Ever Been Embarrassed Coming Too Fast?

[ModelT-MsDollie]

Originally Posted by filbert1953

Ditto. My wife of nearly 40 years is Catholic, and we've had an active sex life all that time. On the other hand, my college girlfriend was a Protestant, but never went to church and never said no to anyone for sex.

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I'm pretty sure that some religeous people have sex.

[filbert1953]

I'm pretty sure that some religeous people have sex.

About the only sect I know that's completely died out was the Shakers, who believed in total abstinence....

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[romney02]

I started this thread, just thought I would give an up-date. After being embarrassed with Tina I was reluctant to risk another failure. I am pretty sure she told her friends at work so it was abit awkward for a while. For my job I travel a lot and frequently spend time in Singapore. One visit I was walking around Chinatown and saw a massage spa, it was in Mosque street and from the outside looked quite harmless. I went inside to ask for a massage.

Inside an older lady asked me if I wanted one hour, I thought that sounded good and she took me to a small room at the back. On the floor was a low bed with towels on it "undress, girl come soon" she said. As instructed I stripped down and lay on the bed face down with a towel across my backside. After a few minutes the door opened and I heard a voice "how you?". I replied I was fine and then the massage started. It was really good, the girl did my legs, right up under the towel but not touching my privates and then she did shoulders, back and arm. When she had finished there she folded the towel down and did my butt cheeks and right into the crack of my buttocks, just gently rubbing around my puckered anus. It was heaven and I could feel an erection stirring when she said "turn over now". As I turned over she held the towel over me and modestly looked away. Once I was on my back I saw her look down and smile at the bulge in the towel.

Once on my back the routine was the same, legs right up to my groin under the towel but not touching the penis and then my upper chest and top of the head. After that she came back to my waist and started slipping her fingers under the towel to the level of my pubic hair. Casually she reached down and just touched me through the the towel "massage here?" she said. I just nodded. Carefully she folded down the towel exposing my now half erect member, she smiled and said "nice cock" in a delightful Chinese accent. She put more oil on her hands and took hold of me, expertly rubbing and teasing me to fully erect, I was terrified I would orgasm too soon but she definitely knew what she was doing. She continued to gently caress my penis, at the same time massaging my testicles and gently around my anus. I was in heaven. Every time she sensed I was close she would change the motion until I subsided again. After a while she said "cock very strong" and indicating her breasts asked 'like to see?" Again I nodded and watched as she lifted her t-shirt and bra to reveal a lovely small pair of breasts with dark nipples. I lifted my arm and touched one nipple, pinching it gently between thumb and forefinger, she smiled and I let my hand roam across her upper body, cupping each beast alternately before letting my hand slide down to the front of her sweat pants. I slowly inserted a couple of fingers under the elastic but she shook her head "top only" she said. As I resumed fondling her small firm breasts she started to stroke me faster and harder, a big grin crossing her face. I knew there was no turning back and started lifting my hips as my orgasm built. She said "cum for me darling", again in that lovely accent, and almost on cue I shot several loads into the air and onto my stomach. She kept pumping me until there was no more and then in the most gentle way possible she cleaned me up and lightly kissed my forehead before telling me that I should come to see her more often.

She left the room while I dressed, returning with a cup of water. I gave her $150 tip and left very happy. My demons had been laid to rest. I had spent time with a beautiful young lady, we were very intimate and I did not finish prematurely. For sure I will visit her again and, more importantly,next time I am home I am going to see Tina and this time she will beg me to stop as I wear out her tired old pussy.

[likemslick]

Yep.

[Sparkinator]

When I was 18 I was very inexperienced though not a virgin. There was a girl, Kathi, whom I'd started seeing on a friendly basis, she was seriously cute, sexy as shit, and 24. On the night before my 19th birthday she took me to the beach where we sat on a blanket and drank a bottle of wine.

We started making out which had my head spinning and my other head hard. We went back to her apartment (I still lived at home) and went straight to her bedroom. We laid on the bed making out and awkwardly got our clothes off, her body was incredible, skin perfectly smooth, I suddenly got nervous because I knew I would cum really quick so I tried to do something about it.

