What have you got your wife or girlfriend to do

[Hamburgny69]

Originally Posted by Erotictimes

We tried it a couple of times, however the vibe never matched her mood when we were there in that special way for an erotic adventure to unfold. It is so much about timing after all! This place had a general "anything goes" main floor with a couples only balcony. Both times we sat up top amongst several other couples. Spacing was pretty far, although the occasional moans and sights did provide a bit of electricity for us to play around a bit. She was particularly creeped however by the single guys on the lower level standing up on chairs at the very front of the theater next to the screen. From there they could get a view of the balcony with the couples, and periodically someone would hop up there facing everyone in the seats, whip it out, and jack off (presumably to the couples up top). I suggested we sit down below in the general population knowing no-one would bother us unless invited, but she did not feel comfortable enough having seen this and being new to the environment/vibe of an adult theater.

The second and last time we went was a Friday night, and the place was a little busier than I expected. We brought a few cocktails in with us, and after a couple drinks and some fondling up in the couples-only balcony I needed to use the restroom. I went downstairs to the general admission floor and on the way to the lav walked right by a young lady with nearly nothing on, feverishly servicing some gent with a blowjob. She was surrounded by a half-dozen guys with their cocks out all waiting their turn. I actually witnessed a "theater sl*t" in action!

When I returned to the balcony, I said to D "You have to check this out". We moved up to the front row of the balcony and looked down right over the action. She was blown away (pardon the more than appropriate pun) by what she saw, and stared for a solid five minutes. "OMG, am I really seeing this?" and "Wow she is working hard" she mumbled to me. Then the surprise - she said "I could see myself doing that, looks like fun!", followed with "Maybe next time, it would definitely take a few drinks first".

So we discussed it a bit on the ride home that night. Sure we are both comfortable with an evolving level of sex with others - but would either of us really be ready for this? I think my biggest concern was disease (at least that is what I told myself), I like to have a comfortable feeling up front including hygiene about anyone D may touch, and perhaps I am old school but condoms are not part of oral sex as I see it.

Ultimately we somehow decided that the vibe of that place was not really a fit for us and we never did return, but hearing those unexpected reactions/comments from D sure is a great memory. Glad I can check the box next to "Brought the wife to an adult theater".

I used to travel to Hartford a lot. I would stop by the theater. It was always slower during the week. They used have couples day ( I think it was on a Tuesday where couples had free admission. I had lots of fun with couples whenever I went there

[DRDavenport]

Originally Posted by Erotictimes

We tried it a couple of times, however the vibe never matched her mood when we were there in that special way for an erotic adventure to unfold. It is so much about timing after all! This place had a general "anything goes" main floor with a couples only balcony. Both times we sat up top amongst several other couples. Spacing was pretty far, although the occasional moans and sights did provide a bit of electricity for us to play around a bit. She was particularly creeped however by the single guys on the lower level standing up on chairs at the very front of the theater next to the screen. From there they could get a view of the balcony with the couples, and periodically someone would hop up there facing everyone in the seats, whip it out, and jack off (presumably to the couples up top). I suggested we sit down below in the general population knowing no-one would bother us unless invited, but she did not feel comfortable enough having seen this and being new to the environment/vibe of an adult theater.<snip>

I also recognized the layout of the Hartford. Very awkward trying to play on that balcony. I have heard they improved it some.

DR

[Smackdab81]

The other day, my ex girlfriend Emma (who I have posted about in this thread) came up in conversation while we hung out with some old friends of mine. I don’t much care for when my friends bring her up because it gets my current wife (I’ll call her Sara) thinking about things and she seems to get irritated and mildly jealous. On the drive home she said “so were either of those guys (the two we were having dinner with) one of the ones you guys had sex with?” I told her no. And she sat quiet. Then she asked point blank if I wished she was more wild like Emma and I told her that I’m an honest person and while I’m 100% happy with her and she’s the love of my life and I love our sex life that I still wouldn’t say no to new and exciting adventures. She scoffed a bit and said she would never sleep with another man or let me sleep with another woman. I said I wasn’t speaking about that. Just generally anything new to us would be exciting. She thought for a moment. “Like what?”

