverend smacking my wifes bare bum and checking her pussy for wetness

to no ones surprise it was extremely wet lol

https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/data...40455d850c.mp4

[Mhoncho]

I love pushing my wife’s limits by daring her to do things, like when I had her wear a sheer nightgown in front of my father. She almost never refuses, I can only remember twice that she did and it was for good reason, and she often will go even further than I initially dared her to go.

My wife’s sister asked us to go to Florida for a vacation with her and her husband. It would be a working vacation for her, she had meetings to go to 2 of the 7 days we would be there. We agreed and left her to make the arrangements since it was her trip. She booked a room with 2 beds and a living room area. It was a nice resort with a large pool and pool bar. At night, there was as club that drew a number of people with live music. The first night we were there my SIL had a meet and greet and then a dinner with her company.

This was the first dare of the trip. I dared my wife, Liz, to wear one of 3 sexy dresses she had packed, and to wear a g-string underneath. We were going out for a quick dinner and then to a nearby club. My wife’s BIL was going with us so he could avoid the company dinner. Liz agreed and put on her short white strapless dress. It came down to about 4” below her crotch and clung to her breasts nicely. After dinner, I dared her to ask her BIL, let’s call him Scott, to dance several times with her…she did, including several slow songs. When they returned to the table, Scott excused himself to go to the restroom. Liz asked me if I was satisfied, I told her “so far”.

After a bit, we went back to the room where I dared her to change with the bathroom door open where Scott could see. I figured he would get a nice view of her tits when she did. But, to my surprise, when she removed her dress we both saw she wasn’t wearing panties. She was standing there naked. She saw us looking and walked out of the bathroom grinning and asked “What? You never saw a lady wear a dress without underwear before?” Scott was speechless but grinning from ear to ear. She took her time getting dressed and wound up flashing Scott several times on the trip.

That was one of the tamer dares. Since then, I’ve pushed the envelope much further.

[Gee_Star]

I like threats of pain that don't really turn into actual pain.

So here's a woman who's 5' 6" and weighs about 310. She's a big girl but cute and has big fluffy tits, big pink areolas but she's also very much a sub, loves degradation but for me instead of going the "pig" or "hucow" route which has been done to death, I decided to go the opposite direction and chastise her for not loving herself as she is.

So I print out a picture of an Instagram model, stand her against the wall, take a stapler, and say to her "Do you want to look like her?" At the same time, I'm running the picture and the stapler against her body and she's letting out sharp exhales and groans at the anticipation of being stapled. Eventually, I turn her over in a somewhat forceful manner and declare that I'm going to staple the picture to her ass-cheek. The stapler has no staples in it but will still make a sound as if it do and she doesn't know this, so I quickly press the picture against her ass and press the stapler, it makes the sound, and she screams but feels no pain because no staples came out and then lets out a stream of pee, which she can not control and stands there huffing and puffing.

[Gykor66]

My kink is similar to many of you here but perhaps for different reasons. I like to watch my wife with other men. I have always struggled with premature ejaculation. To the point of pretty severe depression in my younger days. All my first sexual experiences I just hoped somehow I’d magically last a long time but of course I didn’t. If I lasted 30 seconds I’d almost count that as a success. There were girls I dated that just stopped responding to me after we had sex.

I met my wife at 23 about 15 years ago. She was 27. We worked together and she had just divorced. We got to know each other and went on a few dates. I could tell we were falling for each other so one night as things heated up I spilled the beans. Told her I cum fast. She insisted it was fine but it didn’t matter. I was convinced she needed more.

Over the first year she guided me to become better with oral and other ways of pleasing her. We introduced toys to our repertoire. Mostly dildos as I would give her clitoral stimulation then she would want to be fucked but we’d be lucky if I got five pumps in her before cumming.

I had heard of cuckolding but never thought it was something I’d consider until I started finding home videos of couples where the wife was with another man. I started to fantasize about it to the point where I just HAD to let my wife experience a good hard dick that could last.

We talked of her past partners but she always played them down. I knew she was lying. We began to role play that when I fucked her with a dildo that it was another guy. I was surprised when I started dirty talking about it and she was receptive. It became routine for me to eat her out then fuck her and lose my load quick then for me to say “maybe this guy can help” then she’d bend over and I’d spend 15-30 minutes giving it to her with big dildos upwards of ten inches but only inserting 7-8 or so. I’d ask “is he fucking you good baby?” And she’d say “oh yes” and she’d moan and groan harder than she ever had during our experiences before. Eventually I got her to admit how her previous partners had been and how they could last a long time and make her cum and it always got me so horny.

Eventually I proposed we do the real thing and it took a lot of discussion. We laid ground rules. She wanted someone safe and kind. We placed an ad on Craigslist (man things were easier before they got rid of personals). The first guy we met was young. Maybe 21. My wife was then 30. He sent nude pictures and my wife found him very attractive. She is very pretty. 5’6”. She’s half Hawaiian. Not a perfect 10 to most but I find her to be a goddess. She has c cup breasts and a nice round butt. Very pretty and calm face. Slightly curvy but not what anyone would call “fat”. Long black hair. She has always shaved her pussy and has a nice inward pussy with her lips not visible until she’s spread. She had a kid in her previous marriage and back then was very self conscious of her stretch marks but they really aren’t that noticeable compared to some women I’ve seen. This may have been a bigger hesitation for her than actually fucking someone else.

