[Request] sex in marriage

[ModelT-MsDollie]

Some of these posts are very sad to read. It's not just the women, many men change their feelings about sex over the years. I suggest some of you read Dollie's and my stories. Many are listed under our post below.
We've had such a great sex life others feel it's sickening when I brag. I am not really bragging, just trying to share our fun and games. We are getting close to the end ourselves. An old body can only do so much.

Amazingly I spent most of our married life trying to get my wife to swap or have intercourse with others. Yes I use the words intercourse because she has been fondled and fingered by 1000's. The sex part has always been there. It took the stories and photos here in OCC to get my wife to finally change. So, yes there is hope.
She now has more than 40 different fuck buddies and we estimate since May 2014 she's been well fucked way over 500 times by most of them. Since the first of this year she's cut way down and probably has less than 25 regulars. Sometimes as many as 2-5 a day. Notice we are usualy not on here until in the afternoon? There hasn't been a time I wasn't with her to watch and help. I guess that makes me a cuckhold or just a pervert. I do know we are both loving it.

There are several reasons Dollie has all of her fuck buddies. The biggest reason is from what some of you have written. We live where there are many older retired single men and men who's wives no longer want sex. They are starving for pussy. No matter what their age they don't care if she's old, wrinkled, and overweght. They only want attention, tits, and pussy. All are friendly, polite, and thankfull.
All she's had to do is wear revealing clothes and act sexy. Things she's always done. We are sure Dollie could have gotten a hundred partners or more without asking. Together we feel we are doing these men a favor and we are having fun at the same time. Don't ask, she has more partners than she wants and has been turning many of them down. After all, she's not a kid anymore.


Never give up. But always be ready to start over. I'd rather be poor and have sex than live alone or with an iceburg.

[crazy legs]

Originally Posted by tristanwoods

One small but important bit of advice that no one tells you growing up (it probably applies to both sexes ) :

Do not marry someone who does not masturbate.
It probably means there are some major sex drive issues.

I would add someone who hasn't had many partners as well. I have been married 27 years, and have experienced most of what everyone else in this thread has experienced. After years of begging, inquiring about how I could make things better, I gave up. I use to go to bed every night upset. Now I don't even bother asking or trying. I haven't had sex for 2 years now, and I feel less stressed about it.

[captbobwi123]

My wife of 35 years and I have had our sexual ups and downs. I have to say that sex with her has been absolutely thrilling 95% of the time. She's enthusiastic, adventurous, and willing to try new things. I would like to present a question for men or women to address. How was sex when she was pregnant? Some guys I've talked with complain their wife cut them off and there was no or very little sex. Other men have said just the opposite. In my case, my wife was extremely horny and initiated sex every day. As her belly grew we had to limit positions but great sex continued. From my understanding it's a hormonal thing but I don't understand how different women so completely opposite.

[heineken15]

My story::
I was Married 12 years, as soon as we had kids I quickly became her room mate.
I begged, pawed even dragged us to therapy to see how to handle issues of kid stress n hoping she was going to eventually fall back madly in love w me. When we "scheduled" sex it was great but definitely "scheduled"? And heck I would even ask her to kiss me prior as foreplay to get me hard as she was a person to compliment me,I always had to kiss her first, say I loved her first, and constantly tried to beat my own chest trying to show her how lucky she was, hoping she'd willingly show me some normal attention and validate me a tad, but no luck.
I eventually cheated just because I needed someone to show affection and smile when they looked at me, she no sooner found out, divorced me, and blamed me for it all but of course as "cought him cheating" was her mantra to everyone..
My only advice for any guy heading down this road is once they loose respect for you, call it quits, don't hemorage your "man card" , it sucks and wish non of it happened but making someone feel for you again is impossible and you'll see how fleeting and forced it really is if they just go through the motions,,,
Lots of pain, but ya gotta move on, and better than being in a marriage that's all one sided and you've turned into only a roommate.
Hope this helps another!

