Why Do We Show Our Wives Naked?

[dkdiablo]

Originally Posted by TomPeeping2019

3. Conversely, I get a vicarious thrill from knowing another man is making himself cum while fantasizing about my wife. Because I'm responsible for sharing her, and she is my wife after all, the other man's desire somehow transfers to me. I feel more powerful, attractive, and sexy when I can get another person off, even if what he's looking at isn't actually me.

4. Transgression is just really fucking sexy. By exposing my unsuspecting wife's naked body--her breasts, vagina, and asshole--I am violating the most fundamental rules of our relationship. I spend nearly every moment of my life trying to do the "right thing." Being evil is a very attractive release.

So, that's my story. I'd be happy to entertain any questions you all might have.

I can totally agree and relate to these 2 points. I get a total thrill from thinking that someone out there is cumming over her pics or vids. My wife is very prim and proper and never shows an inch of skin even in holiday so showing her off is pretty much like showing her off to like minded guy.

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by dkdiablo

I can totally agree and relate to these 2 points. I get a total thrill from thinking that someone out there is cumming over her pics or vids. My wife is very prim and proper and never shows an inch of skin even in holiday so showing her off is pretty much like showing her off to like minded guy.

I can totally relate. It is very exciting to think of guys cumming for her. My wife used to be very self conscious about her body, after having children. With no reason, to be sure. She’s more attractive now, as her tits got bigger but she didn’t really gain much weight. She wouldn’t believe me when I would tell her men find wives and moms sexy. So I showed her pics to some guys I’m close to, and they agreed with me. Even a few on skype chats on internet to prove to myself it wasn’t just my friends. I didn’t share that with her.

She finally believed me and got her to go nude on a beach at a resort in the Caribbean. The looks she got convinced her, and the sex at the hotel each night was incredible. She doesn’t know about some of my friends seeing her pictures, but she does notice their looks.

I don’t know, it just gets me off knowing guys are jacking off thinking about fucking her. I guess many of us feel the same way about our wives.

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by TomPeeping2019

I've read through this thread looking for someone who shares my perspective, but I didn't see anything comparable so I guess I'll throw in my two cents. Just as some background, my wife is in her mid-40s and has been very shy about her body since we started dating as teenagers. She has virtually no sex drive and generally considers any non-mainstream sexual acts/desires to be "undignified." Sex has become increasingly rare and mundane.

I began sharing her photos, all taken without her knowledge, about two years ago. It's been on and off since then, mostly on xhamster but also on Reddit and some other sites as well as one-to-one on kik. I typically post for a couple of months before becoming remorseful and deleting everything. Having thought a lot about my reasons, here's what I've come up with:

1. I'm punishing my wife for withholding her sexuality from me. By exposing her naked body to strangers, I'm making her the seductress she can't/won't bring herself to be. I love hearing my proper, dignified wife referred to in the most demeaning, humiliating terms.

2. I'm punishing myself. Even though I'm a reasonably attractive, fit, well-educated, affluent man, it's hard for me not to blame myself for her near-total lack of sexual interest. I've developed low self-esteem because of my inability to bring out her sexuality. I've sometimes invited other men to insult and demean me while telling me what they would do to my wife. I feel ashamed when I read what they have to say, but it's also cathartic to hear someone else affirm what I've been thinking about myself.

3a. Conversely, I get a vicarious thrill from knowing another man is making himself cum while fantasizing about my wife.
3b. Because I'm responsible for sharing her, and she is my wife after all, the other man's desire somehow transfers to me. I feel more powerful, attractive, and sexy when I can get another person off, even if what he's looking at isn't actually me.

4. Transgression is just really fucking sexy. By exposing my unsuspecting wife's naked body--her breasts, vagina, and asshole--I am violating the most fundamental rules of our relationship. I spend nearly every moment of my life trying to do the "right thing." Being evil is a very attractive release.

So, that's my story. I'd be happy to entertain any questions you all might have.

1. Yes. I agree that is what you are doing. Are you sharing her face? If so, then it's definitely not a wise thing to do. Yet, she is pushing you mentally and physically to this scenario as she doesn't seem to be making an effort in the relationship. It seems messy.

2. Are you happy? If not, seek help. See a sex therapist or a regular therapist as it sounds like you have developed some issues that are manifesting themselves in unhealthy habits that may then escalate into something dangerous. Just you at first. Not with the wife.

3a. Yes. Absolutely you will feel powerful because it shows that the woman you've chosen to partner with is desired by others. That's true for most men unless they are cucks.
3b. At their basest emotions, most women want to be taken. But only by men they respect in some way. I personally don't like to hear men talk about their wives or GFs in such possessive ways. I think that's up to the woman to decide if she is taken or not. Do you think your wife respects you in certain ways?

4. This seems like a way for you to get some power over her. You're also getting off on the forbidden.

We're all at different levels when it comes to what we would like our wives/GFs to do. My wife does plenty but if I compare to others on here she comes off as conservative! haha. But I think if we can somehow involve them in the process, it will make it more fun. Dunno. Just my feelings...

[addys]

im indian lol
you can see my wife in return?