So I listed a few things. Sex outside by our pool. Sex in public. Going to a nude beach. She seemed to chew on this. And said “ok”. “Ok what?” I asked. “I’ll try. Maybe we can have sex by the pool soon.

This is a pretty exciting development as we haven’t done anything besides have sex in our room and hotel rooms/airbnbs before. Hope I have something to report soon.

[carameldelight]

While posing in a park on a river about 3 months ago, my wife mentioned posing at a lake we had both been to and happened to be close to the university I went to. I looked around on Google Earth and found a few spots we had never been to and told her what we were doing. She got away with going completely naked in a few but couldn't in the other. It was starting to get dark so I suggest going to dinner, getting some alcohol in her because we were going to campus after. We got to campus and she was completely dressed including wearing a sweater. We walked to the center of campus and it was way busier than I thought it would complete with a jogger who made 2 circuits in the short time we sat there. We started walking back the way we came and she lagged behind taking off her shorts and shirt. I'm pretty sure a guy saw her do that because when we made our turn he took a long look our way but kept going straight. She put her shorts and shirt around the back of her neck and tucked them into her sweater so she wasn't carrying them. The new spot we stopped in was more secluded but with blind corners so she started out bottomless under her sweater and then was just in the sweater. The sweater doesn't fasten in front so unless she held it closed she was full frontal while walking. We got away with more than I thought but not as much as I wanted.

[Smackdab81]

Originally Posted by Smackdab81

This is a pretty exciting development as we haven’t done anything besides have sex in our room and hotel rooms/airbnbs before. Hope I have something to report soon.

When I had this conversation with my wife, Sara, I didn’t mean anything specific but one of the examples I gave was having sex outdoors by our pool. She sort of became fixed on this as something I really wanted. It came up several times. We were out for dinner and drinking a bit and I mentioned having a night swim when we got home. She immediately mentioned sex and saying she wasn’t sure she was up for it. I said it was fine and I’d be up for whatever she was comfortable with. We got home and she went to put her suit on. I always just typically jump in in my boxers so I went straight to the pool with drinks and when she joined me she looked gorgeous. Her dark green bikini is my favorite and she knows it. It’s not overly revealing but she has a sexy body and looks great in it. We didn’t have any outdoor lights on except the light in the pool. Our neighbor who we share the fence with had all their lights off. Very unlikely anyone would be over there to see anything.

When she got in the water I kissed her and she was very hesitant. We talked a bit and I kissed her again. She was more loose this time. Maybe thanks to the alcohol. She kissed back and had her hands on my back holding me close as we made out. My hands went to her ass. She has a nice shapely butt and she’s confided that it turns her on when I grope it. My hands went to her front and I squeezed her tit through her thick padded bikini top. Then she really shocked me. She reached behind her and undid her top and placed it to the side of the pool. Her dark nipples glistening with pool water on them. I squeezed and played with her nipples and kissed her more. Her had went to my boxers and she found my cock and stroked it a bit then pulled me out through the fly hole. My hand was on her pussy. I could feel her clit through the swimsuit material. She was breathing heavy. My wife does not take long to make cum from using my hands or tongue on her clit.

I slid inside her bottoms and even with the pool water I could feel how wet she was. I rubbed inside her pussy and then played with her clit. After a minute she clung to me. One hand stroking my dick and the other digging into my back. Her head was next to mine and she whispered the sexiest sentence a woman can say, “I’m gonna cum”. She started breathing heavy but stifled her moans. As she finished quivering I continued to slide my fingers around her pussy. She gets very sensitive after an orgasm and she pushed my hand away. She continued stroking me while I rubbed her body. Squeezing her ass and tits. Finally I burst underwater. My cum ejecting and floating all around.