[boosz]

After my grandfather died, my grandmother gave my wife a bunch of clothes that were hers from a very long time ago when she was very young....they were married for almost 60 years and she also wanted to pass on a bit of advise to my wife..... In her words... "to keep your husband happy you need to be two things... a chef in the kitchen and a w.h.o.r.e. in the bedroom". Pretty sure I choked when my wife said this to me....then I laughed my ass off when she pulled out some black lingerie from the bag... NOT something I wanted to think about or see my wife in....Have no idea if it was originally hers, and didn't want to ask... Needless to say my wife didn't keep the gift or ever try it on...or take her advice unfortunately for me...lol

[heineken15]

It's a tricky slope men usually won't win,
As mine got to blame her lack of interest on 2 young children being the priority..
I get how hard it is w kids but I was no slouch to help.
But alas, how could I think of complaining about zero attention from her for years when we had 2 children.
I now realize it was her bullet proof excuse
To keep me off the priority list..and I was no ogre to say the least.
After the divorce she told the kids "she finally had time for herself"...when they were with me.
It's funny how everyone turns the story to suit their real feelings or needs..
She ended up w everything she wanted, a huge amount of $$$ child support every week and scheduled weekly time off when w me..
Ugh, talk about about bad choices..
Oh well as they say....

[sinatrav]

I have been married 3 times. The first was a nun, didn't want nun, wasn't going to give nobody nun! Married her because I was 17 and she was pregnant. We were both kids and made bad choices so whatever. After our divorce I tried to be careful. Meet a hometown girl that had the same interests as I, dated a while, lived together a while. Sex was great, for about 5 years or halfway into our marriage. Her father is a Pentecostal preacher. She said she met me in a "weird" time of her life when she was rebelling. Sex stopped when she got pregnant with our daughter. Which was odds to me since the only time my first wife wanted it was when she was pregnant. :-\ I hung on for another 5 years and met my current wife. She is over 8 years my junior and wants out all the time, more that I feel like unfortunately. She well do anything, anywhere, with just about anybody I ask her to. We have pretty much an open marriage and I like it because it takes some pressure off me. LOL.

Guess I was halfway reporting the opposite end of the spectrum and halfway bragging. :-)

Just a quick pic to brag some more!

[Crankdingo]

Sex in pregnancy? That would have been nice. My wife looked incredible with my bun in her oven. I looked forward to what guys often say- how their wife gets horny during pregnancy and how they can't keep up - and for me? Nothing. It was so frustrating. From the time she discovered she was pregnant and for almost 18 months thereafter, there was no sex. It has barely improved.

As I wrote in a prior post, I used to feign impotence and taught myself to prematurely ejaculate really badly - as in, without getting hard - in hopes that she might get inspired to cheat or do the hot wife thing. I had some medical issues going on that made for a plausible cover story. That didn't work, so I miraculously "cured" myself, and went back to full strength, so to speak. Now this lovely mid- 30's woman can't take a proper fucking without wearing out after 2 minutes. I get a shot at that about once a month. My married sex life sucks. It is like looking into the window of a candy shop that never opens. That is why I use this forum as an outlet.

[Barmixer]

When I was younger, I told a co-worker (older than me) that a girl I was dating loved to suck my cock. He told my father, who advised me that it's OK to fool around with a girl like that, but you should never marry a sl*t.

I have been married for 46 years, and every day I give thanks that I did not listen to him.

Our sex life was always good. We had children at a young age, and after they moved out, the sex went from good to fantastic. It has slowed down at our age, but still is there. She likes porn, fucking in the car, on the hood of the car, on golf courses, in bars and clubs, etc. Anyplace she might be seen gets her soaked.

She likes to be watched, and I love watching. We have been to a couple of swing clubs and to Desire in Cancun. At one club she did suck another guy, trying to get him hard, but he stayed limp. She claims she would not have fucked him, but I suspect she would have, since my cock was in his wife's, mouth at the time. She also 69'd the wife, but said she was not a good pussy eater.

At Desire, I sat her on the edge of the hot tub and ate her while others watched. She came quickly, and another guy asked if he could eat her. She readily agreed and gushed all over his face.

So my advice is to be sure of the sex before it is too late, and try anything you can. Toys, movies, a few hours at an adult motel, etc. Some women sometimes want to be treated like sex objects but are afraid to let the husband know.

[alterego8184]

so true barmixer ... we have fantasised so any times about that and am sure my wife would love to be watched while i eat her out ... but sadly we have not been able to try it ever. May be sometime in the future when we tour europe we would give it a try !
At present, am talking to her about posting some pics here ... she has not agreed but has not denied it either. May be she would agree to give it a try just to see the reactions ... whenever that happens, you guys would be the first to know (and see)