Friends with benefits

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by indym

I just told her that she has a gorgeous asshole and got a smirk, lol.

One more that you might like...

I'm loving them all!

[indym]

Our next few times, and maybe the whole week, was pretty much the same as I described in my last post. I still teased her by rubbing my bare cock on her, but we didn't repeat what I described in my previous post for a while. I think we both knew that we were lucky I had not filled her up . Although she has surprised me a couple of times, once on my birthday, by letting me cum in her. This might be a turn-off for some of you, but she actually picked up a plan b in advance… it actually turned me on even more, knowing she planned it out.

L really likes it when I slowly rub and worked my thumb inside her ass. Sliding my dick in and out while fingering her ass makes her cum really fast. Up to this point, I never really came on her. I've started yanking my condom off and unloading all over her ass when we fuck this way now, though. The first time I came on her ass and asshole, she was shaking. She pretty much orders me where to cum these days, and I follow her orders .

Our first full anal happened that next week, and not because I had particularly planned it that way. L started her period (always something that I'm happy to see, haha), which usually meant a lot of head, some cuddling, and making out unless she felt particularly bad. She came over that morning, as usual, and told me what was going on. I think we laid together for a little bit and then started normal day types of things. Later in the afternoon, L had taken a shower and txed me to "come here." "Here" was my bedroom, and I popped back to see what was up. I half expected that she needed me to bring her a tampon or something from her purse. Instead, L was sitting on the edge of my bed holding the bottle of lube with a half-nervous smile on her face. I don't recall any real conversation like "hey, I want you to fuck my ass" taking place, haha. I do think I set a world's record for getting undressed, though!

Getting L relaxed enough is a pretty slow process, and I didn't think it would happen this first time. I rubbed and fingered her ass like before and lubed/stroked myself to make sure I stayed ready. L can give me a look and make me hard , but there is something about focusing on the act, going slow, and making sure it isn't painful that distracts me to the point that I've been at less than full attention on occasion. I'm not complaining, just explaining.

It took me several tries to get my head in, and I sort of thought it wasn't going to happen. I would stick my thumb in and finger her until I thought she was relaxed, but as soon as I removed it and tried to start my head in, it was like hitting a brick wall. It wasn't a situation where it was painful for her, I literally couldn't even get it started in.

I don't know if I sighed or what prompted it, but L apologized to me, which about broke my heart. We talked about this later and how she never needed to apologize about something like that. We kissed for a while, and when I asked her if she was ready to try again, she sort of lit up. Talking about it later, she had thought I was done, and she felt like she had messed it up.

After she helped get me ready for try number 2, we went back to the same position. To say that she was determined is an understatement! She lubed both of us up, which for me, was a big turn-on. I don't know if it is because it is a sign of how willing she is or what, but it doesn't take much before I'm ready to go when she does that. She takes me from limp to hard just grabbing the lube, lol.

On a further side note, she has replaced my shitty lotion with stuff that she claims is good. We don't take showers together all the time, but it isn't uncommon for us to be in the bathroom together while the other is getting ready. She has shaved me and tidied me up before, actually quite a few times, and after getting dried off, she always lotions me up with the "her good stuff". It isn't part of my normal routine to do that, but I love it!

Getting back to L's ass , I tried the same fingering and trying to slide in routine with the same results. I don't know why I tried this next, but with my thumb still in her ass, I started trying to feed my head in at the same time I was pulling my thumb out. It stretched her a little for sure, she said it didn't hurt, though, but my head finally slipped in. I don't pretend that I'm not a dork sometimes, and if I told her this right now, she would laugh and call me a dork… My exact words to her were "I'm in," which got a sort of simultaneous exhale and "I know" at the same time.

I'm cracking up just writing this. I don't know why I thought I had just stealthily put my dick in her ass, but hey… chock it up to my excitement . From that point on, it was working in a little, holding that position for a bit, pulling back, and repeat over and over (I really like the over and over part, lol). We used entirely too much lube on her that first time because I was overly afraid I would hurt her. I was pretty slow and steady that time, but she does like it harder and faster now. I don't know if I have any video of that view, but I'll look and try to take some for captures. Holding her ass apart and trying not prematurely cum is about the extent of my skills, though .

L came twice from our first anal session. The first within a minute of starting, which I attribute to the new sensations and just dirtiness of it. The second took a little while, maybe 10 minutes, after I encouraged her to rub her clit, and it sent me over the edge hearing her grunt. I think she could audio record herself cuming, and I'd shoot a load without even being touched!

L was pretty anxious about how messy things were. I get it, and we've really gotten her over being worried about it. Most of the time, it isn't very messy at all, though. I told her that she looked perfect .

I have a better capture than the one I posted yesterday and thought I'd share it.

