Anyone else have a nudist partner?

[stevezr1]

Originally Posted by Shihoin

My wife is the same way. Even though we go to the nudist resort yearly and she goes completely nude there - even shaves before going so she can feel even more naked - she refuses the label; even going as far as saying that: "you're the nudist but not me!" That's probably because she sees nudists as people who "always go naked even at home"; and since she is usually only partially nude at home, she doesn't "fit the label." ....... I beg to disagree. Hundreds or more people have seen her naked over the years. She's socialized naked with strangers without any shame or embarrassment. She's totally a nudist in my book.

Apparently women denying that they are nudists is a common phenomena.
..... My wife denies being a nudist, even though we've spent over a dozen weeks nude at various clothing optional resorts, and hundreds of days nude at local beaches. But even more adamantly than denying she is a nudist, I don't dare mention the possibility that she is an exhibitionist because it upsets her. But of course this is exactly what she is.
..... What really gets her excited is to be ogled while nude in a non-nude environment. The usual scenario is at a local remote or sparsely populated non-nude beach. Also, it took me a while to realize that when at clothing optional resorts, she seemed to especially enjoy being seen nude by the occasional clothed resort guest. She would do this by choosing a spot on the beach or putting herself in situations where this would likely happen.
.... But a nudist? No way. Why? Because we've never been to a nudist resort. Apparently being nude at clothing optional resorts doesn't count.
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[delt]

My wife would find the men at the nudist clubs that were not nudists. A Fed Ex delivery guy nearly ran into a tree staring at her full frontal 20 feet away. I asked if he was ok and he blushed. I offered to introduce him to her, not saying she was my wife. She would have loved it, but he said he had to go.

She helped welcome clothed men at a car show at a Florida nudist club near Tampa. She stayed fully nude in the parking area even when the nudists had put on shorts or cover-ups. She got a LOT of attention.

At a nudist club north of us, she and I walked down to where a new swimming pool was being built. She stood at the side of the pool while the construction guys, mostly young and black, were down in the unfinished pool looking up, directly into her partially spread legs. I thought she was coming because her knees got weak, but she squatted down which allowed her to spread her thighs even further. She pretended to look at the coping around the pool. A white guy walked up and asked me if I wasn't bothered with all these young men staring and I said no, I was enjoying it and would get some incredible sex afterwards. We did not get back to our room, we went into the woods not far from the pool and fucked doggy style. They probably heard us---I know they saw us come out of the bushes. The nudist club manager told us later we were not supposed to go around the taped off area. The pool guys could see everyone but from several hundred yards away, but they got to see my wife (and me) up close.

[delt]

My wife and I have four children, and one son was encouraged to leave public school and go to a "gifted" school, quite an honor. To be honest, we did not enjoy that snooty school as much as we did the regular school where we knew more kids, parents and teachers.

It was in the 1970's, when we went with friends who were teachers in the next state south of us to a nudist club they had enjoyed for years in the next state north. My wife was a bit nervous but she knew the friends would not lead us wrong and soon she was enjoying it. On this first visit, our friends (the teachers) had arranged to go with a bunch of their friends who were also teachers from the same college. Most of us were between 25 and 35 and many of the ladies were very attractive, so much so it was difficult to remember they were teachers. Our friends also took along their two daughters who were both pre-pubescent, maybe 7 and 10, and perfectly comfortable around all these adults and once at the nudist club, there were a lot of other children with their families. I was much more nervous being around these girls I knew fully naked than my wife was being around everyone, including young boys and teenage boys.

The next spring, our friends called. One of the teachers who was there (I didn't remember her) was an instructor at the gifted school and taught biology. She was hoping our lady friend would come to our town in a couple of weeks and help her teach her class. In the past, she had put on a wig and makeup or a mask and walked into the class of 5th and 6th graders fully nude, and use herself to teach anatomy while not speaking. This year she was very pregnant and could not hide that, so she was hoping our friend, who was about 40, would come to our town and play that role. She was calling to ask if my wife would do it and she put us in touch with the teacher. After making sure she would be disguised (our son would be in one of the classes) she agreed. I offered to go with her, but that would have given her away. That day she left home wearing a modest housedress with no underwear, that she could drop and pull up quickly, and some towels.

The pregnant teacher put a pumpkin mask on my wife and had her stand in a closet at the back of the classroom. Something they had not discussed was that this class had combined with another class, and only the boys could attend, along with the vice principal, a man we knew a bit, and another teacher, a man we did not know. The teacher gave a brief biology lesson and said "I wish we had a woman model to help explain everything" which was the cue to come out of the coat closet fully nude and barefoot. The kids were shocked and watched as my wife walked up and down each aisle letting every boy see her up close. She said standing in front of our son was a bit of a challenge although he had seen her naked before. After everyone saw her walking, she went to the teacher's desk at the front of the room and it had extra lights, so she knew what they would be studying. She guessed it was about 20 minutes of posing, both on her back with legs up and spread, and in a doggy style, and she was penetrated with a small dildo, something not expected. As it was inserted and pulled out a few times, she came, as quietly as she could. The pregnant teacher had been using a pointer to show the boys each of her parts, naming them and referring to a chart with women's parts labeled on it. The boys asked good questions----surprisingly knowledgeable----but what she had not expected was the two men who moved around to get a good view of everything. She thought they were just chaperones. Forty one males saw her in the first class, then she had a one class break, and then she did the same at another class with 28 males, including the basketball coach and another man she did not know.

