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Become multi-orgasmic. Unlike men, we do not have to wait to recover from one orgasm to enjoy another so once you have achieved an orgasm, try changing either the method or the location of stimulation to encourage another one right away. Sometimes, all we need to induce another climax is to change our position or alter the angle.
Learn to tell the difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Vaginal orgasms are quite a bit different from clitoral ones. The contractions of a vaginal orgasm are not the intense, muscular spasms of a clitoral climax but a deeper, more full-body sensation. Both are equally pleasurable and desirable.
What secret orgasmic tip, trick or technique could you add?

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Almost every sexually experienced woman has encountered at least one man who is adept at pleasuring the cleft between her thighs. These oral sex specialists are often perceived with a sense of wonderment and awe for their seemingly innate ability to bring a woman to her knees with a strategic flick of their tongue. Referring to these cunnilingus enthusiasts as “muff divers” or any other equally base term fails to adequately convey the finesse and awareness that they possess. We need to create a better term.

Admittedly, “muff divers” and other similar terms have undeniable punch, but they are really not descriptive. They may emphasize the activity but fall short in describing a unique kind of man. Today, when nearly all men engage in oral sex – either for pleasure or out of obligation – referring to one as a “muff diver” does nothing in telling us who he really is. It is also rather misleading and not a little unfair to blend the usual run-of-the-mill male “cunnilinguist” with that special class of man who derives absolute pleasure and delight when performing oral sex.

As I have said, we need to create a better term.

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If we are honest, the vagina has an almost magical influence over some very special men. They have a natural understanding and appreciation of the petal-soft folds of her womanhood that is lost on others of their gender. For them, the apex of a woman’s thighs is paradise and the enchantment only continues to grow with each encounter. Like art or music, one’s sensitivity to it is instinctive but the full enjoyment is only wholly realized through time and with practice. Many women can remember their astonishment when it first dawned on them that the man applying his mouth to her warm, dark haven was lapping, licking and sucking away in pure sexual ecstasy. In the same way, every cunnilingus aficionado recalls the first time he was completely lost to the various sensations of this most intimate of sex acts. And once he experiences that, he desires it again and again.

These cunnilingus connoisseurs have a unique talent and a special affinity with the female vagina. Men who do not have this connection cannot understand those who do and those who do have it assume it to be something that can be easily learned. But like any specialist, it is a unique aspect of that individual which cannot be transferred to another. A true connoisseur of cunnilingus when locked onto his lover’s pulsating core generates a strong erotic circuit. These luscious vaginal sensations then flow throughout his body until he feels what his partner feels. Neurologists tell us that the mouth consists of more nerve connections to the brain than any other part of the body. Many of us pay little attention to them but a cunnilingus connoisseur is aware of them all.

Cunnilingus aficionados have learned to let themselves go and be in the moment. They both crave and savour the smell, taste and texture of a woman’s passion-moistened depths. They may enjoy having their head caressed but not held for they prefer not to have their movements restrained. For most of them, the mutual pleasuring found in the 69 sex position is merely a distraction. These special men prefer to lose themselves in their work and are troubled by any interruption. Often the vaginal nectar that their talented mouth can coax from a woman is enough to arouse and excite them. Yes, these cunnilingus connoisseurs are indeed a unique breed, worthy of a moniker much more illustrious than “muff diver” or any other base term that they are currently saddled with.

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When it comes to sexual intercourse, many women would be delighted – in more ways than one – if their men viewed thrusting as something more than just a race to the finish line. Thrusting is a wonderful time for loving couples to touch, kiss and even dialogue – whether whispering sweet nothings or engaging in dirty talk. Thrusting can also encourage intimacy and a sense of connection. Couples who believe the sole reason for thrusting is to achieve orgasm often end up suffering from mechanical sex that is devoid of any emotional depth and lasting enjoyment.

Faster…harder…deeper…slower…the man who learns to vary his thrusting technique during penetrative sex will not only be able to last longer, he will be rewarded with greater arousal and delight for both himself and his partner.

That Memorable First Thrust


I am going to let you in on a little secret. Many women, once aroused, consider the very first penis thrust to be one of their most favourite parts of intercourse. Make it amazing and send her soaring by asking her exactly how she would like your first stroke. Is she in the mood to be teased with a few shallow thrusts, having you enter her only an inch or two? Would she prefer you enter her halfway while circling your hips? Or does she like one luscious thrust right to the hilt? Once she shares her preference with you, respond accordingly.

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The Shallow Thrust


A women’s vagina is really quite remarkable; it changes shape with each penis thrust during intercourse allowing every stroke to stimulate thousands of nerve endings and increase her sexual pleasure. For the majority of women, the most sensitive part of her honey pot is actually the opening and up to an inch or so deep. When a woman is aroused, this part of her vagina also becomes the tightest.