[indym]

I'm not sure what folks are interested in hearing about next (if anything), but if there is something you are interested in, please let me know. I had planned to write about current things that I think are exciting and maybe a few other memorable things that have happened.

I've learned a little more about what L has txted her girlfriends about us, and she shared more than I thought. I'll post about that after I learn a little more.

While not a fuck fest, the beach trip that she came along for when my niece and a couple of her girlfriends came last fall was fun. I rented a place for a few days and it sort of messed with my head. My niece is close in age to L, and sorry to disappoint anyone, I don't look at my niece that way. My niece's friends, though, I don't mind giving the dark sunglasses stare when they are around haha. It was weird being around them all at the same time.

There was one (niece) I would cut off some guys dick if he tried to fuck her, two (niece's friends) that I felt a little protective of but didn't feel bad checking out, and one (L) that I wished we could sneak away and have some fun. I'll probably write about this next unless there is something else you want to hear about.

Speaking of the beach, I have a beach day planned this weekend that originally was going to be L, her folks, and me, but plans changed. L's dad ended up not being able to go, and the plan was for the three of us to still go (I felt a little weird about that). L's mom has now backed out, so it is just L and me. It was actually is a little weird how that happened. There wasn't any discussion that I was part of, and I didn't think asking questions right now would be all that helpful. I'll find out more tomorrow, not that I'm complaining about going with her alone.

I also thought I'd share a little of the view I mentioned in my last post

[indym]

Our beach day ended up not happening. Saturday was rainy, at least until late in the afternoon, so we called it off. We might try again this weekend, though.

L seems to be pushing things a little more, which I think I'm ok with. I wasn't there for this exchange, but I did quiz her on exactly what she said. I planned to just hang out at home and catch up on laundry, but L mentioned we could watch movies since we were rained out. Apparently, L's mom asked what she was going to do instead of going to the beach. I think she had her own list of things she wanted L to take care of, but L told her that she was going to watch movies with me if I was free. That is why I asked a few more questions, lol.

I asked her what the reaction was, and she kind of gave me a shoulder shrug, which I honestly didn't know if was good or bad. Apparently, the comment was made at some point if L liked hanging out with me, or more of a statement that L liked hanging out with me… I'm not sure which. I guess the answer was yes, haha.

L came over pretty early Saturday morning, and I was still sleeping in. Thank God I'm not as jumpy with her coming in as I was in the beginning. It was a pretty laid-back rainy day doing laundry and watching TV. I forget we are not the same age sometimes, and she saw Cobra Kai in my watch list and didn't know what it was about lol. I made her watch the first Karate Kid with me, and then we watched the first season of Cobra Kai.

Not every day is a full-on fuckfest for us, although I'm not complaining when they are. We kind of played around low-key, just in case someone popped over. It was actually a little exciting. Something about yanking her leggings and panties down to her knees was kind of a turn-on.

I ended up inviting everyone over to my place for dinner and drinks, and everything was relaxed and cool. We did have to make a sweep of my house to make sure that nothing was left out, though, lol. My bathroom can look like L lives with me at times with shampoo, makeup, and clothes in the hamper. I'm getting more comfortable with things being more in the open, but I think we need to ease into it. I don't want outed because she's left dirty clothes around.

We chitchatted on Sunday, just normal stuff. She isn't over here this morning because of a doctor's appointment, and I'm looking forward to seeing her this afternoon!

I'm going to go back and try to write up a little more about how things continued after those first two weeks. I had read another thread about if your partners liked anal, which kind of got me to jump to writing about that because it was on my mind.

[indym]

I bit of a random question... Do any of you have any experience with the Lovense Lush? L wants a Lush, and by God, I ordered her a Lush. I just wondered if anyone has any tips to share?

I mentioned before that L had talked with some of her girlfriends about us, and I continue to find out more about all of that. I'm obviously not shocked about what women talk to their friends about, but I am surprised about L and her girlfriends' openness for some reason. Not mad at all. I'm actually kind of turned on but still surprised.

L had stopped mid blow job before to txt with a couple of friends and responded that she was giving a bj when they asked what she was doing. I sort of thought it was a joking kind of txt, even though it was true . I know she txts with two friends in particular non-stop and has even made me say hello to them on facetime before (just innocent stuff). Well, I found out that she shares quite a bit with them, and they do the same with her. One is without a boyfriend right now, and the other has been dating a guy for a long time (not sure what their definition of a long time is, haha). They all basically tell each other everything… which, for some reason, is pretty hot to me.

L has sent pics of me to both girlfriends, specifically my dick. When I asked her if she had, she actually acted a little embarrassed. Not in a mad way, but more teasingly, I asked if she has shown them, and I got a shy/embarrassed "yeahhhh". I told her that I hoped she got my best angle, which made her laugh and lighten up a little. Facetiming with them will be a little different for me from now on.

