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According to the Kama Sutra, a woman’s mouth perfectly mirrors her genitals: the lips like the labia, the Cupid’s bow like the clitoris and the hard palate just above the front teeth like the G-spot. For the man who recognizes the sensual connection between a woman’s delectable mouth and the warm, dark heaven between her thighs; a new erotic potential awaits. For when he takes his time to caress his lover’s mouth with deep, passionate kisses not only will he be awarded with increased arousal; he may actually awaken a full-blown orgasm for her.

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Tips and Techniques to Give Her a Mouth Orgasm

Kissing combines the three senses of taste, touch and smell with each being capable of eliciting strong, sexual responses from your partner. So make sure your teeth are brushed and flossed and your breath is minty fresh. Also consider using a sc****r to clean your tongue as well as an old tooth-brush to exfoliate your lips.This will make your mouth a supreme instrument for seductive kissing.

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Just as sufficient foreplay is needed to increase arousal and achieve orgasm during penetrative sex; the same rule also applies to a mouth orgasm. Rather than merely plunging your tongue into her mouth à la French kiss; build intensity and arousal by first softly licking and nipping around her mouth. Combine love-bites and licks over the Cupid’s bow, into the corners and just beneath her lower lip. Include the sucking of her top and bottom lips. Alternate this with a soft swishing of your lips back and forth against hers and then pulling back to flick your tongue against her mouth. These techniques will increase blood flow to her lips creating a wonderful tingling sensation.

When her lips are swollen and darker in colour, it indicates that she is more than ready for you to take the plunge; much like her labia. Begin teasing her by gently sliding your tongue back and forth and in and out of her mouth. Keep in mind that success with French kissing hinges on you relaxing your lips and opening your mouth only about halfway. If you notice an increase in your saliva (this occurs naturally as men become aroused) and wish to avoid slobbering, simply retract your tongue, kiss her lips with a closed mouth and take a moment to swallow the excess saliva before inserting your tongue again.

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When French kissing your lover, loosen your tongue and switch between flicking, lapping and poking. Include the occasional light sucking of her tongue. An especially seductive technique to try is the swirl and poke. With your mouth relaxed, you alternate a swirling action with your tongue with a poking action.

The roof of a women’s mouth is a highly sensitive but often neglected erogenous zone. It is also directly connected to her G-spot. Begin by French kissing and then simply stretch your tongue up to the roof (palate) of her mouth where you gently rub and flick it. This technique will certainly make her shudder since it is unexpected, ticklish and quite intense. Another titillating technique is to run your tongue along the inside of her upper lip. Women have claimed that this move have actually made their knees buckle!

The best chance of triggering her mouth orgasm is to create a sensual rhythm. With all your probing and retreating, pushing and pulling and soft and rough kissing; it will take no time for the pulsating tempo to move from her mouth to the apex of her thighs; causing her to throb and swell in lust.

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What to Do With Your Hands

As you make sweet passionate love to her mouth, where you place your hands and what you do with them can intensify her sexual response. Here are a few suggestions:

Hair: Playing with her hair can increase intimacy so consider running your fingers through her hair while kissing her. If she enjoys a little rough play, gently grab her hair near the scalp and pull.

Face: Place your hands on either side of her face and softly caress her cheeks with your thumbs.

Neck: Similar to the face, place your hands on either side of her neck and use your thumbs to stroke and tickle her jawline and hollow of her neck. You can also slide your hands smoothly down to her shoulders, massaging them before returning them to her neck.

Breasts: Gently knead and caress her breasts. Use your thumbs to tease her nipples with a gentle back and forth stroke. Rub her nipples with your palms. Give them a light tweak. Who knows; you may set off a breast orgasm. Consider alternating your breast and nipple play with long, leisurely caresses down her sides to her waist and hip

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Back and Bum: It can feel especially good when you rub your hands slowly up and down her back while you are kissing her. For added intensity draw her into you. The more excited your partner becomes, the more sensitive her derriere becomes because blood pools there during arousal, tenderizing the skin. And the nerve endings there use the same pathways to the brain as do the ones in her genitals, making it a hotbed of pleasure. Spend time lovingly fondling her sensitive bum. Pay particular attention to the thinner-skinned, lower inside corner of each cheek for that is one incredible hot spot.

Climaxing by mouth stimulation alone may not be as common to women as some of the other 14 magical orgasms but it is certainly possible. If nothing else, it is a fantastic form of foreplay. And for the man who is lucky enough to generate one for his lover? He may be rewarded further since his partner may then be able to achieve a mouth orgasm solely while performing oral sex on him.

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There are women who see the penis as nothing more than an ugly, protruding dumb stick that men love and obsess over; robbing them of their capacity for reason and often getting them into trouble. And then there are those women who see the penis in all its sensual glory; a love shaft of pure pleasure so hot that it can only be quenched by her mouth, vulva or back door. Which woman are you?

Do you look upon your man’s most prized possession as something to tolerate or even avoid or do you see his magnificent member as something that can fill you with desire and trigger your deepest hungers? Do you see his throbbing manhood as something that can penetrate you with sweet, unbearable pleasure until your toes curl and your body shudders? Can you learn to love his penis as much as he does?

