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IDEAS FOR HIM

SEDUCTION STANCE: While she’s standing in front of a full-length mirror, stand behind your woman and slowly begin undressing her. When she is naked, gently caress her breasts making sure she can read the excitement and pleasure on your face. Slowly run your hands down her arms, waist, hips, buttocks, inner thighs and up to her vagina while kissing her neck and shoulders. Begin to explore and tease her vulva and clitoris. Let her know how amazing she looks, how beautiful she is. You can either bring her to climax now by inserting your fingers into her or have her panting and waiting for you. Remove your own clothing if you haven’t already.Gradually bend her over at her waist and ask her to place her hands against the mirror. While you both remain standing, penetrate her from behind while maintaining eye contact. Tell her you love watching the two of you together while thrusting in and out of her. Encourage her to watch. This is a very titillating scenario.
REAR ENTRY OPTION #1: One of the reasons the “doggy style” or rear entry sex position feels less than romantic is the lack of intimate eye contact so do this popular position with a mirror beside you. You and your partner can turn your heads catching each other’s eyes in the mirror and both of you will get a spectacular view of your thrusting action.
REAR ENTRY OPTION #2: Try the rear-entry position with a long, narrow mirror beneath the two of you for another tantalizing view.
MIRRORS ON THE CEILING: Mirrors on the ceiling provide excellent views and provide angles you wouldn’t see otherwise. Try various foreplay and sexual positions.The additional advantage of having sex below a ceiling mirror is that you can both lie together afterwards, admire each other’s sweat covered bodies and talk about how mind-blowing the sex was.

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IDEAS FOR HER

STRIP TEASE: Place a chair in front of a full-length mirror that is comfortable and easy enough for you to place your feet on either side. Put on some sexy music and ask your man to have a seat in the chair. Slowly and seductively begin removing your clothes while standing between him and the mirror. He will then be able to enjoy both the front and back view of his little private dance. Remove your partner’s clothing. When you are both naked, straddle him in the “Cowgirl” position and ride him while he watches the two of you in the mirror. If you wish to enjoy the performance too, simply sit in a reverse “Cowgirl” position.
ORAL SEX: Consider giving your partner oral sex while he is standing beside the mirror to give him (and you) an erotic, eye-popping view. A word of caution; do not become so preoccupied with performing perfectly that the act becomes mechanical and lacking in spontaneity.
A PERFECT HAND-JOB Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed facing a mirror. Straddle him from behind pressing your breasts into his back and your pubis into his behind. Slide your hands around to the front and grab hold of his penis. Imagine that you are the one with a huge erection as you tease and stroke it to orgasm. Trust me; your partner will forever remember seeing his strapping manhood operated from a completely different angle.

There is nothing more erotic than catching glimpses of you and your partner in the act of passionate lovemaking. Mirror sex is visually stimulating and a tremendous turn-on so consider having it regularly. Not only will it add that element of sexual excitement to your relationship, it will help with body confidence too! ♥

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With their creamy luster and smooth, soft texture – pearls are more than just accessories of exquisite taste; they are the perfect addition to an erotic sexcapade. As long as they are nicely round with no rough edges to scratch the skin; it makes no difference whether the pearls you use are natural, cultured, saltw*ter, freshwater or imitation. Some women, however, claim that real pearls produce a much more intense orgasm than artificial pearls – a creative ploy to obtain a strand of real pearls perhaps?

There is a certain sophistication associated with pearls so I suggest setting the seductive mood accordingly.