Telling me that evening, she explained she came several times, trying not to make any noise or move too much. I told her I was shocked the school would do this but she said every boy had to have a permission slip signed by a parent. She had signed it. After school, when our son got home, he asked her if she had been at his school that day. He thought it was her, but she told him she was swimming and shopping. I don't know if he would have been upset that everyone he knew had seen his mother or not.

The next time I saw the teacher, soon after the baby was born, I asked if this type of exhibit was used in a lot of schools. She said they were common in gifted schools because the students were more mature, but not in public schools to her knowledge. Some would have the students go to an art class with a nude model instead of what my wife did. She also said that in Europe, some of the elite schools arrange to have women come in----usually the mothers or sisters of the students-----and have intercourse with the boys (not their own sons or sisters, obviously). She said she did that when she interned in France just after college. She said that she did not think that would work in the U.S.

[Skeezle]

Originally Posted by delt

My wife and I have four children, and one son was encouraged to leave public school and go to a "gifted" school, quite an honor. To be honest, we did not enjoy that snooty school as much as we did the regular school where we knew more kids, parents and teachers.

It was in the 1970's, when we went with friends who were teachers in the next state south of us to a nudist club they had enjoyed for years in the next state north. My wife was a bit nervous but she knew the friends would not lead us wrong and soon she was enjoying it. On this first visit, our friends (the teachers) had arranged to go with a bunch of their friends who were also teachers from the same college. Most of us were between 25 and 35 and many of the ladies were very attractive, so much so it was difficult to remember they were teachers. Our friends also took along their two daughters who were both pre-pubescent, maybe 7 and 10, and perfectly comfortable around all these adults and once at the nudist club, there were a lot of other children with their families. I was much more nervous being around these girls I knew fully naked than my wife was being around everyone, including young boys and teenage boys.

The next spring, our friends called. One of the teachers who was there (I didn't remember her) was an instructor at the gifted school and taught biology. She was hoping our lady friend would come to our town in a couple of weeks and help her teach her class. In the past, she had put on a wig and makeup or a mask and walked into the class of 5th and 6th graders fully nude, and use herself to teach anatomy while not speaking. This year she was very pregnant and could not hide that, so she was hoping our friend, who was about 40, would come to our town and play that role. She was calling to ask if my wife would do it and she put us in touch with the teacher. After making sure she would be disguised (our son would be in one of the classes) she agreed. I offered to go with her, but that would have given her away. That day she left home wearing a modest housedress with no underwear, that she could drop and pull up quickly, and some towels.

The pregnant teacher put a pumpkin mask on my wife and had her stand in a closet at the back of the classroom. Something they had not discussed was that this class had combined with another class, and only the boys could attend, along with the vice principal, a man we knew a bit, and another teacher, a man we did not know. The teacher gave a brief biology lesson and said "I wish we had a woman model to help explain everything" which was the cue to come out of the coat closet fully nude and barefoot. The kids were shocked and watched as my wife walked up and down each aisle letting every boy see her up close. She said standing in front of our son was a bit of a challenge although he had seen her naked before. After everyone saw her walking, she went to the teacher's desk at the front of the room and it had extra lights, so she knew what they would be studying. She guessed it was about 20 minutes of posing, both on her back with legs up and spread, and in a doggy style, and she was penetrated with a small dildo, something not expected. As it was inserted and pulled out a few times, she came, as quietly as she could. The pregnant teacher had been using a pointer to show the boys each of her parts, naming them and referring to a chart with women's parts labeled on it. The boys asked good questions----surprisingly knowledgeable----but what she had not expected was the two men who moved around to get a good view of everything. She thought they were just chaperones. Forty one males saw her in the first class, then she had a one class break, and then she did the same at another class with 28 males, including the basketball coach and another man she did not know.

Telling me that evening, she explained she came several times, trying not to make any noise or move too much. I told her I was shocked the school would do this but she said every boy had to have a permission slip signed by a parent. She had signed it. After school, when our son got home, he asked her if she had been at his school that day. He thought it was her, but she told him she was swimming and shopping. I don't know if he would have been upset that everyone he knew had seen his mother or not.

The next time I saw the teacher, soon after the baby was born, I asked if this type of exhibit was used in a lot of schools. She said they were common in gifted schools because the students were more mature, but not in public schools to her knowledge. Some would have the students go to an art class with a nude model instead of what my wife did. She also said that in Europe, some of the elite schools arrange to have women come in----usually the mothers or sisters of the students-----and have intercourse with the boys (not their own sons or sisters, obviously). She said she did that when she interned in France just after college. She said that she did not think that would work in the U.S.

Delt. Was it just two adult males in each class? Such a hot story!