The guy we found was tall and fit but not overly muscular. He was Asian and in his pics his cock looked to be about 5” hard. About the same as me. This helped alleviate any inadequacy I was feeling. We met him at the casino hotel near us in the bar and after a few drinks everything felt good and safe and my wife gave me the approval. Up to the room we went. I wasn’t sure how it would go down but the guy started to grope my wife as soon as the door shut so we were off to the races. I sat in the corner and watched. He undressed her until she was fully naked and she didn’t stop him at all. He caressed her boobs and body and butt and kissed her. Then rubbed her pussy and mentioned how wet she was. My wife got down and pulled his pants off and sucked him. Again he was 5” and she took him all the way in her mouth. I recall feeling I might cum in my pants so I didn’t touch myself. She sucked him for a good three or four minutes. Way longer than I’d ever lasted with her. I assumed she was thinking of this. She did things to his dick she didn’t do with mine I guess because she never had time. Licking the sides and sucking his balls.

He pulled her back up and leaned her over the chair and slid inside her and started thrusting. After a minute I was feeling so horny. I asked her if it was nice to get dick for so long and she said yes. I kept asking how she liked it and she’d look at me and say it was so good. She got loud and came and he slowed down while her legs quivered. I’d never given her a g spot orgasm like that. He then sat and she straddled him and started to ride his cock. She rubbed her clit against him and I got close to watch from behind. She reached back and played with me and within seconds I was dribbling cum all over the floor. Post-orgasm my horniness subsided and I realized I was really watching my wife with another man not needing me at all. She came on his dick then let him fuck her on the bed from behind more. After ten minutes I became horny again and went to her front and she sucked me until I was hard and because I had already came I lasted a good twenty seconds then filled her mouth with cum. Then the guy pulled out and jerked off on her round brown buns.

It was still the best experience because it was our first. The guy left and we went to dinner and discussed things and I found myself mostly happy for her. She seemed proud of herself and that was a turn on for me. I’d give anything to really last long. Believe me. I’ve tried EVERYTHING. But part of me knows if I could we never would have gone down this path and I’m very happy to watch her to this day for the last 10 years or so. We’ve done this about every month or so since. And each time elicits new and exciting things. I love looking into setting up dates in other cities when we travel.

I think my biggest kink we haven’t tried yet is for it to be someone we know but she refuses. My best friend would give her a good dicking I just know it but she thinks it’ll be awkward.

[JonThink]

I love watching my nude wife ride a naked man on a chair. She usually starts with playing with his dick and balls once they are both nude. She might even give him a little oral to get him wound up. Then she climbs on him while facing the same position he is facing. This gives him plenty of opportunity to grope her boobs and front half. After he gets her going with that, she twists around facing him and really goes to town while bouncing up and down on his erect rod. She can grind forward and backward or slide up and down. She also can lean way back and let him feel her off on both front and back sides. If she is close to a table, he can lift her up by her ass and lay her on the table and pump away while she is spread-eagled and he is standing up. Sitting or standing both of them usually cum to outstanding climaxes. I love watching her get off on this technique!

[carbilz]

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[emily4massage]

Originally Posted by JustinTinMan

My wife first job was as a housekeeper in a nursing home. She said one day she was cleaning a room when she noticed the guy was tugging on himself under the covers. She didn't think much of it, figured he was just itching it... so she continued cleaning.

She a minute or so later, she heard him grunting, and thought he was having trouble breathing, so she turned around to check on him, and he was now very clearing stroking it under the covers and ejaculating. She said at the tip of the teepee his erect penis was creating, she could see cum bubbling up through the cover.

She didn't know what to do, so she ran out of the room, out of the building, and got in her car and drove off, not saying a word to anybody.

Her mom was a nurse at the nursing home and had gotten her the job, and was pissed that she left without saying anything... and when she told her mom what happened, her mom told her "That's what fucking happens sometimes, do you really think I haven't seen some shit too? You should have tossed him a rag and told him to clean himself up! and finished cleaning the fucking room."

My wife ended up going back the next day. She worked there as a housekeeper while getting a nursing degree, and now is a nurse there... Some of the stories she tells me is mind blowing.

Secretly, I would love to watch her become a naughty nurse to some old man there.

Yep it seems like guys have to ejaculate everyday or they get kind of grumpy, so imagine someone in hospital, they would for sure have to ejaculate especially if their nurse is showing thigh etc.
My father in-law was in hospital and he looked at my thighs a lot, he's a very nice man and deserves ejaculations.

[Mr_Brightside]

I've recently gone through a phase of getting off to stories my wife tells me about seeing her girlfriends undressed, either in the locker rooms at work, at sleepovers or in clothing store changing rooms.

There are a couple of her closest friends who I know quite well - and the times that have really got me going are when she's described them naked to me. It's great meeting up for dinner or popping round for a cuppa and knowing they're shaved or have intimate piercings