How many guys have boned your wife?

[RamsDixon]

Kenny you've asked lots of questions, hopefully I can answer most of them.

Met her when she was still a teenager and in school. I was 29. At the time I was her boss and we were no more than friends and co-workers. I had actually first met her five years earlier but she swears she doesn't remember, although I have been able to prove to her it happened. She was a member of a softball team a friend of mine coached and i followed him around when they played. I only remembered her because she was a really good player for her age.

When we worked together, she had a boyfriend, and older guy who was out of school. We started dating about 6 months after "meeting" the second time. Two weeks later was the first time we fucked.We married about 7 months later. Yes she was out of school by then.

At the time of our marriage my number was 3. My high school girlfriend, a girlfriend after college and my now wife. Her number was 6, she didn't expand much on it other than to say I was number six.

A few years later, after a particularly bad accident at her work, she was diagnosed with PTSD. During her therapy, she kept a journal or a dairy of her thoughts and memories. Part of the therapy later on was to share some of this journal with me. In this journal she talks about her first time. She didn't really say much about it in the journal but did feel she needed to share it with me. It's not something to be shared here due to forum rules and honestly doesn't matter to the story, other than to say I do know the guy and due to the circumstances I'm not happy with him or willing to speak to him ever.

Because of what happened to her then she thought that sex was how women kept men in their lives, so from then on she was very open in her sexual life. At this point she told me the number she had told years before was a lie. the actual number was 37. Considering her age when we married this number blew me away. Upset? yes but only because of why she did what she did. Over time she did admit that she did finally come to enjoy the act and wanted it.

Do I know of of those guys? I'm sure I probably do, but she's never been willing to talk about it since the time she finally told me the truth. Few details have come out over the years but never names. Yes there were more than one at a time, she admitted to three at once, but I feel it may have been even more from other things she's mentioned since.

For the first ten years of our marriage, I never had any reason to doubt her. Then one day someone knocked on our door. I opened the door to see her boss. The look on his face said a thousand words. She had been called back into work for the night shift that night and took my car because hers had our kids car seats. It was an emergency and she had to leave fast. He asked for her I told him where she was and what she was doing, he stammered a bit and said he was out riding his bike and was in the neighborhood and thought he'd stop by to say hi. Then said it was getting late he needed to go, turned and ran back to his bike. He was wearing wearing those biker shorts, he was showing his stuff and she was supposed to see it.

I didn't tell her when she came home but she did tell me he had called her and told her what had happened. I remained silent and she blew up, "You think I'm fucking him don't you?" she screamed. I have to admit I did think that but hoped I was wrong, her reaction to what happened told me the truth.

Yeah I know the guy, has been a thorn in my side even before my wife and I ever met. Wasn't a friend then obviously isn't one now. So add one. I've wondered how many there were and have been since, I'm sure there have been more. There are two that I do know about. The most recent was an old boyfriend she had chase her hundreds of miles just for a quick fuck. I caught her on that one because of text messages on an old phone. Technically I'm sure he was part of the original 37, but in my eyes he counts as number 38.

The other one i know for sure about was a friend of ours. He was at our house helping us set up our computers to this new Internet thing. He had just finished helping when he asked was there anything else we wanted? She replied a gang-bang. While nothing happened that night, a few night later he came over and it finally did happen. We did talk about it before it happened and we were both excited by the chance.

He and the two of us got together 6 times total. He moved away shortly after that and it hasn't happened since. So yeah I've seen another man bone my wife, I did enjoy it, tremendously. I wasn't a silent partner, more than once we took turns with her. Nothing got my juices flowing faster or harder than watching them fuck, even after I had already cum. He never used a condom, and came inside her each time. As did I.

Angry or jealous? Not really. When we did our threesomes we all agreed we wouldn't keep secrets, if they wanted to meet alone, I had to know about it. He told me of some of their other times but she denies them happening. He proved to me they were true and she stopped talking to him after that. It didn't bother me that they did it, it bothers me she denies it. So angry, yeah sort of but not because she fucked someone else.

Needless to say yeah I've talked to him about it, numerous times. He even sent me pictures and videos he had. (I no longer have them, sorry.) Yeah it get me hot and bothered, I'd love to do it again. The other guys? Not really I just wish she would tell the truth and tell her stories, I'd love to know about them.

