[Request] MY WIFE SAYS MOST WOMEN DO NOT LIKE GIVING BLOWJOBS. IS THIS TRUE?

[sonalsinghsl*t]

I enjoy giving very much, whether I am being used focefully, or if it is more gentle or intimate, or whether I am in full control. I always have. I was somewhat of an easy blowjob as a young woman as I was very late in losing virginity and wanted to please and be keeping boyfriends. I wrote my first posting on this topic. I am not having many or any woman friends that I speak of sex with now, but from my more youthful girl talk I am thinking 2 of 5 enjoy it, 2 of 5 tolerate and will go along with it and the final one will strongly dislike it. I have had men comment that they could be telling the difference. I have been as you say picked up or turned on by invitations for me to give blowjobs.

[topdogger]

Hi Folks,

In my experience I'd say the number of women who do actually enjoy giving head is well over half.

I'd go for around 70%. Maybe I've been lucky!

My lovely wife gets off on it massively. If I tell her how it makes me feel and how good she is at it (Very!!) then I can actually feel her shaking as she cums. Even talking about how much I want her to give me a blow job gets her soaking wet.

And yes....she swallows happily!! Even licks the cum of my cock after we've fucked.

As others have stated, she'd never really been much of a fan until she felt comfortable in a loving relationship. And now my BJ's are daily....

TD

[Crankdingo]

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

I have been as you say picked up or turned on by invitations for me to give blowjobs.

So how would that work exactly Soni? Dudes just whip out the big dicks and say "blow me" and you are putty in their hands? I have really enjoyed your stories and already relieved myself fantasizing about your post here and looking back at your photos of your mouth in your other posts.

[thefergieferg1]

Taking into account all the issues alreday mentioned I think a factor that is sometimes overlooked is physical attributes. Small mouth and big cock must create more discomfort and more reluctance. Also I think it depends on what a guy expects from a blowjob. Everyone knows how unpleasant it can be to have something at at the back of you throat and what the 'gag reflex' is like so it you're happy to have the top couple of inches sucked I think even the most reluctant woman would find that pleasurable. It's probably the fear of having that hand on the back of their head that puts a lot of women off.

[jack nyte]

Originally Posted by Larry27

I would like to know what the men and women on OCC have to say about this.

BACKGROUND AND CONTEXT:
I need your input.

...

For the men: What does your wife/girlfriend have to say about it? (IF you can get her to talk about it!)

For the married men: Has your wife changed her perspective now that you are married? If you can get it out of her, what do your wife's friends say?

Be honest. If you don't know, don't guess. Just because she ACTS like she likes it, that does not mean she really does. Even if we realize they are only doing it to please us, there is a whole new element of cool about that!

What say you?

My wife is a bit complicated. She enjoys appearing extremely conservative publicly, but is willing to be somewhat adventurous behind closed doors. Honestly, it took us 7-8 years together to come to an agreement on blowjobs I don't get bj's as regularly as I'd like, but just enough to keep me content, and they're very, very good. However, if I said she'd never have to do it again, she'd probably be fine with that.

The main thing is she doesn't like having control. Me laying back getting pleasure is fine with her, but being in control isn't in her comfort zone at all, though she'll do it. I've found making noise and moaning loud and various other things reassure her. However, there's different ways of going about it.... the other day she was laying down thinking she'd rub me out over her tits, when instead I grabbed her hair and fucked her mouth. She doesn't necessarily like that, but is definitely more okay with that type of oral sex and, in fact, orgasms quite wildly when I finish. Seriously, I use to stop when I'd hit her gag reflex and ask if she was okay, but she'd be more upset with the interruption than me forcibly shoving my member in her throat. 10 years in and I'm still learning how to work with a very sexually submissive wife who won't verbalize her desires.

As for past girls, 50/50. I'd say for every one that was on the "enjoyed it" team, there was one on the other side. One chick would do just about anything to keep me around, except swallow, never enjoying anything but knowing I'd stay for another day. My very last gf before I met my wife wasn't a virgin, but still very inexperienced. I hate to put it this way, but I taught that girl to love oral sex as much if not more than intercourse and she fucking loved it. Every guy she's done since me, owes me

[Barmixer]

Originally Posted by thefergieferg1

Everyone knows how unpleasant it can be to have something at at the back of you throat and what the 'gag reflex' is like

Early on my wife learned to control the gag reflex, and actually enjoys having my cock down her throat. She loves the hand on the back of the head as well. I guess I am fortunate in that way. BTW - I'm about 7", but not thick, so that may help as well.

[xXroninXx]

my wife and all my past girlfriends always sucked cock not all swallowed but most did also.

my wife loves it.. she makes a sport out of it..trying new things everytime, she loves me pulling here hair and pulling it up and down and calling here dirty names while blowing me

[kajuk]

Originally Posted by simontom

" 205 did it with reserve" Nice to see you are so accurate but surely a post coital cigarette would be more enjoyable for them than filling in a survey form!

it was meant to be 20% Look like I missed to shift key

[bewbluvr]

I dont have a lot of check marks on my bed post, but most would suck, of those, about half of them enjoy it, & those swallow, the others would spit, or pull it out just before I came. the ones that didn't suck were prudes, took hints as insults & were not very good in bed.

[Leviticus59]

I'll agree with the others~ in my experience the ratio is around 70/30.

My (second) wife hadn't given much head at all when I met her. I guess it was never something that appealed to her first husband. We eventually got that straightened out though. I had to do a lot of coaching and telling her what to do, but she eventually got pretty good at it, and now loves it. Every time we have sex I know for certain my cock will disappear into her mouth for a good long warm-up. When she's really horny she makes all sorts of hungry moaning and grunting noises while she's sucking it, and sometimes tries to rub her clit at the same time.

I knew a hotwife couple about ten years ago. I swear, I think that wife would have been perfectly happy to suck cock for an entire evening, bypassing the screwing all together. She'd never suck it steadily enough to make me cum~ she'd run her tongue around the head, jack the shaft off, suck it for a while, suck on my balls, etc, etc, etc. etc. Meanwhile, her husband and me would just be sitting there on the couch, shooting the breeze about the weather, or baseball, or whatever, while his wife was down below, endlessly worshiping the purple-headed monster. After I couldn't stand it any longer I'd finally pick her up, carry her back to a bedroom and pump her full. Next visit it'd be the very same thing all over again.

Had a girlfriend once who could cum simply by giving head. About the time she tasted me starting to squirt into her mouth her whole body would start convulsing in orgasmic waves. Now she was a fun girl.