[Exhibitionist] Turned on when another guy sees your wife/gf topless or nude

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Yes, I get really turned on, esp. if she's the only one naked, and more so if it's among friends.

[raysallx]

Originally Posted by SandiG

Jack has always like other guys looking at me. As time went on, I was shocked and not at all happy to learn that Jack wanted me to go to a nude beach or nudist resort. I had no intention of being nude in front of other men.

Things change, and I’ll skip how we got from there to here. Yes, Jack gets turned on when another guy sees me nude. And that’s happened many times in many different ways and circumstances at the beach, but not only at the beach.

Jack gets even more turned on when I socially interact with men while nude at the beach, resort or somewhere else.

Wherever we are, we never go as a couple. Jack says it puts a damper on things if guys think we’re a couple. There’s more sexual tension when a guy thinks I’m alone. It also would make it impossible to play some of our games. And Jack gets turned on from watching.

Yes, he’s seen it in person many, many times. Other times I’ve told him about it. Why? It’s a whole other turn on for him. He started mixing going with me and asking me to go alone, spend the day nude, talk to guys, and either call him and tell him what I’ve been doing or just wait to tell him when I get home. It always ends in great sex. I asked him why he didn’t want to go with me and he said it wasn’t that he didn’t want to go, but that he thought it incredibly hot for me to do alone.

Only once (recently) did I think I may have stepped over the line, but was very relieved to find that I hadn’t.

I suspect most husbands who take their wives to nude beaches or resorts are turned on by the idea of showing her off.

[blueman2021]

My wife and I wanted to go to a bathing beach again after many years. When she was young, it was common for her to lay topless in the sun and also go swimming in the water! Often even completely naked. Of course it always turned me on when she was watched by the guys.
But after 2 births, her figure has changed by 2 sizes, mainly her breasts have grown. Despite this, her figure was still great!

So we went to the beach and she put on her two piece suit to sunbathe topless. Few women were topless on the beach, none were completely naked. After a while she also took off her top and discreetly looked around to see if she was being watched.
Actually not yet, so she dared to go swimming. The water was about 50 m from our place.

Since I didn't want to go with her, I stayed seated to watch. She went into the water up to her neck and swam a bit. When she came out again, she stopped short when the water was standing on her belly button. The breasts were already exposed. She slowly came out all the way and walked in my direction. Next to her was a woman, also topless but with smaller breasts. The men near me had their eyes on the 2 women. When my wife then came in my direction and the other woman went in the other direction, the men's eyes stayed on my wife's breasts.
This turned me on again like when I was younger, maybe even more so that my wife's tits were still interesting.

In fact, her heavy tits swayed up and down as she walked.
She came back with a slightly red head and protruding nipples.
When I asked her about it, was the water that cold or are you horny?
Then she answered me: both!

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by raysallx

I suspect most husbands who take their wives to nude beaches or resorts are turned on by the idea of showing her off.

I definitely do. She’s got a great body still in her mid-50’s, and I love the attention she gets. So does she. I posted some of this on a different thread, but it bears here too.

One time we had been walking along the water together, and then I had walked ahead to leave her alone. As others have said, when we are together she doesn’t get as much attention.

When I walked back, she was talking to two young guys, college-aged. As I got closer it was obvious they were checking out every bit of her, and I think they must have liked that she has some fur on her pussy and not shaved bare like girls their age. The one guy didn’t have much control over his cock (who among us did at that age) because his cock was very erect and pointing up. That also caught her attention because that’s where her eyes were also.

I ended up walking up and engaged in their conversation, making sure that I didn’t have a problem with them checking her out and even making small sexual jokes.

After a while, they said they had to get back to their group and we parted. She was very excited by this and we headed back to our hotel room and fucked like crazy, both of us roleplaying her with the college guys - it helped that I was in her from behind.

[blueman2021]

The day after:
My wife wanted to go to the beach again of her own accord. This time she stayed topless and hadn't put the top on at all. She wore only a tight shirt and nothing underneath. So she started from the hotel.

We went back to the same place as before and I noticed that the same people or the same guys were here.
We prepared our berth and she got up right away and took off her shirt and put sunscreen on her tits.
Immediately all eyes looked at her and she noticed it just as quickly.

Today some women were topless again, some even completely naked. My wife then lay down on the towel with her large breasts lying sideways. I could see 2 guys getting a lot closer with their towels. So they had the best view and she had noticed it. After a short time she went towards the water and swam. Then she came out of the water again and I didn't think I could see it properly - she had her bikini panties in her hand and was now bare at the bottom. She really liked presenting herself naked to other men and I was proud that she was so well received and was more than turned on!

[crazyloco]

...and I wish I had leaned into it earlier.

When my wife and I went on a honeymoon to the Caribbean, we wound up at a hotel with lots of women from Europe. It was the late 90s, and toplessness was still fairly common. I am embarrassed to say that, despite being on my honeymoon, I was loving it a little too much.