[xxxxenophile]

Originally Posted by visa0061

My ex and I got into BEACH nudism together. Notice the emphasis on BEACH because that's the only place where we were nude in the company of others. She was obedient and submissive by nature so it was more a factor of me telling her to wear thongs, g-strings, or go completely nude. On that note, a woman can be a nudist (or exhibitionist) already or simply converted into one. She was the latter. After the first time at the nude beach she was hooked. She loved being nude and being seen nude. Within a short period of time she was allowing me to spread her legs for gawkers and bending over in front of them.

Is this the ex from the Barely Dressed thread? She had it going on! Good of you to support her interests in that way...

[raysallx]

Originally Posted by stevezr1

Apparently women denying that they are nudists is a common phenomena.
..... My wife denies being a nudist, even though we've spent over a dozen weeks nude at various clothing optional resorts, and hundreds of days nude at local beaches. But even more adamantly than denying she is a nudist, I don't dare mention the possibility that she is an exhibitionist because it upsets her. But of course this is exactly what she is.
..... What really gets her excited is to be ogled while nude in a non-nude environment. The usual scenario is at a local remote or sparsely populated non-nude beach. Also, it took me a while to realize that when at clothing optional resorts, she seemed to especially enjoy being seen nude by the occasional clothed resort guest. She would do this by choosing a spot on the beach or putting herself in situations where this would likely happen.
.... But a nudist? No way. Why? Because we've never been to a nudist resort. Apparently being nude at clothing optional resorts doesn't count.
.

My wife is the same way. She was going to nude beaches even before we met, but will never refer to herself as a nudist, although at nudist resorts she will talk to people like she's the most experienced nudist in the world. She used to be OK with the "naturist" label, but it seems even that is too much for her nowadays. Forget about exhibitionist. She too has been know to go off to the side of a textile beach and strip off. Another thing that surprises me is that she has no problem being the only naked woman at a nude beach. Her favorite spot to sit at the beach is near the entrance where most people entering (even the nudists) are still clothed. She also has no problem being at a mixed beach and sitting next to clothed people. The odd thing about her is that there has to be water around in order for her to be nude; she will not hang around nude indoors even at our house or the houses of our nudist friends...has to be near a pool, hot tub, river, lake or ocean.

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by visa0061

It's interesting because the line between exhibitionist and nudist is very fine and often blurred.
Pretty much every girl I've dated for at least an appreciable amount of time has explored exhibitionism and subsequently, nudism.

Sometimes it works the other way around.

My wife normally practices nudism "conservatively." But if she's had a few drinks, the "conservative" part goes right out the window; and she's suddenly hanging around other nudists with her legs open being "audacious."

Alcohol is of course an uninhibitor; and in her case it brings her "exhibitionist side" right out.

[kutmzm]

My wife and I have been nudists since 1992; we were hooked from the first time we went to a nudist resort. My wife is not at all shy, not even the first time. She has no problem with anyone seeing her naked. She's kept her pussy shaved since the late '80s. Although we're not naked all the time at home, we do sleep in the nude and it's no big deal to walk around the house with nothing on. Our kids have been raised in that environment all their lives so we're all comfortable being naked around one another.

[JonThink]

My wife loves to be nude at nude resorts. She has no problem visiting with nude people in their homes or on their decks or while they eat in a restaurant -- so long as it is at or in a nude resort. Once out of the resort, her demeanor changes. She doesn't like being totally nude in non-nudist resort venues. I will say that she has gotten a little more loose about nudity in non-nude environments as of late. When I asked her about her reluctance to be nude in non-nude resort environments, she said, "I think the guys will think they can fuck me just because I am nude. That did happen with one couple, but it has never happened in a nude resort. It does seem that nudist respect a person's nudity and will not take advantage of a person strictly because they are naked. Now, have we ever been in a situation in a nudist resort where fucking could or did occur? The answer is yes. If one is at a non-public place fucking can occur. So, if you go for drinks in a nudist home, you may be asked if you want to get involved, but we have never felt forced to do so anymore than if we had clothes on in a non-nude environment.

Therefore, I think my wife feels more comfortable being nude with people who practice nudism as a lifestyle, rather than people who just end up naked so they can fuck. She seems to shy away a little more frequently when people get group naked just to fuck someone else. That is not to say that she won't get naked in a non-nudist environment, but she seems to be more guarded. Of course, if she has had a sufficient quantity of Tequila the threads do frequently get shed. And it is anybody's guess where it may go from there.

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by JonThink

Therefore, I think my wife feels more comfortable being nude with people who practice nudism as a lifestyle, rather than people who just end up naked so they can fuck.

I think that describes the majority of nudist women. Unless they actually enjoy being sexualized; most AANR-style venues offer an environment where they know they can be naked without getting "pursued." And where other people are also naked and non-sexual, they find it easier to blend in.

My wife and I are "regulars" at a "nude-mandatory" resort. She spends the entire day naked and socializes with friends and acquaintances who are nude themselves. And she enjoys it. Some might figure her comfort being naked in front of other people would be a "gateway" to "other things"; but she draws a strong distinction between non-sexual and sexual nudity, and wouldn't be caught dead in the latter (unless it's just the two of us in private). For her it's strictly non-sexual nudity in a nudist setting.