Shallow thrusting enables the tightest part of her vagina to wrap around the most sensitive part of your manhood; just below the head. So shallow thrusting allows the ridge around your penis to stimulate this tight, sensitive part of her fiery furnace; making shallow thrusting an extremely enjoyable experience for both of you.

For those men who have a penis with a compact head and is thicker around the middle of the shaft; try putting the thickest part at her vaginal opening for better stimulation.

The Deep Penetration Thrust


Unless your penis is really long or your woman’s vagina is really shallow, deep penetration can be quite heavenly for both of you. Deep thrusting is excellent for G-spot stimulation. It also allows you to position your pelvic bone directly onto her clitoral region permitting her to rub against it to help trigger a clitoral orgasm. Deep thrusting also enables your penis to tug on the inner lips (labia minora) of her vagina for a longer period of time which can also provide more stimulation to her clitoral region. Some women find deep thrusting to the back of their vagina highly pleasurable when approaching orgasm because that area is sensitive to stretching and pressure and the deep strokes will make sure your penis is there for her to contract around.

There may be times during deep penetration thrusting when your rigid shaft slams against your woman’s cervix causing her pain.Try waiting until she is highly aroused before deep thrusting because an aroused cervix actually rises up allowing it (hopefully) to get out of the way of your deep strokes.

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Combination Thrusting


Mixing up the thrusting between shallow and deep strokes is certainly something you and your partner will want to try. Some Tantric sex masters caution against continuous deep thrusting during penetrative sex.They believe that the vagina does best with a ratio of five to nine shallow thrusts to every deep thrust. Another thrusting technique involves starting with a ratio of seven shallow thrusts for every deep thrust and then counting down until the ratio is one shallow thrust to one deep thrust. Try different combinations to determine what works best.

What Kind of Thrusting Does She Want?


Contrary to what you may have seen in porn, not all women enjoy having their most secret place rammed deep and furious during intercourse. Some women prefer a slower more sensual thrusting rhythm. There are, of course, some women who prefer both; a slow start that ends with a hard finish. A great way to determine what strokes work best for your partner during intercourse is when she is in the woman-on-top or “cowgirl” position.This allows you to watch and feel how she moves up and down your erect shaft helping you discover which parts of her vagina she focuses the head on. Does she just ride the head of your penis or does she slam down repeatedly on your entire shaft for deeper penetration? Does she ride rhythmically up and down or does she keep your manhood deep inside her and rub her clitoris on your pubic bone? Does she lean forward or backward? Does she fondle her breasts or clitoris while your penis is inside her? How does she help with the speed and rhythm? Where does she look? Where does she touch you? Pay attention and you will soon discover what kind of thrusting gives her the most pleasure.

After experimenting with different modes of thrusting, you and your partner will no doubt end up with a variety of styles to choose from. Will it be hot and frantic, fun and playful, slow and gentle, passionate and intense or deep and sensuous? The choice is entirely up to you…

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Hello to all, let us continue our talk about the advise from a woman on how to be better in bed

In a world of instant gratification, “teasing” is an often overlooked and incredibly underrated sexual technique. Not only does it prolong orgasm in the man, it is very arousing for the woman and greatly increases her chances of reaching climax. Teasing builds anticipation, sexual excitement and intensity and is perfect when you are more interested in a sexual marathon than a sprint.Teasing is a sensual technique that occurs after foreplay but before full sex. Here are a few teasing suggestions for both him and her.

Spicy Tips for “Teasing” Her:

♥ A women’s clitoris is very sensitive and highly susceptible to touch but instead of using your fingers or tongue with this teasing technique, use the tip of your erect penis. Take hold of your shaft and simply rub it in slow, sensuous circles on both her clitoris and around the clitoral region. You can also rub the tip of your penis up and down her labia and then alternate between the two areas.This teasing technique can be done either in the shower or with any man-on-top position where the man is straddling the woman, kneeling between her legs or sitting astride her.
♥ You could then turn up the teasing by gently nudging the end of your penis inside her, giving a few shallow thrusts before withdrawing again.
♥ You should try different thrusting moves to stimulate both the her labia and vagina.
♥ To turn full thrusting into something more creative and teasing, try alternating your in and out movements with slow, gentle circular thrusting. Not only will it drive her wild, it will also stimulate her G-spot. This teasing technique takes a lot of self-control but the more experience you gain the easier it will be to control such sizzling movements.