So I guess what bothers me is I'm open to all of this, she isn't.

She has also admitted to sleeping with women. When she first mentioned it I didn't say anything. But when I did ask she did say it happened before she and I met but I could tell she wasn't telling the complete truth. Since then I found out there have been at least three women since we've been married. I've not questioned her on them though because of the one time she did admit to cheating with the old BF and we've more or less moved past it since. I have tried to explain to her how much I just want to know the truth and how it could and would only help our relationship, but so far nothing.

A couple of pictures we took for our threesome friend when we were inviting him over one night. (Yes he came, twice if I remember correctly.)

And some from an old video we made right after we were married. Sorry about the quality, this was long before HD, digital or decent video equipment was afffordable.

[oztn]

I am the husband of Shirl who posts on here from time to time.
She tells me that she fucked 4 different guys before we met, since we met when she was 18 and married when she was 20, I thought that would be about right.
Since marriage in would be around 100, I know about everyone of them, become excited as she related the experiences to me, watched many and join in from time to time. A couple of these guys are long term repeat fuck buddies, one is a very good friend of fine that lives in our street, next door but one. We have been married 25 years, so that works out at about 4 new men each year, not too promiscuous, but certainly enough to keep me and our sex life alive.
When I first met her she was wearing a tight button through t-shirt with no bra, hot pants and knee high socks. She had the hardest, most erect nipples that I had even seen, I got to fuck her on the third date and she was wild in bed, she loved blowing me and swallowed my cum, but most of all she adored being eaten. I will never forget the first time when I removed her knickers and was kissing her tummy, she pushed my head down, spread her legs as wide as possible and pulled my mouth hard onto her c*nt, she came and came and came, but could still cum yet again when I fucked her.
I loved showing her off to friends and strangers and many of the experiences that she has had have already been related in stories by me, or her, check out stories by Shirl, on this site.
I am a voyeur, she is an extrovert and an exhibitionist and it was not long after going out with her that she would happily go out wearing a see-thru blouse and no knickers, she loved the attention that she got, she confessed to me that she loved the thought of men going home wanking over what that had seen of her.
We often talked of her fucking another guy, I asked if there were any of my friends that she would like to fuck, she said Robert, the guy that lives a couple of houses away, really fancies me and I think that he would be good a fuck. I told that she could fuck him whenever she wanted but that she must tell in full detail everything about it.
She fucked Robert one New Years Eve when he was kissing her under the mistletoe, a remnant from Christmas, when he started to fondle her tits, she was not wearing a bra, and her dress was white, she told him that he could not do that and that he would have to go under her dress. He put his hand under her dress but did not get to her tits, she was no wearing knickers and that was as far as he got. She told me that she was very horny and very wet, he slid his fingers inside her and she quickly came, he took her to a cubby house in the back of his garden and laid her down on a kids bed that was in there, lifted her dress and started to eat her, she told me that she could not stand it she was so horny, there he was head between her legs, spreading her c*nt with his fingers and looking deep inside her, she pulled his head onto her and ground her clit against his mouth until she came again. He then kneeled between her legs and thrust his erect cock deep inside her, I asked if she came again, she said, No, I faked it, as I was exhausted, but if you agree I will fuck him again and let him come inside me. She fucked him again soon after, from then on they became regular fuck buddies. On one occasion when we were all at our pool I watched him fuck her and the fucked her myself as she blew and swallowed him.
There are many more stories, some of which have already been posted by one of us here, the driving instructor, getting ice, my three friends visiting from the UK, my airplane buddy, the photographic delivery, losing my phone, photos on display in our home, photos on my phone and laptop, fancy dress party, cocktail party, on display in a pub, fucking a guy she met in a supermarket, the plumber and his young mate, a special birthday surprise and many many more.
Below are photos showing how she became more adventurous after meeting me, we start off with the tight braless t-shirt and move on up through the ages to present time.
Will add some of the stories missing if you want me to.