Originally Posted by bobbyj712

Bottomline, it is just a real turn on. I love doing joinme sessions and have 5 or 6 guys looking at her at once.

I have been into Indian guys looking at her pics the past few monts..go figure..

[Larry27]

As of today 13,635 people have visited my home page. By my conservative estimate, this means somewhere around 20,000 people have seen my wife’s pussy.

She told me that a couple days ago she had to stand in line behind her OB//GYN for almost two hours while waiting to vote. She said it was weird at first but then he made her more comfortable by talking to her about family stuff while they spent the time together.

I said, “I can see why it was weird to be stuck with the only other person in the world who knows what you look like down there.” She said, “Well, my parents saw me naked as a baby...but I guess you’re right. He is the only one other than you. “

I didn’t tell her around 20,000 people have seen her pussy, or that 20,000 people have seen her completely naked body. I certainly didn’t tell that many complete strangers have traded nude spouse pics with me so several men have seen her completely nude, including her face, in many nude and sexual situations.

It is definitely a turn on. Visit my page. It is the equivalent of her standing completely nude in a small sports arena with a bag over her head!

[piecenick]

It turns both of us on, that's why. My wife feels she has become too old to be shown off, age and gravity takes it toll, but her naked body turns me on. If she wants to get a rise out of me, she tells me about time she flashed, or a guy 'accidentally' got a flash of her pussy or boobs. I can only think of a couple of occasions where she was seen and she didn't realize it, but it turned me on to know.

My cousin was in town and I talked him into spending the night instead of a hotel. The lamp next to the bed in the guest room was burned out, I asked Jay to just grab the one off a table in our bedroom. I knew my wife was taking a shower, but since the bedroom door was open I assumed she was in the bathroom with the door closed. Jay came back with the lamp and a funny look on his face, 'umm, your wife had the bathroom door open, I'll have to apologize to her in the morning".

I went in the bedroom, she had the bathroom door open, she was standing at the sink combing her hair, stark naked. I went back to Jay and I asked him not to mention it, she didn't notice him, it will just embarrass her.

I did tell her after he left, she was embarrassed for a second, but then she was turned on by the idea, so was I.

[SixPointFive]

Originally Posted by piecenick

It turns both of us on, that's why. My wife feels she has become too old to be shown off, age and gravity takes it toll, but her naked body turns me on. If she wants to get a rise out of me, she tells me about time she flashed, or a guy 'accidentally' got a flash of her pussy or boobs. I can only think of a couple of occasions where she was seen and she didn't realize it, but it turned me on to know.

My cousin was in town and I talked him into spending the night instead of a hotel. The lamp next to the bed in the guest room was burned out, I asked Jay to just grab the one off a table in our bedroom. I knew my wife was taking a shower, but since the bedroom door was open I assumed she was in the bathroom with the door closed. Jay came back with the lamp and a funny look on his face, 'umm, your wife had the bathroom door open, I'll have to apologize to her in the morning".

I went in the bedroom, she had the bathroom door open, she was standing at the sink combing her hair, stark naked. I went back to Jay and I asked him not to mention it, she didn't notice him, it will just embarrass her.

I did tell her after he left, she was embarrassed for a second, but then she was turned on by the idea, so was I.

It's funny, the older my wife gets the fewer inhibitions she has. When we first met, she was 21 and despite her large boobs would never even consider going topless on the beach and needed some encouragement from me to even be topless at home - she'd insist on covering up after a shower when drying her hair for example

Over the years (maybe I've worn her down) she's given the odd suggestion of loosening up. Last week she went out to hang some washing up in her PJs - a gust of wind blew her top up, exposing her bra-less tits. I didn't see it happen, but she told me about it whilst laughing and saying if anyone was looking our their window (our garden backs on to 4 other gardens) they would have got more than an eyeful. The other day she stood topless in the kitchen playing with my cock. Again, anyone looking in on the right angle would have seen her tits. She appeared not to care. Am enjoying this new, liberated version of her. Now if I can just get her to flash the neighbour or sunbathe topless in the garden....

[supersmoothy]

I think for me it's the feeling of knowing other guys like her. I think it's a sense of pride in having a wife that other men find hot and sexy. As I also wrote in the thread "How it all started" (https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...95#post2846495) it's a huge thrill for me to see the effect she has on other guys, and it makes me instantly hard to see someone staring between her legs as she give them a sitting upskirt view of her pussy, or enjoying the view of her goods as she gives them a show from a hotel window.

[Theirishv]

I've just spent the afternoon on a video call with a friend of mine. After all the normal chat talk came round to my wife and was she still as sexy as ever. I've shared photos with him in person which my wife knows about.

So i shared my desktop with him and went through every photo and video I have of her. The good ones as well as the blurry ones. The barely dressed ones as well as the videos of me cumming all over her breastst and face. Just about everything.

I was getting stiffer and stiffer all the time. Still am.

So he's calling to our house next week and it'll be such a thrill to have him sit in our kitchen making small talk with her after what he's seen.

[Helodesk]

I share my wifes nudes because i love hear other guys comments and guys jerking off to her. I post on another site and its great but i don't get a lot of hits and that kinda sucks.

The hard part also is she has no idea so i can only sneak in pics of her changing.