Asking Your Wife Or Girlfriend What Someone Looks Like Nude

[ukgoldfish]

Originally Posted by MrBrummell

My college ex-girlfriend used to love to do this, my ex-wife grudgingly did it occasionally, my wife not so much.

From my girlfriend I got VERY complete descriptions of her sister, all her friends, several girls from her dorm...

There are a few of my wife's friends I'd love to get the details on, so far she has refused every effort to get her to give it up. The other day though she took great delight in letting me know that she saw one of the women on my list topless while they were out on a girls' weekend, that she looked fantastic and knew I'd think so too. I think she wants to, she probably just wants to make sure she gets something in return.

My wife has always been happy to do this as well - She and her friends -especially in their 20’s - would often go away for spa days or girls weekends so I’d be kept fully up to date with who had their pussy shaved, what good shape a girl was in etc. (Also used to get the latest tales of bfs and hooks ups which I also loved)

Of course I realised that if Beth was doing this for me then it was very likely that her friends were telling their bfs and husbands about Beth. Definitely a turn on for me knowing that their bfs knew all about Beth’s pussy and lovely perky 34b’s - made group nights out fun knowing that they knew about Beth what I knew about their gfs!

[MrBrummell]

Originally Posted by ukgoldfish

Of course I realised that if Beth was doing this for me then it was very likely that her friends were telling their bfs and husbands about Beth.

It's only fair!

[drewmas58]

Any partners ever taken pictures for you ?

[Rawb138]

Some great new responses here--thanks you guys!

Something I want to clarify: for me it is the TELLING that is most important.
Of course i would love to see pictures of any of these women naked.
(I have one set of pictures of a friend naked but not showing her pussy while she was pregnant. My wife is a photographer and did the session for her friend as a favor. These pictures are GOLD to me. Will never share and am grateful to have them every day)

But the thing is, I get off on my wife--or as in high school like I mentioned earlier, my girlfriend from back then--describing these women to me.
The fact that she does this shows how much she wants me to get off. It shows how much she likes to look herself.
(Women responding to visual stimulus is super sexy to me.)

it's also like a kinky "betrayal" of sorts. Like, these women have undressed in a supposed "safe space" and now my wife (or girlfriend) is betraying that trust and in essence objectifying them for our sexual gratification.
Kind of wrong but so hot!!

Keep the stories coming, please.

[pball2295]

Originally Posted by Rawb138

it's also like a kinky "betrayal" of sorts. Like, these women have undressed in a supposed "safe space" and now my wife (or girlfriend) is betraying that trust and in essence objectifying them for our sexual gratification.
Kind of wrong but so hot!!

I agree with this assessment so much Rawb. It turns me on for the same reason. Frankly, it's the very same reason I love seeing nude pictures of even average woman I know personally SO much more than seeing a picture of a beautiful porn star or something. It's not just that I know her -- it's also that she has no idea that I've seen every inch of her body, and jerked off to her regularly. Or in the case of verbal description -- that I know what she looks like naked based on a trustworthy source.

Agree with the "kind of wrong" part in both cases, but much less so for mere description. This is really a small betrayal of trust on the part of the describer, but it's harmless in the grand scheme of things, so long as you never publicize the information. Like -- does it harm the girl I mentioned in my story in any way that I know she has a sloppy pussy, so long as I keep that information to myself? I think it's fine. Picture sharing without permission is much more ethically dubious. I personally prefer having explicit permission or complete identity censorship.

[raysallx]

My wife and I used to work for the same company. We had a VERY busty coworker who had just had a baby. One evening, without my prompting (but knowing I was a big tit fanatic…my wife is busty also) my wife told me that she had seen this coworker in the bathroom expressing milk, not using a pump, but actually squeezing her nipples and spraying into a bottle for her baby. I said, “Oh.” This coworker gave us a ride home one night and I really wanted us to become friends with her and her husband, since we both had young children, worked for the same company, etc., but my wife seemed to nix the idea. Imagine that. And as usually happens, the woman quit the company and moved away soon afterward, but I still have that image of her in my mind...it's like I was there.