We stayed in the pool a bit. Perhaps the biggest shock of all was when we went inside she just walked up the steps and over to the bin with the towels. She made no effort to cover her tits. I know no one was out there but she’s usually so modest. The next morning I took the dog out and seeing her bikini top laying on the side of the pool was enough to get me hard. Just the thought of her opening up that way.

I’ve been careful to not make a big deal out of it. But I’ve expressed that it was extremely arousing. I explained that even a handjob could be so much more erotic and exciting with the circumstance being a little different and she agreed. She said it was one of the best orgasms of her life. I’m so excited to see where this takes us. We have a camping trip this weekend coming up. Hoping to see what we can accomplish in the great outdoors.

[Smackdab81]

I forgot I had mentioned the camping trip in my last post. Though nothing super exciting happened. The campground was very crowded and there were loads of kids around. We did have sex the first night though.

What I really came here to report though was the fun night we had last Saturday. I’ve told my wife about my semi-wild past and how it included a lot of drinking and strip games. She was being very inquisitive about them as we had dinner and were making our way through a couple bottles of wine. She asked about what games we played and asked why they had to involve stripping. I didn’t really have an answer. I mean the truth is so all us guys could see the girls naked. I just said it made the games more interesting and fun.

I was explaining how we played a game called Kings. It’s simple enough you spread a deck of cards in a ring around an empty cup and assign each number with an action/prompt. 2-drink, 3-person to you left drinks, 4-girls drink… and so on. If you draw a king you dump some of your drink into the cup. When someone draws the fourth king they have to chug the cup and the game starts anew. It makes for some pretty terribly tasting concoctions when you account for the fact that me and my guy friends always had beer and the girls were all drinking Smirnoff ice back then. Our house rules were always that 9 and 10 were truth and jacks and queens were dare.

She seemed to mostly get it but the wine was making me feel adventurous and I said hang on and went and grabbed a deck of cards and two beers. She was hesitant at first but as I’ve mentioned before she seems to be making an effort to be more open and fun. I’d hate to think she’s feeling inadequate or anything and hope she’s just realizing that we have some untapped potential in our sex lives and our lives in general. Either way I really am happy she’s opening up.

Anyway, I spread the cards out and wrote down what all the cards mean you have to do. Took a while to think of things for all of them but eventually we started. I drew a jack so she got to dare me and she told me to take off my shirt. Now, I anticipated maybe a quick round just to give her the idea. I did not think she’d go for stripping but she went straight for it. I took my shirt off and we continued. It was late and we weren’t wearing all that many clothing items to begin with. After ten turns or so I was fully naked and she had on just her panties. She was giggling and having fun. I was over the moon seeing my wife there topless. Not covering up much at all. Casually playing a game. I got to thinking how amazing it would be if we played with some friends. It started making me horny to think of her being that open. Probably not a real possibility though. The next time she drew a dare card I decided to move on from stripping. As much as I’d have liked to see her without her undies I decided to dare her to go outside and walk all the way around the pool. She said no way. I reminded her she had been topless out there only a couple weeks ago. And she gave me sort of a “you asshole” look. She stood up and walked to the back door and slid it open looking around. I told her there was zero chance anyone would see. She had a very coy and ENF vibe about her that was very sexy.

Back at the table she eventually drew the final king. The cup was nearly full of beer and she drank it down like a champ. We’re not heavy drinkers so this night had us pretty loopy. I tried to get her to go into the pool but the heat wasn’t on and it was a bit chilly that night. Instead we found ourselves going at it on our living room couch. Probably one of the most prolonged sexual encounters we’ve ever had with the most positions. Oral, missionary, her on top, doggy… I started to feel I’d never cum from the drinking and she pushed me down and sucked my dick for a good five minutes before I finally lost my load in her mouth. She doesn’t usually take it in her mouth. She’ll pull away and jerk me off. So she quickly stood up and scurried to the kitchen to spit it out in the sink. Seeing her quickly shuffle across the room fully naked with my cum dripping on her chin was quite the sight.