I moved down and started licking her pussy, laying on my stomach and pressing down on my cock to try to stop the rush of blood. Her pussy was hairy but, like the rest of her, everything about it was perfect. Unfortunately after about a minute of going down on her (probably not doing a very good job) she says "just fuck me" and pulls me by my arm up toward her.

On top of her I grab my cock to press it between her lips and push it in. She was incredibly wet and I slipped in easily and began slowly pumping her. I was so close. I literally started thinking about baseball and Eleanor Roosevelt (LOL). With her legs she started pulling against my ass making me go faster and harder and after about five thrusts I explode inside her.

At that point I was fucking her hard and I just kept fucking her convinced she knew I'd cum. I thought if I just kept fucking her she'd maybe not be disappointed. So I kept fucking her at the same speed and intensity and I realized that my cock was still hard. I was so turned on and excited about her that I stayed hard so I just kept going.

Even though I was young and in great shape the intensity and speed she'd been pulling me in at was a bit strenuous to keep up and it was a workout. It wasn't easy but I was really worried about disappointing her, plus I still couldn't believe I was inside her.

Not sure how long after I came that I kept fucking her but at some point she says my name and asks "when are you going to cum?" Dumbass me I say, "I already did." She says, "no you didn't" and I roll off of her. We spent the next hour making out and talking and then I fucked her again but this time I came after about a full minute (LOL). This time she realized I came.

So, I was really embarassed the first time until I realized she either didn't want to embarrass me or just didn't know. I have to believe that after I pulled out the first time and she got up to piss she figured it out. I had to have filled her up.

[thefergieferg1]

Maybe not embarrassed at the time but I can think of a couple of occasions in my younger days when I probably could have hung on for longer and the girls were too polite to say anything.

I think it's probably a symptom of being young and not getting regular sex that makes it all too much at the time.
If only 'There's something about Mary' had been released many years ago, we'd all know to whack off earlier in the evening.

[ripstar1]

I went through a time period when I was rarely getting any pussy. This went on for about a year or more and my moving to new states a couple times probably contributed to it. I met this gal and we hit it off pretty good. The relationship moved slow but steady.

Finally after a fancy date one night we were making out quite intensely in my car. She stopped and said she thought it was time to move on to my place and move this relationship "to a higher level". She didn't have to say that twice and we were off to my place.

Once there the clothes started coming off fast. I kept thinking in the back of my mind that I had cum prematurely the last 3 - 4 times I'd been intimate and I did not want that to happen with her. We made it to the bed and had a long period of foreplay. When I finally penetrated her it was three thrusts and I came. Rather than keep thrusting I stopped and apologized.

She tried to console me, "Don't worry" sort of thing "we are are going to do it again and it will be better". We went back to foreplay including more oral each way. The next attempt ended up with me lasting the better part of a minute, not long enough as far as I was concerned. We fell off to sleep.

The next morning we awoke and began some touchy-feely. I told her I was disappointed in my performance, but this had been happening lately. I told her I thought it was because I had been going so long between getting any. I told her I had even tried masturbating before my previous dates. I hadn't the day before because I never thought I was going to score with her.

She looked in my eyes and said, "We are going to solve this problem together. I am going to fuck you as often and as many times that it takes until you are comfortable with your performance." And it came to pass that we fucked many times over the next couple of months and I got over cumming early. I mentioned that I did not know how it was going to work with another gal the first time as I had only been with her since this all started.

Not to worry she set me up with one of her girlfriends who had shown an interest in me. That encounter went just fine. My problem was solved by a very nice gal friend. I could have stayed and dated her steadily, but unfortunately she had to move away.

[InternetRoyalty]

I'm still a virgin and situations like the one described in the opening post is one of my greatest fear.

[shoeripoff6]

You have to start somewhere........dont put too much pressure on yourself as nothing is perfect first time

[InternetRoyalty]

Originally Posted by shoeripoff6

You have to start somewhere........dont put too much pressure on yourself as nothing is perfect first time

I'll amke sure to remember that when the time comes.