[Request] OPEN -"Sharing Your Wife" Thread

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by ukgoldfish

Thanks to Mr and Mrs Grits for your posts - they are great to read and to understand how you make the lifestyle work so well for you both. Do you help each other choose partners or is it always left for you to each to choose your own playmate?

We work together as one might see what the other dosen't..... our "select" friends have been the same for some time now... we don't change over friviously.. when you have a good thing going w/ the right people you don;t mess w/ it..

[2out4more]

Originally Posted by GRITS

Also... try to stay away from filming ecerything... some womam find it a turn off... and you want to encourage tour wife, not make her feel uncomfortable..... enjoy the sex, not the film......my wife dosen't like being filmed when swinging..

Thanks, so far I have not seen my wife hooking up since I have not been in the room. She loves to tell me about the encounter and what he did when we are alone and it always leads to some great sex between us. We have never taken any pics of her even in lingerie and I don't know that she would ever be comfortable with any pics or video of her.

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by smoothguy

Well said nudebeachlovers, your post is verbatim to how I would describe my relationship. I might add that my wife's strong exhibitionist tendencies really help facilitate my desire to show her off to everyone.

Show her off w/ pics please...

[Couplein2MFM]

Originally Posted by GRITS

After looking into other threads,,, here is a OPEN thread to anyone who want to --tell/discuss -- their "SHARING" story/ experiences.

So if you want to "Share" your story w/o starting your own thread... here it is.

GRITS, thank you for opening the discussion. It is always nice to learn about others with the same interests.

Originally Posted by nudebeachlovers

I have been enjoying the sharing of my wife and previous girlfriends since I first became aware of how erotic it was to consider the woman of my affections a sexual object for other men... I loved the idea that she would be turned on beyond her ability to say no - that her body would crave sex with a man that conventional society would deem to inappropriate.

Once I found that out about myself, I enjoyed exposing the woman I was with either in the car or on the beach, including taking them to nude beaches so I could also witness the displays she would put on when men looked at her naked body...

My wife was the perfect match for me because when we got together it was clear that she enjoyed the attention men paid to her, and though she was very modest from a catholic upbringing, and would never venture outside the norm on her own, she trusted me enough and wanted to please me enough to try things that went contrary to her raising, like going to nude beaches. I was luckier still because she did not deny the excitement she felt being exposed to naked men who did not hide their arousal from her. It was of course very arousing for me to see her become aroused, and in no time I was encouraging her to be as naughty as her inclinations would allow her. She trusted me enough to take me up on it, and boy did we have fun (and are still having fun!)

Nudbeachlovers wow, it is amazing how much you and your wife have in common with us. From the modest Catholic upbringing to the excitement she has when other men aroused by her. We hope to read many more of your adventures along the way.

[GRITS]

Surprised nobody asked for any gory details from last weeks business trip, for wife or me??

[rufus2252]

Really enjoying reading this thread! Great stuff!

A quick update on my wife's exploits. She had completely lost interest in hotwifing, or so it seemed. But one guy that she had been talking to last winter contacted her again out of the blue a few days ago and she's ready to get back in the game now. She also started looking at the Craigslist ads again and contacted a new guy last night.

We play a little cat and mouse game with this. She doesn't tell me about who she is talking to right away and I pretend not to be interested. When she does tell me, she always downplays it, "Oh, I'm just emailing him to find out what made him post that ad, I'm not really interested." And I nod and smile and say something like "Yeah, those guys are crazy to think they'd find a woman on Craigslist, what on earth are they thinking?"

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by greendoor

Don't want any gory details but would love to hear all the hot sexy ones. I'm very curious how the wifey spent her time.

Greendoor, see post # 673... she wrote about her time ....thats her post.

Ask her for any questions beyond what she wrote? Just specify your asking her.

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by smoothguy

We have a bunch of new ones posted! Check them out.

Where ???????????/

[GRITS]

Well folks,,,

we'll be attending our "Private Swing Group" get together in Gaitlinburg, Tenn, this weekend.... if you read back a few months, our last get together was cancelled due to weather...
So this weekend we'll be at Baymont suites w/ our Swing Group Friends to party our asses offf... lol--- the Baymont said they were ok after the BIg FOREST FIRE recently...
Really nice place w/ balconys overlooking the river.. the last time we were there, there was alot of balcony sex going on!!

Reminder, our Swing Group is NOT our "select friends".... we have been members of our private swing group for well over 10 yrs. Its a group that I was asked to be a single guest yrs back, and actually met my wife there... yes we met at a swing party.

The group is very selective as to who is a member....some requirements are": very strict rules--

- STD tests on paper every 6 months...
-couples only... (guests are approved by all w/ STD tests too) - we don't really do many guests...
-no pics, no video, no nothing but enjoyable sex w/ friends.
-everyone gets along, and everyone is well known to others...
-new members are screened criminally, no DUIs, no abitual drunks, no drugs...
-financially able to participate.

Most members have been w/ the group very long term.... there are 12 couples only.. and limited to that...
we approved a recommended new couple 2 yrs ago because one couple moved to Wyoming. They were voyeur guests first for a while to be sure everyone was ok w/ it all..

Anyway thats just our groups history...if you are interested..??

The womens theme this weekend is "Summer Stuff"... most likely bikinis, tennis dresses, etc.. but anyone can wear anything they want.... the guys are just naked. Everyone gets their own room, but everyone chips in for a big double SUITE w/ jacuzzi to meet & party in together... we'll probably play, KEY PARTY on Friday nite.. the guys meet in the Suite, and pick a room key out of the hat, then go to that room for private time w/ someones random wife for the evening...sometimes we split the evening and pick out of the hat twice.. I like that way.

Our group comes from 4-5? different states, and its always considered a long weekend getaway car trip wherever we pick to go. Not everyone shows up... I think 8 couples will make it this weekend??

Depending on the amount of "thanks" will tell us if you want to hear about the weekend or not. let us know that way.

[Couplein2MFM]

GRITS, your group sounds like a great bunch of people. We have not ever found a group that is that close, we have had a few couples/singles over the years whom we have been close with and who were regular partners but finding a group like you speak of is awesome.

Hope you and your wife both have a great time and enjoy the weekend fully. Would love to hear some of the details if you decided to share here.