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Spicy Tips for “Teasing “Him:

♥ Keep your panties on and simply pull them to one side and let him slip into you. This teasing technique often prevents full penetration which can be quite thrilling. (May not be as effective with thong-type panties.)
♥ After plenty of foreplay and when arousal is high, you can straddle him and rub your well-lubricated labia up and down the length of his erect shaft. You can tease him as long as you both can handle it and then go ahead with a woman-on-top position.
♥ In any man-on-top position, you can gently stop him after the first few thrusts of penetration and hold him just a few inches from your vagina; allow him to move closer and just touch the end of his penis to your labia before stopping him again. This teasing technique increases intensity and will leave you both panting for more.
♥ Another variation of the above technique has you holding the his hips and preventing him from thrusting any deeper than you want. When both of you can no longer take any more teasing, allow him to fully enter you.
♥ When engaged in the “doggy” style or other rear-entry position, you can gently take the shaft of the his penis in your hand and rub the tip of it up and down your labia and around your clitoral area. Of course you can do this teasing technique before penetration but it would be far more enticing if you occasionally interrupted thrusting to do it.

It may take a few attempts to get the teasing technique just right. You may find such an arousing and titillating experience hard to control at first but the satisfaction and pleasure that awaits both you and your partner is well worth

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Want to titillate your spouse? Tell – don’t ask – them to kiss you. Want to make it even more seductive? Say it in a foreign language. Will it sound more demanding in Russian or German? More provocative if spoken in Italian or French? More exotic in Hawaiian or Catalan? Discover for yourself by saying “kiss me” in the 36 different languages listed below. ♥

Arabic: If said to a male: Qabbelni or Boosni (slang) If said to a female: Qabbeleeni or Booseeni (slang)
Belarusian: Pacalunak mianie
Bulgarian: Tseluni me
Catalan: Bésame
Chinese: Wěn wǒ
Crotian: Poljubi me
Czech: Polib mě
Danish: Kysse mig
Dutch: Kus Me
Filiapino: Halik sa akin or Hagkan ako (Tagalog)
Finnish: Suutele minua
French: Embrassez-moi
German: Küss mich or Küssen Sie mich
Greek: Filí mou
Haitian – Creole: Bo m ‘ or Bo mwen
Hawaiian: Ho’ni
Hebrew: If said to a male: “Tenashek Oti” – If said to a female: “Tenashki Oti” or Tayn li neshika
Hindi: Mujhē cumbana
Hungarian: Csókolj meg
Indonesian: Menciumku
Italian: Baciami or Bacilo
Japanese: Watashi ni kisu suru or Watashi ni setsupun shinasai
Korean: Na hante kiseu
Latin: Basium mihi
Malay: Datang
Norwegian: Kysse meg
Polish: Pocałuj mnie or Calowac sic mi
Portequese: Beije-me
Romanian: Saruta-ma
Russian: Potseluy menya or Pacuenynte mehr
Serbian: Poljubac mene
Spanish: Bésame
Swedish: Kyss mig or Kyssa mig
Thai: cūb c̄hạn
Turkish: Öp beni or Opmek beni
Yiddish: Gib mir a kiss

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The erotic mind is a visually-oriented mind. It is part of the reason that pornography and sexy images are so popular and well, arousing. It is also the reason why a large, strategically placed mirror can certainly enhance your sexual play.

Having couple sex in front of a mirror not only enables us to explore our voyeuristic or exhibitionist curiosities in the privacy of our own home, it also allows us watch our sensual movements at angles that we would not be able to see otherwise.

If you are a woman and the idea of exposing yourself in the most intimate of acts leaves you shying away from mirror sex; relax. There are ways to enjoy this erotic experience without your self-confidence taking a hit.

Try engaging in a little solo sex in front of a mirror to help build confidence and appreciate your beautiful femaleness.
Mirrors only reflect 80 percent of incident light, so choose low lighting or candles to set the mood. Your body will be attractively displayed in a contrast of light and shadows.
If you are especially self-conscious about a particularly body part, wear some provocative lingerie to cover up your concern. It will only add to the titillation and give you an extra boost of confidence.
Understand that most men will not even notice your cellulite and jiggly bits and those that do actually find it rather sexy. Trust me; men are more concerned about pleasing you and not whether you have love handles or a little Buddha belly.
If you find that during mirror sex you become distracted by your less than perfect body parts then simply shift your gaze away from yourself to your partner only. Watch him in the mirror and see how much he is enjoying the experience. Look at his facial expressions as he becomes more and more aroused. After a few moments, focus on yourself again. The more you allow yourself to enjoy the view and the accompanying sensations, the more difficult it will be for your inner critic to ruin the experience.
A curved back will make you look ten pounds thinner so arch your back while in the women-on-top position.
Remember that the secret to great mirror sex is not to focus all of your attention on the mirror for the entire time but to sneak a peek now and then when you are feeling especially sensual and sexy.

Now that you are more comfortable in front of a mirror here are a few sexual ideas you can try.