My wife eying up my friends

[Strachan]

couldn't decide whether to post this or not at first. just after new years it seemed the two of them had been getting on well. we all had a big new years bash at a mates house and i couldn't account for either of them a few times during the night. before we left i caught the two of them in the hall standing close to one another before i came up to them. me and the mrs had great sex that night when we got home.

Then a week or so later i'd been working away, then not too long after that one of our mutual friends casually mentioned in conversation about him seeing that I was round (wife's new friend's) house the other day. I said I'd been away so i couldn't have been. no more was said & I didn't pick up on anything at the time.

then i realised she must've driven to his house in our car while i was away. i'm pretty certain now they must've been fucking. Before u ask i haven't brought this up with her, if i did & it's 100% true that may have major implications on us. i'm happy keeping quiet about it cos it kind of turns me on as u know.

[Esq2K]

I would talk with her and tell her that you know about her and the friend. If she is seeing him on the side that can have very serious implications for your relationship also. Since it excites you that she may be doing it, it is better to have it out in the open and be honest with eachother. The benefit is you can tell her she can do it with your permission and you can arrange to be there to see it in person.

[squirrel516]

Originally Posted by Esq2K

I would talk with her and tell her that you know about her and the friend. If she is seeing him on the side that can have very serious implications for your relationship also. Since it excites you that she may be doing it, it is better to have it out in the open and be honest with eachother. The benefit is you can tell her she can do it with your permission and you can arrange to be there to see it in person.

I pretty much agree with Esq2k. If she is doing stuff behind your back, it will start to feel a lot more like she is cheating on you and a lot less like something that turns you on. If you talk to her and get it out in the open, you can free yourself to enjoy the situation. You can hear about the details from your wife, and even arrange to see things. But the way it is right now is not good. It will fester and you will begin to resent your wife, and your friend.

Good luck

[tbr1314]

Hi Strachan,
I willingly allow my wife to have sex with other men. It started quite innocently the first time. We went to a birthday party for an old friend of hers and I remembered her menitioning that he was always asking to see her boobs I talked her into letting me write Happy Birthday on her breasts then she flashed him at his home. It got me excited so I encouraged her to go topless so he could enjoy his present. Long story short she ended up going totally nude and at the end of the night after he wenty to bed (We were sleeping on the sofa) I told her that if she really wanted to make it a memorable birthday she'd go climb in bed with him. She did, and she fucked him, and it was such a turn on... That was the only time she has ever done anything without me in the room. We do have rules.... the guys must be close aquaintences, I must be there, and family is NEVER put second. I know she shows her boobs and will flash her pussy when I am not around and I'm cool with that but when it comes to blow jobs or sex she always follows the rules. Anyway she has also had sex with my best friend twice for his 40th and 41st birthday. Perhaps you could allow her the opportunity to give him a gift. You can take pics and do her as well... The sex is SO much BETTER knowing that another man was just inside her... Anyway good luck and keep posting!!

[Strachan]

this was from quite a while ago but have been busy with life and sorting everything out. to put your mind at ease, me and the wife are fine.

i read all your advice but wasn't ready to blow everything out in the open. i still wanted to see what could happen and satisfy my perverted desires. I hadn't brought up the car situation to either. what i started doing was inviting the guy to stay over more often on a weekend so he didn't have to worry about staying sober or getting a taxi and we could get drunk watching sport or playing the computer. the wife was obviously there but she didnt usually join us until later in the night when we'd all had quite a bit to drink. Nothing ever happened here except perhaps some harmless flirting and the occassional mention of her tits that he'd seen done in a jokey fashion.

what i was hoping all these times was that after 'passing out' or going to bed i might be able to catch them in th act, if indeed they had been fucking.

well about 4 or 5 weekends went by where he had come over, but at the end of the night, he crashed on the sofa & me and the wife went to bed. I was starting to think this was a bit pointless.