Again I’m not trying to make a big deal out of things. I want her to be comfortable. But I’m reliving these moments in my head and glad I have the outlet of this board to share our fun.

[Watchmen]

For my wife and I it isn’t so much what I have got her to do, but rather I have been very clear to support her embrace and expression of her own sexuality. Sadly in so many cultures women are conditioned to be ashamed of liking sex or enjoying any sexual expression.

My wife likes the chance of being seen naked or in revealing clothing in public. For a long time this embarrassed her and she tried to hide it. It has taken a lot of reinforcement on my part to make sure she knows that I not only accept this aspect of her, I celebrate it.

Her journey is still in process, but over the last several years she has enjoyed (and I have enjoyed as well) things like skinny dipping in a pool where a lucky neighbor likely could see her. Wearing revealing clothing, or no clothing on hikes, not closing the curtains or blinds at hotels, getting naked on hotel balconies, and naked car rides.

It has been a lot of fun, and I have been very careful not to push her outside of her comfort zone and make sure she knows that I support whatever she wants to do.

[pantysniper]

My wife is the "good girl" kind, which unfortunately means that she's very careful about showing anything. This extends all the way to panty lines, bra straps, and her underwear showing through her clothes.

We have an upcoming trip later this week. She has already packed for it. Since we're going to a beach-front property, she packed a very nice summer dress. Yes, it's kinda short and it may fly very easy if enough wind is present, but today I'm not talking about that. I've gone through her luggage and replaced all her underwear with bright colors. This means that no matter what she decides to wear, it will show through, unless of course she decides to wear nothing underneath. I don't think she'll do that, though, as "good girls always wear panties". This will be interesting.

[traditional]

My wife and I had the experience of having a very successful threesome (MMF) after an evening with a number of her workmates. They watched some of my porn movies and then she invited one of them back to our bedroom. I had second dip into her pussy which was pretty satisfying as she was moist and ready for it.

Anyway, that experience led me to think about her possibly having an experience with the same guy and a friend of his. I was going away on a business trip, so I left her with the idea.

Much to my surprise, she invited her workmate around for dinner and he brought a mate along with him.

One thing led to another and they ended up in our bed. They both had their way with her.

I know about this because she wrote a story about the experience, then sent it to me while I was away.

Apparently, she took one in her pussy while sucking the other one off. The guys alternated roles at critical times. She swallowed on both occasions.

Needless to say, I w*nked over this and then had wonderful sex with her on my return home.

[Smackdab81]

So getting the wife to come out of her shell has been a process. But it’s all been worth the wait. Recently we had a conversation regarding wearing underwear. She said she didn’t see how or why a woman would go commando in a skirt. I told her she went without pretty often and she said only in tight pants and usually just to avoid panty lines. I mentioned that it would be quite hot to go out with her in one of her short dresses or skirts knowing she was panty-less underneath.

Fast forward to the other night. We went out for dinner at a semi-formal place. As we pulled out of the driveway she said my name then lifted her skirt. Her neatly trimmed bush staring back at me. Her legs were tightly together so all I saw was her pubes. My jaw dropped and I was immediately hard. Again, trying to play it cool and not make too big of a deal of things we just had a laugh about it. But it never left my mind at dinner. I wondered if her legs were apart enough under the table that anyone might see but the angles were all wrong.

After driving home as we walked up the driveway she glanced around, seeing if anyone was out in our neighborhood. They were not so she promptly lifter her skirt up showing me her fully tan smooth butt. On the other side of the door I had her up against the wall with my tongue down her throat. I ran my hands up her thigh and she was so wet. We fucked right there in the foyer.

She is fairly modest in how she dresses and doesn’t talk sex with others but she’s always been a good fuck. But as things grow stale it’s nice that she’s trying new things. One thing at a time. Each new experience getting us closer and closer to some hopefully truly wild times.