Lack of toplessness on beaches

[familleplage]

Originally Posted by eviltwin

I’m from Norway, wife from Denmark, we live in Denmark now.
She didn’t start wearing a top on the beach until sometime in her 20s, I believe, so all through her teenage years and up until she got settled I would guess.
We met later in life, when we were both in our 30s.

Will hunt for shoeboxes in the attic when I get a chance

Hi, sounds like my wife
As your's she was always topless !

I met her when I was 24 and she 25. I had the chance to discover her youth in those famous shoeboxes

[Erii]

I had probably one glorious vacation with my wife when in our early twenties where she militantly never wore a bikini top on the beach or by the pool. But hardly any other ladies were too back then.

But since then it got less and less pretty quickly and now nothing.

The bit I really missed out on is holidays with her friends when they all go topless. She even went on one of these nit long after the holiday we had together above, where her and 3 friends went topless all week. Man I would love some proper photos of that holiday! Not the slightly tame ones my wife seems to have taken.

[familleplage]

Originally Posted by Erii

I had probably one glorious vacation with my wife when in our early twenties where she militantly never wore a bikini top on the beach or by the pool. But hardly any other ladies were too back then.

But since then it got less and less pretty quickly and now nothing.

The bit I really missed out on is holidays with her friends when they all go topless. She even went on one of these nit long after the holiday we had together above, where her and 3 friends went topless all week. Man I would love some proper photos of that holiday! Not the slightly tame ones my wife seems to have taken.

yes, that's probably good times !
Don't hesitate to reach me out with a private message !
I would be happy to discuss with you

[bushman1]

Originally Posted by familleplage

My wife is still topless at the beach, even this year.

Pretty much same here......
wife hates wearing a top, on the boat or at the beach she pretty much never wears a top whether we are alone or with other people. Shew lover sunning her boobs.

She says if men don't need a top neither do I !

[debildebil]

I am not sure how it is now, but 15 to 20 years ago, the most typical holiday destination for Czech people were the beaches of Croatia and basically all Czech women apparently considered this place as the location where going topless is absolutely necessary When I joined some family/friends vacation I could be sure that I am going to see boobs of all female participants

[familleplage]

Originally Posted by bushman1

Pretty much same here......
wife hates wearing a top, on the boat or at the beach she pretty much never wears a top whether we are alone or with other people. Shew lover sunning her boobs.

She says if men don't need a top neither do I !

same here !! same rights for men and women

[familleplage]

Originally Posted by debildebil

I am not sure how it is now, but 15 to 20 years ago, the most typical holiday destination for Czech people were the beaches of Croatia and basically all Czech women apparently considered this place as the location where going topless is absolutely necessary When I joined some family/friends vacation I could be sure that I am going to see boobs of all female participants

that's good to hear ! any souvenirs ? who have you seen ?

[love2wellness]

Me and my wife haven't been to a beach in the last 15 years, usually go into the mountains. So I no longer have any insight into how the relationships, topless or not, are nowadays.
My wife was already a lover of topless sunbathing before we started dating. I had been able to experience this myself a few times because we used to see each other regularly through common friends. This was usually on a waterfront where we went jet skiing. The girls then usually retreated to a quieter place to work on their tan, most of them topless. My girlfriend at the time dared to wear thong bottoms. Needless to say, the guys stopped by the girls once in a while.
After we started dating and had sex the first time I saw that she also had a thong tan-line , apparently she never dared to wear them there at the waterfront.
These days, she still takes every opportunity to sunbathe topless when we're at a hotel pool. Often her example is quickly followed by other guests. You can see that most women don't like to be the first and use some encouragement.

[debildebil]

Originally Posted by familleplage

that's good to hear ! any souvenirs ? who have you seen ?

As a teenager I took a tour bus with my family and saw a lot of topless female tour participants and of course a lot of other stranger women. That was my first such experience.

Then, as a twenty-something, I joined a tour that included a former high school classmate of mine who I had a bit of a crush on. She had a beautiful body, not exactly a model in the face - very nerdy - but I found her all the more interesting. The trip was organized by her best friend's family. Of the female participants, her friend, her (friends) sister, motherand aunt were there. And yes, I ended up seeing everyone's boobs

Unfortunately, I don't have any interesting pictures from that.

[Lucianado]

Originally Posted by Erii

I've just done an interesting (to me anyway) little exercise. I've gone through my wife's old photo albums and photos I have and searched for just standard beach shots from Spain, mainly ibiza. The photos had to be of a busy beach in the middle of the day (there really are s lot of photos of sinsets!) That search wasn't that productive so I they trawled flikr for people's holiday snaps from ibiza and whatever busy mainland resorts I could think to search for. All the photos however had to be taken between 1998 and 2003.

I then counted up how many women in the background there were, and how many if them were topless. Then I added up the numbers.

I made sure I didn't include any obviously staged topless shots of people's girlfriends or wives, and i tried to not include any obvious voyeur shots. Just what looked like genuine holiday snaps with women accidentally being snapped topless in the background.

Across all the photos I found that 46% of the women across all the beaches were topless. And that just included the ones topless at the moment the photo was taken. I also included women up walking around, or perhaps just arriving or leaving, of which many more were covered up. How many of these got their norks out when they lay down?.

I need a time machine to go back then! Most women 20 years ago were happy it seems to show off their tits on a Spanish beach. I'm just glad some of these moments have be preserved for posterity.

At one point I did a similar count from shots of crowded beaches, though date range more like early 90s. The figure I came out with was one third of women topless on average, up to a half on a really hot day, so that's consistent.

I think social media allowing thongs but not breasts has been a big factor. Young women see lots of images of their role models (celebrities and peers) in thongs but not topless. There might also be an element of buttocks being more related to strength and sport whereas breasts are more passive.

That said, I think there are probably still quite a few women who would and do get topless, but they do it in semi-private spaces like a secluded cove, or around a villa pool or on a hired boat, not right in the middle of a public beach.