[Shirl]

I am Shirl and I have just read my husband, oztn, estimate of how many different men I have fucked. It is true that it was 4 before I met him and also that it is somewhere over 100 since we first met.
As he says I have always been a bit of an extrovert and exhibitionist, this started when I was in my late teens and went out wearing a t-shirt with no bra for the first time. I am not a stunning beauty, just a bit above average although I always do my best to look my best and when I went out braless on that first time the amount of attention that I was getting from guys was incredible, and the more attention I got the more my nipples hardened, which led to even more attention and even harder nipples. I like this very much, I thought, so I dispensed with wearing a bra from that day on.
Then I met oztn , it was not long before he was encouraging me to wear a see-thru top with no bra and then to go out without any knickers on. The attention I got was amazing, and I also go the opportunity to flash that I was not wearing knickers to generate even more attention. Oztn loved it and encouraged me every step of the way, we both wanted more and more, so, as he said, we made it my goal to fuck a neighbour of ours, Robert, who lived just down the street - as my husband said I first fucked him one New Years Eve and we have fucked regularly since then.
And there have been many more after that, but I do not fuck others without my husbands permission, and I really do like to have him there watching so that we can talk as I am being filled with another cock, that is so erotic. If he is not there I tell him every detail when he gets home and it always results in us having the greatest sex with multiple orgasms.
He has mentioned some of the later experiences in his post and I can add a few more that he has missed - Postman's Knock, Blind Man's Muff, Melbourne Cup draw (this was exciting as there were 10 men involved), the tree lopper, masturbating on the beach, the car mechanic, smoke alarm inspector and windy day are some that I can recall. Let us know and we share some of these experiences.
We are so lucky to have ach other as partners and to explore our sexuality with such ease, understanding and enjoyment.
Here are some other photos of me through the ages as I became more daring and a few of me today, the last few are of me wearing the same outfit that I wore on the boys from UK experience. And a BJ collage to finish

[Gee_Star]

I'm not married but I've seriously dated a woman who admitted to 63 and another who admitted to 87.

I loved their stories, especially the group sex.

[newjerseydude]

My wife is from Tennessee and is one year younger than I am. We met when she was a junior in college and have been together ever since. We talked about how many times each of us had been with others after we started having sex after the third date. She told me had fucked two other guys, both of whom I knew. One was a frat brother of mine, the other was a basketball player at her college. What she doesnt know that I know is that she had fucked three other guys. I know because my frat brother gave me pics of her fucking not only him but three other guys at a frat party.

[GRITS]

We're from Alabama, now in Tennessee... She grew up in Alabama, but I grew up in the Pittsburg area, we met in Alabama where I stayed after college ( u of A ). We were both swingers, and met at a mutual friends swinger party.. so that should tell you something about the numbers?

I believe, she was with 140 guys before me , (she was 28 when we met), and since then being together as married swingers, I think its about 220 now? We are both around 40 yo now.

So far its been alot of fun w/ no complaints.

[jojo33bdx]

Originally Posted by GRITS

We're from Alabama, now in Tennessee... She grew up in Alabama, but I grew up in the Pittsburg area, we met in Alabama where I stayed after college ( u of A ). We were both swingers, and met at a mutual friends swinger party.. so that should tell you something about the numbers?

I believe, she was with 140 guys before me , (she was 28 when we met), and since then being together as married swingers, I think its about 220 now? We are both around 40 yo now.

So far its been alot of fun w/ no complaints.

I shall fuck willingly with you

[vyrstigor]

She is 31 and have fucked with two guys before me.

[hossie]

My wife lost her virginity to a guy named Doug when she was seventeen. She had two more boyfriends before she met me. We broke up and she found a new guy and he introduced her to a friend of his. She had sex with both of them for a few months (including several threesomes) before we got back together. After we first got married we were into the cocaine scene and Doug was our connection. I watched Doug fuck my wife many times during that period. Flash forward about 15 years of monogamous marriage when we went to the Rosarito Beach Hotel in Ensenada. Annie had just turned 40 and was a little down. A college student in his 20's we met at the beach came up to our room and fucked her. Then during a trip to Vegas, a guy was attracted to my wife and spent the afternoon in our suite making love to her (they still get together once or twice a year). She went to visit him once and he had a friend over. The three of them had sex. On our trip to Tahiti we had our first and only foursome with an Asian couple in the next hut.

[ishowwife]

not enough lol