IF YOU ARE PLEASURING HER…

You will require at least two strands of pearls; one at least 30 inches long, lubricant*, a chair and some seductive music. Bring your wife into the room you have chosen for some sexual play. Tell her you want to pleasure her with pearls and ask her to remove her clothing while you play with a strand of pearls as you watch her. When she is undressed, walk behind her and trace the pearls around her neck, teasing her nipples, belly and hips while you kiss her neck and shoulders. Lightly spank her bottom with the pearls. Remove the long strand of pearls and wrap it around her wrist. Lead her to the chair. While still holding the pearls, place her into the chair. Place her hands either behind her back or in front of her and tie them together with the string of pearls whispering in her ear that she is now your sexual prisoner. Now you can…

Ask her to spread her legs to expose her honey pot. Caress her lower belly and thighs with the pearls in between kisses.
You can either place the lubricant directly on her clitoral region (the warming or tingling variety is especially nice) or you can place some in the palm of your hands and rub the strand of pearls between them to make them slippery and warm. If you are not using lubricant, place a few wet kisses and licks to moisten her love bud.
Kneel between your wife’s legs. Using a “thumbs up” gesture, loop one end of the strand of pearls around your thumb. Place your thumb at the bottom of her vaginal opening.
Loop the other end of the pearl necklace around your other hand and pull across her labia and clitoris towards her lower belly until taut.
Slowing begin a massage by pulling the strand around your thumb to stimulate her own little pink pearl. Allow the smooth surface of each pearl to caress her clitoris.
Continue to rotate the beads round and around your thumb; be sure to increase the speed of the rotation to match her arousal until she climaxes.

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OR YOU CAN…

Ask her to spread her legs to expose her honey pot.
Begin pleasuring her orally.
When her arousal is high, slowly insert the pearl necklace into her vagina, while holding firmly to one end.
Continue pleasuring her until she is close to climaxing and then pull out the necklace to put her right over the edge.

IF YOU ARE PLEASURING HIM…


You will require at least two strands of pearls; one at least 30 inches long, lubricant*, a chair and some seductive music. Put on some sexy lingerie, with pearls wrapped around your neck or wrist. Bring your husband into the room you have chosen for some sexual play. Tell him you want to wrap his manhood in pearls. Ask him to remove his clothing. Watch him as you seductively play with your pearls. When he is undressed, walk behind him and trace the pearls around his neck, teasing his nipples, while you kiss his neck, shoulders and upper back. Lightly spank his bottom with the pearls. Remove one strand and wrap it around his wrist. Lead him to the chair. While still holding the pearls, place him into the chair. Place his hands behind his back and tie them together with the string of pearls Place her hands either behind her back or in front of her and tie them together with the string of pearls whispering in his ear that he is now your sexual prisoner. Now you can…

Stroke his member until erect. Lightly lubricate your hands and rub a string of pearls between them. Because they retain body heat, the pearls will feel deliciously warm and shivery when you lower them over your husband’s belly, thighs and manhood.
Starting at the base wrap the strand of pearls around his shaft. Put his pearl-wrapped penis between your two hands and begin rubbing him like you were starting a fire.
Slowly begin to stroke up and down, keeping the pearls between your palm and his shaft. Alternate between short, slow strokes and long, slow strokes.
Pick up the pace until he is almost ready to climax, then slip off the pearls and slide yourself on his shaft in the Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl sex position to finish.

OR YOU CAN…

Begin pleasuring him orally by licking and sucking the head. Wrap your hand around his shaft and make gentle squeezing motions that simulate the contractions your vagina makes when you climax.
As you lick, kiss and suck down his shaft, follow your mouth with a string of pearls, be sure they stroke the sensitive corona and frenulum.
Return your mouth to the head of his penis. Wrap the string of pearls around his testicles and gently tug them downward.
Wrap some pearls around your hands and move them up and down while your mouth kisses and sucks. You can bring him to orgasm with your mouth and hands or you can finish him by straddling him in the Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl sex position.

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ONE FINAL OPTION FOR BOTH OF YOU…

If your wife enjoys lingerie and is open to daring and a bit of naughtiness, buy her a pair of “pearl thongs”. The single or double strings of pearls hang in a U-shape from a lacy waistband. They will hug her pelvis and stimulate important erogenous zones when she moves…a perfect item for foreplay!

They say that diamonds are a girl’s best friend but I think pearls are actually a better option. And I am sure after trying the above techniques, guys will want pearls to be their best friends too. ♥

A Few Reminders:

♥ If you are using natural, cultured, saltw*ter or freshwater pearls for sexual pleasure be sure to use a water-base lubricant to prevent damaging the pearls.