[ripstar1]

An xgf of mine was going shopping with this friend of ours for a bikini. I had always wanted to see this gal's tits. They looked great covered and I could only fantasize what they really looked like. As she left to meet the gal I told her she was going to be lucky and see those "beauties of the gal's". I told her I wanted a detailed description when she returned.

A couple hours later I received a text from my gf saying she was about to send me the report I wanted. The next text I received was a picture of the other gal in a new bikini in the dressing room. The next text was a picture of this gal topless in the dressing room with the comment, "Is this what you wanted to see?" The next text was a picture (selfie) of the other gal and my gf topless next to each other with the comment, "How do you like these?"

Yes, the other gal's tits were beautiful, all that I had dreamed of. Later that day the gals came back to our place. They had both bought new bikinis. They went into the bedroom and put them on and came out to give me a viewing, wanting my opinion of the new bikinis. They both looked great.

They went back into the bedroom to change, only they both returned completely naked. They asked now how do we look? The other gal said she didn't realize how infatuated I was with her body. She ended up telling me all I had to do was ask and she would have showed me those beauties earlier - after all we are friends! A couple years later I got to enjoy them even better as we did a 4some swap.

[ukgoldfish]

it's also like a kinky "betrayal" of sorts. Like, these women have undressed in a supposed "safe space" and now my wife (or girlfriend) is betraying that trust and in essence objectifying them for our sexual gratification.
Kind of wrong but so hot!!

Keep the stories coming, please.[/QUOTE]

Rawb, I totally agree that it’s the telling and the sense of ‘betrayal’ that makes this such a horny little kink

One of my all time favourite experiences was a time when Beth and I had gone away for a hotel spa break with her best friend and her new boyfriend. Her friend was a pretty girl, at this time mid 20’s, curly brown hair, long legs and small breasts. Even as a straight guy I could tell that her new boyfriend was a good looking guy with a certain type of ‘x’ factor

We had spent the afternoon in the spa, swimmimg, massage etc and the girls had gone for some beauty treatments.

When Beth and I were back in our hotel room afterwards and before we went out for dinner with the other couple we were lying on the bed chatting and Beth mentioned that Liz (the other girl) was really into her new guy. This lead into a conversation about Liz having her pussy waxed smooth at the spa because he liked his gf to be smooth. Beth obviously knows I like that kind of talk and so gave me great details about Liz’s small pussy lips and general neatness. She also told me how even though Liz’s breasts were small they were a lovely shape with very round pink nipples.

It only seemed fair to return the favour so I told Beth about Liz’s boyfriend as he and I had been in the communal showers after the spa. i told her about his body and round cock while gently stroking her pussy. Needless to say, Beth found it horny as hell and so before long we were fucking like rabbits..

Made for a very nice dinner sitting opposite Liz knowing about her smooth pussy and pretty nipples and knowing that Beth was almost certainly thinking about the other guys cock

Obviously both Beth and I had totally betrayed the secrets of the changing room and that made it even hornier!

[Barmixer]

My wife went on a golf getaway with a group of friends. She shared a room with a mutual friend. The friend came out of the shower stark naked. My wife said her black bush was the hairiest she had ever seen. Up to her navel and onto her thighs. We wondered how her husband ever got his tongue near her pussy.

They had told us that on their first date they did not fuck but had oral sex. That sight would have been the last date!

[nobby11]

Originally Posted by Barmixer

My wife went on a golf getaway with a group of friends. She shared a room with a mutual friend. The friend came out of the shower stark naked. My wife said her black bush was the hairiest she had ever seen. Up to her navel and onto her thighs. We wondered how her husband ever got his tongue near her pussy.

They had told us that on their first date they did not fuck but had oral sex. That sight would have been the last date!

Not for me it wouldn’t. Horses for courses my friend.