Then one weekend we'd all been drinking heavily and the wife was especially drunk. I took her up to bed, stayed up a bit longer with the friend until he dozed off on the sofa and I joined my wife in bed as usual. I didnt see the time when i went to sleep but i remember it was about 20 past 3 when i woke up, in a bit of a daze without my wife next to me in bed. I thought maybe she'd gone to the toilet to be sick, so i thought i'd go and get her incase she wa passed out when i heard slight creeking sounds from downstairs, i listened for what seemed like hours but was probably a minute, when i could hear heavy breathing to with the odd groan that was obviously my wife. by now, it was clear to me, i crept out onto the top of the stairs to look down and what i was was my wife completely naked, straddling my friend on top of him as he sat on the sofa. she was facing him as he pumped in and out of her. they were trying to keep it quiet i could see but were really going at it fast, hense the heavy breathing, creaking sofa and moments of involuntary gasps from the wife.

at first i was full of rage at what was going on, but like i said before i always found the idea a turn on and now it was happening. i found the rage subsiding and i was enjoying watching, i got my cock out and starting wanking as my wife fucked my friend on our sofa. after all the good job of keeping quiet, when he made her orgasm she moaned pretty damn loadly & told him he was fucking brilliant. I shot my load as i watched and quickly got back into bed. 10 minutes later she returned, i pretended to still be asleep and 'woke up' and said, hey where have you been. she said she had to go to the toilet.

The next day after my friend had gone we spoke about it, she was ashamed but i tried to reassure her it was ok. where we go from here i don't know but we seem to have quite an open relationship now and we have spoke about what possibilities this could bring for both of us.

[godlikechickposter]

It's good that you guys finally got it out in the open, now you have to communicate with each other, let each other know your wants and desires.

[pcurious70]

Any updates? Have you two talked more? Have talked about the stuff they have done?

[Yorkie1]

Originally Posted by Strachan

this was from quite a while ago but have been busy with life and sorting everything out. to put your mind at ease, me and the wife are fine.

i read all your advice but wasn't ready to blow everything out in the open. i still wanted to see what could happen and satisfy my perverted desires. I hadn't brought up the car situation to either. what i started doing was inviting the guy to stay over more often on a weekend so he didn't have to worry about staying sober or getting a taxi and we could get drunk watching sport or playing the computer. the wife was obviously there but she didnt usually join us until later in the night when we'd all had quite a bit to drink. Nothing ever happened here except perhaps some harmless flirting and the occassional mention of her tits that he'd seen done in a jokey fashion.

what i was hoping all these times was that after 'passing out' or going to bed i might be able to catch them in th act, if indeed they had been fucking.

well about 4 or 5 weekends went by where he had come over, but at the end of the night, he crashed on the sofa & me and the wife went to bed. I was starting to think this was a bit pointless.

Then one weekend we'd all been drinking heavily and the wife was especially drunk. I took her up to bed, stayed up a bit longer with the friend until he dozed off on the sofa and I joined my wife in bed as usual. I didnt see the time when i went to sleep but i remember it was about 20 past 3 when i woke up, in a bit of a daze without my wife next to me in bed. I thought maybe she'd gone to the toilet to be sick, so i thought i'd go and get her incase she wa passed out when i heard slight creeking sounds from downstairs, i listened for what seemed like hours but was probably a minute, when i could hear heavy breathing to with the odd groan that was obviously my wife. by now, it was clear to me, i crept out onto the top of the stairs to look down and what i was was my wife completely naked, straddling my friend on top of him as he sat on the sofa. she was facing him as he pumped in and out of her. they were trying to keep it quiet i could see but were really going at it fast, hense the heavy breathing, creaking sofa and moments of involuntary gasps from the wife.

at first i was full of rage at what was going on, but like i said before i always found the idea a turn on and now it was happening. i found the rage subsiding and i was enjoying watching, i got my cock out and starting wanking as my wife fucked my friend on our sofa. after all the good job of keeping quiet, when he made her orgasm she moaned pretty damn loadly & told him he was fucking brilliant. I shot my load as i watched and quickly got back into bed. 10 minutes later she returned, i pretended to still be asleep and 'woke up' and said, hey where have you been. she said she had to go to the toilet.

The next day after my friend had gone we spoke about it, she was ashamed but i tried to reassure her it was ok. where we go from here i don't know but we seem to have quite an open relationship now and we have spoke about what possibilities this could bring for both of us.

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That is such a horny story. Hopefully you guys can have lots more fun now!

[anomalous_anon]

Thank you for sharing your story, sounds like a good time was had by all. I'm also glad that you were able to discuss it with your wife. It isn't cheating if she has your permission but you certainly need to set some boundaries. After talking with your wife you probably want to have a chat with your friend. You don't want to create a situation that will be detrimental to your friendship and marriage. You might want to consider joining a swinger's forum or group. People in the "lifestyle" will probably be better able to fulfill your fantasies without jeopardizing your existing relationships.

[anomalous_anon]

Hey man,

Just checking to see how things turned out. I hope all is well.