The reason that I'm asking about the Lush, one of the girlfriends has one and has L excited about trying it. I ordered L's, but the perv in me thinks this is dirty and hot… her friend offered to let her borrow her Lush if she wanted to try it out. I have some good buddies, but it never crossed my mind to offer to let them borrow my cock ring, haha. Sharing toys amongst the girlfriends turns me on more than I would have thought. Maybe I'm the naive one, lol. I need to figure out how hard it is to do one of those Clone-A-Willy kits for L… maybe I'll get loaned out, haha.

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by indym

I bit of a random question... Do any of you have any experience with the Lovense Lush? I need to figure out how hard it is to do one of those Clone-A-Willy kits for L… maybe I'll get loaned out, haha.

I can't help you with the Lush, but I can tell you about the Clone-A-Willy kit!

When she was still living with her ex, my wife (then g/f) and I bought one so that she could have my cock at home with her whenever she wanted it.
It isn't that difficult to use and its a hell of a lot of fun! Just goofy and funny to do. She and I laughed a lot that night and still tell stories to friends about it. The hardest part is maintaining the hard-on during the 20 minutes or so that the mold is setting up because you're laughing so much!

If you decide to do it, I suggest getting out the video camera and taping the whole process just for the entertainment value... I wish we had!

[indym]

Originally Posted by nectcouple

I can't help you with the Lush, but I can tell you about the Clone-A-Willy kit!

When she was still living with her ex, my wife (then g/f) and I bought one so that she could have my cock at home with her whenever she wanted it.
It isn't that difficult to use and its a hell of a lot of fun! Just goofy and funny to do. She and I laughed a lot that night and still tell stories to friends about it. The hardest part is maintaining the hard-on during the 20 minutes or so that the mold is setting up because you're laughing so much!

If you decide to do it, I suggest getting out the video camera and taping the whole process just for the entertainment value... I wish we had!

I showed her the kit, and she is all about trying it out... like demanding that I order it ASAP. I'll definitely video it, too. I read that it's best to be completely hair-free, which is fine. Is that your recommendation, too? L wants to wax me, and I'm not sure I want that, although I'm a big fan of the look on her.

I'm going to tell her that it will only work if she keeps me completely hard the entire 20 minutes, and how is she going to do that? That will put her mind in overdrive, which can only be a good thing for me I'll let you know what she comes up with.

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by indym

I showed her the kit, and she is all about trying it out... like demanding that I order it ASAP. I'll definitely video it, too. I read that it's best to be completely hair-free, which is fine. Is that your recommendation, too? L wants to wax me, and I'm not sure I want that, although I'm a big fan of the look on her.

I'm going to tell her that it will only work if she keeps me completely hard the entire 20 minutes, and how is she going to do that? That will put her mind in overdrive, which can only be a good thing for me I'll let you know what she comes up with.

Yeah, you don't want the putty from the mold setting up with your pubic hair stuck in it. Shave or wax it all off...everywhere! I shaved, but if you are a fan of that kind of pain, then go ahead and let her wack it off- I mean wax it off!

My wife solved the second problem with a sensuous strip and masturbatory show. I just sat back and enjoyed.
(Btw, that cup of goop you have to stick your junk in until it sets up, was COLD!)

[indym]

Originally Posted by nectcouple

Yeah, you don't want the putty from the mold setting up with your pubic hair stuck in it. Shave or wax it all off...everywhere! I shaved, but if you are a fan of that kind of pain, then go ahead and let her wack it off- I mean wax it off!

My wife solved the second problem with a sensuous strip and masturbatory show. I just sat back and enjoyed.
(Btw, that cup of goop you have to stick your junk in until it sets up, was COLD!)

Well, all I have to say is fuck me... L scheduled a waxing appointment for Friday. I don't know how I feel about that lol. On the one hand, having someone do it who does it all the time is probably a good thing.

I've been instructed not to shave before the appointment. L said that she is going with me, and I don't know if it is to make fun of me or lend support haha.

I'm also the topic of the morning with her girlfriend, and of course...they are facetiming about it . I think it is only fair that you get to see her

[indym]

Originally Posted by H_P

First I want to say thank you for the pictures!

Now, I know it is asking a lot, but would it be possible to get pictures that are that close without cropping, so we can see her bigger than life size? She is beautiful.

I'll see what we can do, but I want to explain why I'm hesitant. I don't want her getting identified and having a problem because of it, so I probably go a little overboard.

The other reason is that I put some ground rules down early on because I didn't want her getting us busted because she was posting selfies and stuff to twitter that would lead to questions of "where are you". So we don't take lots of pics or vids in general.

The relationship part is changing, so maybe some less zoomed-in stuff will happen.