[Request] MY WIFE SAYS MOST WOMEN DO NOT LIKE GIVING BLOWJOBS. IS THIS TRUE?

[captbobwi]

I'm sad to say I'm now a widower but my wife of 35 years loved sucking cock. She started when she was an enthusiastic teenager and we were dating then never stopped. Oral was a regular part of our sex lives and I don't remember ever having to ask for a blow job. She just did it. I do need to say she didn't like cum in her mouth. The taste bothered her. Once in a while she's take it in her mouth but that was more to please me than anything else. When I was getting close to cumming we'd usually switch to one of two things. Sometimes we'd switch to f_cking and I'd cum there. The other was cumming on her little a-cup tits. Then we'd have fun with the cum on her tits.

[Fox Mulder]

Originally Posted by naaktstel

well my wife is on the'don't like' side, which I don't like at all
When she tries, I only think of cumming ax quickly as possible to relieve her.
She is not good at it, doesn't like the taste and only swallowed twice almost vomiting after that
Now she spits it out and makes a disgusting sound.
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That's a sad story- but an honest one. I assume (and hope) that she does other things well and that your love goes beyond good head.

[Larry27]

We talked about it last weekend. She says she just does it because I like it, but she honestly doesn't care for it. She said she doesn't understand how I can stay down on her for so long. I, of course, told her how much I love tasting and feeling her pussy.

I think there is hope, though. About a year ago, she was adamant that she did not want to do anal. I started messing with her ass again a couple weeks ago like I have slowly been doing over time and then she suddenly just turned around and presented it to me. I fucked it with plenty of lube. She said it hurt when it was over, so I thought that was it - one and done. Last weekend, though, I used a new vibrator on her that has a small part that vibrates in her ass. I ended up with a vibrating dildo inside her pussy, a vibrator on her clit and my cock fucking her ass. It was wild. She was totally into it and I couldn't stop myself from cumming in her ass.

Maybe by this time next year she will be sucking my cock and enjoying it.

Thanks for everyone's input. I think it just comes down to likes and dislikes and everyone is different - but who knows why or when the likes and dislikes change? I think I will back off the blowjob like I did the ass and see what happens.

[Scrat01]

50,000 men were asked what they like about blow jobs ?

1% like the warmth

2% liked the intimacy

3% liked to watch it

and

94% said they just liked the peace and quiet!

lmao

Sorry couldnt resist.

[sooty]

Thanks for everyone's input. I think it just comes down to likes and dislikes and everyone is different - but who knows why or when the likes and dislikes change?

A couple of other points to bear in mind relate to taste. Firstly people have different tastes so what is sweet to one person can be rather bitter to another and also not all men tastes the same. Now I dont know what men do taste like but I know a person's state of health, any medications that they are on and even what they have been eating or drinking can affect the taste and smell of bodily fluids. You can notice this with their body odour and sometimes general appearance.

I am very lucky in that my partner is a fitness fanatic and also ultra careful with her diet and hardly ever eats any strong smelling food which means that she hardly ever has any body odour and also no hint of a fishy smell in the pubic region. This makes it a great pleasure to go down there and stay there and as she enjoys that wery much it is a win-win situation. Other women that I have been with were not as good and whilst I still did it with gusto it would have been nice to be able to breathe through my ears.

[Uncle_Bud]

Most women,"like her", narrows it down, but that's still a lot of women to know; nothwithstanding the topic of discussion.Methinks one has to be pretty well acquainted with a person before bringing up the blow job question..Methinks she either saw, heard read somebody else say this. Believing is someone else's beliefs is an American Phenomena..Bob

[jjanda_2000]

Originally Posted by Uncle_Bud

. . . Believing is someone else's beliefs is an American Phenomena..Bob

- Dang! Has anyone told the folks at The Vatican?

[Harrisean]

Another single guy's thoughts on the matter. This may be very strange but it's no less true. I am currently with the only girl that's ever been able to finish me with a blowjob. Prior to her I would always accept them. They felt good but beyond that I never saw the point much. So anyway, I can't really speak on if she likes giving them. She does give them though. What I can speak on are two things. 1. She swallows sometimes but not every time. I wish she swallowed every time but I am happy to receive them at all so I keep my mouth shut...so she keeps hers open 2. I like to put my hand on the back of her head and slightly push on it not to force my penis down her throat but to keep her in a rhythm where our mutual goal occurs. At first she wasn't sure she liked that. She enjoys a guy that takes charge in bed (I started doing it one time without asking or warning her) but she did originally think it was to force it down her throat. So I guess I agree with the person (or people) that said to do what it takes to make it feel as comfortable as possible to her and she should do the same for you.

[whtac1996]

It's varied on the girls i've been with i'd say its about 50/50 of those who will do and those who like to do it.

When I was single, I met a girl online and we swapped pics including nudes. We met up soon after. One of the first things she said was "I can't stop thinking about your dick". We hung out and talked etc. She had just gotten her nipples pierced so I asked to see them. She had big tits and kept pressing them together, and wanted me to put my hand between them to see how it would feel getting titty fucked. She soon asked if I wanted to titty fuck her, and I pulled down my pants with a raging boner.

Not to brag but I'm pretty decently endowed so I stand there with a big stiffie, waiting on her to say something. So she says "well I guess I need to wet it first". She then proceeded to give me the best toe curling porn star blowjob imaginable. After I felt what a first class blowjob felt like, I had no interest in titty fucking anymore. She was kneeling and I was standing, and she looked into my eyes the whole time. She went deeper than any other girl had, and sucked it hard and wet.

After 10 min or so her cell phone rang. When she went to answer it I was thinking oh great, why are you stopping now when I'm getting the best head of my life. So i sit down on the sofa while she is talking. I cant remember exactly who it was but it was either her brother or her father, pretty sure father. So i'm sitting there and she starts sucking my dick while talking on the phone. I couldnt believe it and it made me even hornier than I already was. It wasn't long after she hung up and I was cumming in her mouth. She pulled off and started jerking me saying "we just met I dont want you to fall in love" as I finished cumming on my stomach.

The best blowjob I've ever gotten and I don't think I'll ever get again.

[Way2hard]

my wife used to give me blow jobs at least once a week but now does so infrequently. However I have two friends one 20 years younger and the other 24 years younger that both enjoy giving me blow jobs. The one 20 years younger almost always starts sex with a blow job and likes to suck me to completion. She likes to swallow and also likes for me to come on her breast and face. If she takes me from her mouth to cum on her face or breast she always scoops up my cum and licks it off her fingers. My friend that is 24 years younger said she does not like to suck cock and says she rarely sucks her husband. She did not suck me the first few times we had sex but now sucks and licks me prior to sex most of the time. She does not like to swallow and does not she says she wants my cum inside her to carry home with her.