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HOW TO WORSHIP YOUR MAN’S PENIS

At your next lovemaking session, slowly remove your partner’s clothes. When he is naked, show your admiration for his manhood by kissing it first; even before you kiss his mouth. Give it a quick lick before kissing and licking seductively to other parts of his body. This will gradually initiate your guy into full-body eroticism.
Anytime you perform a hand or blow job, do it with enthusiasm. Use words or sounds to indicate your enjoyment.
Consider sending your guy a sexy text complimenting his penis or you can text something like, “I can’t stop thinking about your penis. If you were here now I would…” It will definitely make his day!
Be generous with compliments when having sex but be honest and sincere.
If you are having trouble developing Penis Lust while performing oral sex, try receiving it with your mouth instead of giving oral sex. Focus on the sensations you feel without worrying about his. Let your tongue and inner lips feel the silkiness of your man’s shaft of love, its swollen ripeness and its heat. Make this as much of a sensual delight for you as it will be for him.

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A women who can shift her perspective to embrace penis worship and join her man’s admiration of his glorious manhood will soon discover just what a turn on it can be for both him AND her. So enjoy its power, virility, and potency. Let it intrigue you and astound you. Adore it, caress it, name it, adorn it and swoon over it. When you can see, smell and taste his penis as the love scepter that it is, it will enchant you both. Out of your penis worship and lust you will no doubt discover passionate new ways to pleasure both you and your man…and he will be helplessly smitten.

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13 Ways to Achieve Orgasmic Bliss

Indulge in self-pleasuring – often. We become better lovers when we spend adequate time becoming intimate with our own body. Solo sex enables us to discover our hot spots, desires and sexual preferences allowing us to share them with our partner. It enables us to embrace our innate sexuality and sensuality. It helps us to love and appreciate the beauty of our entire body, especially our genitals. Self-pleasuring also gives us greater sexual self-confidence.
Relax and let go. Climaxing has been described as “the ability to surrender to the flow of sexual energy without any inhibitions.” Yielding to our arousal is essential if we want to experience true sexual ecstasy with our partner. We need to abandon internal control and fear. We need to let go and lose ourselves in the moment and trust that our partners will do the same.
Focus. During sexual play, we must abandon the bonds of everyday life and instead focus on the altered reality of erotic sensation. This is not the time to think about your next dentist appointment or whether you need to pick up snacks for the kids. Only when we empty our minds and remain present on the sexual feelings flowing through us can orgasm be reached.
Pay attention to your breathing. We all seem to prefer a different way of breathing to enhance our orgasmic abilities which is why we need to discover what breathing pattern works best for us. Does breathing deep and slow send us over the edge? Or do we prefer to pant in shallow, rhythmic breaths to help us reach climax? Or does holding our breath do the trick? Could attempting another breathing method heighten our orgasms?
Indulge in sexual sounds. Because most of us experienced our first orgasms during masturbation, we learned to suppress any sexual sounds for fear that we would be heard and get caught. But withholding moans, groans, sighs and screams can actually stifle our orgasms while letting them out can intensify them. Making sounds during sexual play enhances our climax and lets our partner know just how satisfied we are – which always adds to their own satisfaction.

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Be sure to get plenty of clitoral stimulation. Whether we like our little love bud stimulated directly or indirectly, fast or slow, hard or easy, orally or manually (with our own hand or our partner’s) or using a vibrator, we need to find out what drives this little point of pleasure over the edge and do it often. Keep in mind that weekly hormonal changes alters both the quality and location of clitoral sensations so experiment with various techniques at different times of the month.
Seek out and stimulate your other hot spots. As women, we have the pleasure of having various “hot spots” available for stimulation. Besides the clitoris, we have the U-spot, A-spot and G-spot. The first two of these little areas of heightened erotic sensitivity are located outside the vagina, the second two inside it. Many women claim that if these four erotic areas are stimulated in rotation, one after the other, it is possible for a woman to become multi-orgasmic; enjoying many orgasms in a single session of sexual play. It will, however, take an extremely experienced lover versed in different sex techniques and positions to achieve this.
Use your PC muscles. Contracting and squeezing our PC (Pubococcygeus) muscles while be stimulated or during intercourse will greatly increase sensation and can add enough stimulation to trigger an orgasm. Try using your PC muscles to bear down or push out since those muscles are connected to the interior section of our clitoris. Using our PC muscles to push out massages the clitoris making it open and close up tight in alternating rhythms which can bring us to the brink of climax.
Try standing when receiving oral sex. It will allow more blood to flow to all areas of your vagina which greatly increases its sensitivity.Get your partner to knee before you and place his hands between your thighs, cradling your buttocks. Ask him to rock your pelvis forward, exposing you to even more mind-numbing pleasure.
Give your perineum a little love tug. While in the missionary or man-on-top sex position, reach down and pull on the skin between the vulva and anus. Since the perineum and clitoris are internally connected, this move retracts the clitoral hood and exposes more skin to our partner’s thrusts.