♥ Be sure to gently wash and dry the pearls after each use.

♥ Never use a pearl necklace for anal play.

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There is nothing more erotic than a well-placed love bite. Not only does it stimulate our most primal instincts, it can be a token of trust that binds two lovers more deeply than words. Sensual biting can be used to arouse or to demonstrate a deep ravenous need between partners.

When using sensual biting to arouse your partner during foreplay:

Begin by kissing and licking your partner’s skin; pay particular attention to the erogenous zones.
Allow your teeth to softly graze the skin as you are kissing.
Gently nip and nibble being careful not to pinch or break the skin.
Your aim is to find the delicate balance between kissing and biting. Love bites should never last more than a few seconds or occur too long in one area. You want your partner to experience sensuous shivers; not sharp pains. Pay attention to your partner’s reaction. Any form of withdrawal could indicate you are being too harsh.
Avoid ruining the sensual experience with heavy gnawing, childish remarks or loud slurping or smacking noises.

Not all body parts respond well to sensual biting so it is best to stick to erogenous zones.

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HER SWEET SPOTS:

Neck – nape, front and side
The small sensitive hollow below her hairline
Ear lobes
Chin and Jawline
Lips
Tongue
Shoulders
Breasts; especially the nipples and area just below the breasts
The soft flesh of the inner elbow
The inside of the wrist
Ribcage
Curve of her waist
Hip area down to the crease where hip and leg join
Area just above the pubic area
Inner thigh
The soft area behind the knee
Toes
Lower back
Buttocks
The labia (graze but never bite)
The clitoris (graze but never bite)

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HIS SWEET SPOTS:

Neck – nape, side and on either side of his windpipe
The small sensitive hollow below his hairline
Ear lobes
Lips
Tongue
Chin and Jawline
Shoulders
Chest (pectorals)
Nipples
Ribcage
Waist
Hip area down to the crease where hip and leg join
Area just above the pubic area
Inner thigh
Toes
Lower back
Buttocks
Penis shaft (graze but never bite)

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When we are in the throes of passion, our flesh yearns for more than a gentle nip or nibble. It craves the raw intensity that only a firm love bite can provide.

Men – in any rear entry sex position, ravish and claim your partner with a bite to the back of the neck. Very intimate and primal.
Women – as you peak with your orgasm, dig your teeth into your partner’s shoulder (don’t break the skin). Be sure to “bite” with your whole body, tensing and grasping with every muscle for it will intensify your contractions and let your partner know he has driven you over the edge.

Sensual biting is an erotic experience that many couples secretly hunger for. Sadly, most are hesitant to experiment with this pleasurable sexual technique for fear they be considered wild and uncivilized. Rest easy, erotic biting is a very natural instinct that adds the most delectable intensity to a relationship. Try these sensual biting tips the next time you and your partner are intimate and watch how quickly he or she melts in your mouth.

Bon Appetit!♥

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Here is an interesting article about how to make fruit roll ups for fun
Here’s a fun oral sex technique that will have both you and your husband enjoying a little fruit-flavoured pleasure.
Grab one fruit roll up in your favourite flavour or make your own adult version (see recipe below).
Remove his clothing. You can choose to have your husband remain standing or you can lay him on his back. Stimulate his manhood to erection by kissing, licking and stroking.
Firmly wrap the fruit roll up around his erect member. Wet the exposed edge with your tongue to help seal it to the wrapped section.
Take his fruit-wrapped joystick and alternate between lush kisses, nibbles and licks until the fruit roll up is fully dissolved and his manhood is once again revealed. Delicious! ♥

HOMEMADE ALCOHOL-INFUSED ADULT FRUIT ROLL UPS

Prep time: 15 Min
Cook time: 7 Hours
Total time: 7 Hours 15 Min
Yield: 10

INGREDIENTS:

2 pints of raspberries
3 Tablespoons Raspberry Liqueur, Kirsch, Grand Marnier or Cointreau. (For non-alcoholic roll-ups, substitute water or apple juice.)
¾ cup of honey