After a few days, my wife had had enough. As we were walking down the beach (and my eyes were no doubt elsewhere), she finally said, "Well, apparently, a woman has to be topless to get your attention these days!" and whipped off her top. Mind you, she was extremely conservative, having been raised in the Bible Belt. She would shop at "old lady stores" for her clothes and swimsuits. But now there she was (mid 20s, very petite former cheerleader with perky little A cup tits) walking down a beach topless.

It was so out of character, I was completely caught off guard. And, before I could respond, I could see this single guy walking toward us. I didn't want to cause a scene, so I said nothing, and just held her hand as the guy walked past, clearly looking at my wife's tits.

As soon as he passed, I told her to put her top back on because I, too, had been raised in the Bible Belt. After some back and forth, she begrudgingly did so....but not before I realized I had a massive erection (that was equally obvious to her and the rest of the beach). Clearly, I had enjoyed what had just happened, but I was too (brainwashed?) to enjoy it.

That was a shame. In retrospect, I really wish I had told her how good she looked, how hot it made me, etc. And I wish I would have encouraged it more on that trip and thereafter. Instead, she reverted to her conservative self, and it took over a decade of persuasion to get her to loosen up again.

Thankfully she has, thanks in no small part to a boob job which has increased her confidence. She now regularly wears thongs to the beach and is willing to show her D cups at the right pools and beaches. Sometimes, she even drops the bottoms. The difference is I now provide the encouragement I should have decades ago.

She was particularly bold at Moorea this summer, but perhaps I will leave that story for another post.

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Well, I posted to this thread previously, but only said that yes, it does turn me on, but didn't elaborate. Seeing that others have posted about specific instances, I'll now do likewise. Just a few:

She stripped off at a pool party once, and danced around the pool, the only one naked among friends. Big turn on for me.
A group of us guys and our wives or GF'S visited a strip bar for amateur night, and she got up on the stage.
At a pub just before closing she climbed atop the bar and stripped off.
In each of these instances, she was totally naked.
The one time I remember her keeping her bottom on was at a party when she did a striptease and her dad and her brother were present. But later they did get to see her totally naked when she had a nude role in a community theatre production.
Plenty of other times, each one a massive turn on for me.

And as said in my earlier post, I like it best when she's the only one naked (usually the case), it's among friends or workmates (sometimes), and when she talks with the men looking at her nakedness (whenever she can, with friends and strangers alike). Depending on the situation, we may or may not let on that we're together.

[MFN]

Examining my own reaction to other guys seeing her naked, I find that I'm turned on the most when it's a small group, like when she introduces me to her workmates at a house party: she has decided to be naked and she's socialising with clothed people we know. In such circumstances others are pleasantly shocked but recover quickly. Me? I just savor the moment, watching her naked in front of the people who see her clothed at the office every day.

The other extreme is when 150 people, mostly strangers but some we know, attend the stage play where she has the only nude role. Although very pleasant, I guess that's not as much of a turn-on for me, because it's expected. But, if she stays nude for the cast party afterward, then we're back to the small group where we know most of them and she socialises, and I get very turned.

I like it a lot when she models for our art group and she talks with the artists she knows.

Plenty more.

[Massguy70]

We goto nude beaches and lifestyle clubs/events once in awhile. For me, it's not that exciting when it's expected and there are a bunch of other people are naked. I really enjoy her exposures in vanilla settings. Guys who see her in those situations are loving it and I get to do what they want to do later. So I guess I feel like the situations is happening to me as an outsider.

All of her dresses show cleavage. Some show a lot. The same with her regular tops. Depending on the bra, at least one breast (usually the right one) will try to escape. The dress pictured is my current favorite. A very plunging neckline that shows a lot from the start. Her right breast has a small scar on it. I use that as my guide. It's a little less than an inch from her areola. And then there is a small brown spot that is about a half inch away so I know it's getting closer. Anticipation builds as it becomes more and more exposed then I start to see a sliver, kind of like a new moon in the sky. And how my heart is racing as I want to see how much will be exposed before she readjusts them. Depending on the situation, like at a restaurant recently, I'm planning what I might need as this is going on. That way the waiter will be able to enjoy the view from a higher vantage point. And my drink will arrive quicker lol! Another time was while shopping for mattresses. We tried out a bunch of them and she got into bouncing around she had her massive breasts totally out of place. So it got to a point where the right nipple was fully exposed as she laid on her side with her head in her hand as we talked to the salesman for awhile. He just sat a few feet away taking in the view. That's a turnon! These pictures was taken before after getting back from dinner a couple of weeks ago.

[Boobs]

It depends on the situation and context. If it's casual, accidental or artistic, like being topless/naked on a beach or posing in the nude for an art class; yes, definitely. Especially if she is the only one, or one of the few, topless/naked. But if the art class only consists of guys (like in a bachelor party), or if she wants to strip on stage, or walk around naked in some city... No fucking way!