Women and men seeing things a bit differently

[Marquis De Shady]

Originally Posted by Openyoureyez89

Interesting thread and I’d love to see more stories where a woman does something arousing not realizing it is.

Sometimes nudist women, after some time practicing non-sexual social nudity, can become "desensitized" to what can still be perceived in a sexual manner by others.
One "striking" example of this with my wife, was the time a gush of wind blew off her stuff from the end table next to our lounge chairs while at the resort. She jumps up, and gets on all fours to retrieve them before they fall off the patio. She never even thought of the fact that she was basically in a "doggy-style" position, ass in the air and pussy fully exposed, in front of a "very attentive" male audience. And it wouldn't be the first or last time she'd bend over right in front of someone; and think nothing of it. While I'm seeing guys smile while looking at her lol!

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Marquis De Shady

Sometimes nudist women, after some time practicing non-sexual social nudity, can become "desensitized" to what can still be perceived in a sexual manner by others.
One "striking" example of this with my wife, was the time a gush of wind blew off her stuff from the end table next to our lounge chairs while at the resort. She jumps up, and gets on all fours to retrieve them before they fall off the patio. She never even thought of the fact that she was basically in a "doggy-style" position, ass in the air and pussy fully exposed, in front of a "very attentive" male audience. And it wouldn't be the first or last time she'd bend over right in front of someone; and think nothing of it. While I'm seeing guys smile while looking at her lol!

No matter how many women I’d have seen naked, I would be just as attentive as those other men. A woman on all fours is so raw and sexy. The day that becomes run of the mill for me, I’m in trouble. So glad women don’t get it.

[coupleak]

Wife thinks there is a huge difference in being smooth and trimmed very short. When going to the sauna, she's usually hesitant to go completely smooth cause she feels so exposed. Now if you look at the pics included, I can tell you there is little difference. When trimmed very short, she's pretty much as exposed as smooth.

Then we also sometimes have some sexual fantasies during our sexplay. Turns out she thinks sucking a guy ( even without swallowing) is much more intimate than a guy fucking her bareback and cumming inside her pussy. While as a guy, I always thought it to be the other way around.

[1michael]

Originally Posted by coupleak

Wife thinks there is a huge difference in being smooth and trimmed very short. When going to the sauna, she's usually hesitant to go completely smooth cause she feels so exposed. Now if you look at the pics included, I can tell you there is little difference. When trimmed very short, she's pretty much as exposed as smooth.

Then we also sometimes have some sexual fantasies during our sexplay. Turns out she thinks sucking a guy ( even without swallowing) is much more intimate than a guy fucking her bareback and cumming inside her pussy. While as a guy, I always thought it to be the other way around.

I have to say with her wonderful and SEXY body, either way of trimming or Smooth is perfect for viewing and enjoying! With all of the NUDE places both of you been and along with some friends and even family members its a wonder that you haven't went to extra distance and shared sexual moments with those others!
With her talking about sexual fantasies and thinking about sucking on another guys cock, it doesn't matter at first if its a stranger or a personal friend cause I'm sure both of you are going to enjoy doing it or watching!
Once that first step is doing, she can move on to having close friends after you tell those other what she has done and is willing to try out with Friends!
I'm still confused by you having the chance with her Sister and the BIL, not doing the same! You don't have to be totally nuts about her sister just to enjoy some sexual pleasures with her!
Just sounds like somebody is missing out on the thoughts or ideas that the other has been putting out almost bluntly!

[coupleak]

Originally Posted by 1michael

I'm still confused by you having the chance with her Sister and the BIL, not doing the same! You don't have to be totally nuts about her sister just to enjoy some sexual pleasures with her!

Besides the fact that I'm not physically attracted to her (at all) it would feel like messing around with my sister.

[Pearoak]

Originally Posted by coupleak

Wife thinks there is a huge difference in being smooth and trimmed very short. When going to the sauna, she's usually hesitant to go completely smooth cause she feels so exposed. Now if you look at the pics included, I can tell you there is little difference. When trimmed very short, she's pretty much as exposed as smooth.

Same here, before she agreed to go totally bald there was a period where she would go super trimmed. But the thing is, unless you had a proper look, you couldn't tell. It was kinda hot as she thought she was preserving some modesty but I knew everyone could see everything.

Originally Posted by coupleak

Then we also sometimes have some sexual fantasies during our sexplay. Turns out she thinks sucking a guy ( even without swallowing) is much more intimate than a guy fucking her bareback and cumming inside her pussy. While as a guy, I always thought it to be the other way around.

Don't think she would do either with another guy, but full sex is definitely more intimate for her, certainly I got a BJ first.

[rudolfm]

"Down there" is is dirty, but the mouth is clean. Putting dirty in dirty is less intimate.

[Marquis De Shady]

Originally Posted by Pearoak

Same here, before she agreed to go totally bald there was a period where she would go super trimmed. But the thing is, unless you had a proper look, you couldn't tell.

My wife also sported a close trim (much like Mrs. Coupleak) before eventually going completely bald.
That decision was primarily driven by the fact that 90% of the women at our resort and her friends are all bald. So in her mind, she was merely adopting the same "look" as everyone else; with no notable distinction.

And to some degree, she is correct. She actually kinda looked bald before being bald. But then she shared with me that "exposure" felt a "little different." It was psychological, of course, because her labia was already visible pre-shaving when "exposed."

In her case, she thought it would be "weird" if she went back to trimmed; so she chose to just remain bald in social nudist settings. And just learn to be comfortable with that feeling of being "more exposed" when her vulva is visible.

[Overthewall80]

Originally Posted by coupleak

Then we also sometimes have some sexual fantasies during our sexplay. Turns out she thinks sucking a guy ( even without swallowing) is much more intimate than a guy fucking her bareback and cumming inside her pussy. While as a guy, I always thought it to be the other way around.

That’s interesting. I had a girlfriend in my early 20s for a few months. One evening she was distressed and admitted to hooking up with her ex. I was gutted. As she apologized she added “but we didn’t kiss and I didn’t go down on him”. I guess she had the same mentality. I guess I get it but at the time I was thinking “his cock was inside you and you’re trying to make me feel better by saying you didn’t suck him off?”

[1michael]

Originally Posted by Overthewall80

That’s interesting. I had a girlfriend in my early 20s for a few months. One evening she was distressed and admitted to hooking up with her ex. I was gutted. As she apologized she added “but we didn’t kiss and I didn’t go down on him”. I guess she had the same mentality. I guess I get it but at the time I was thinking “his cock was inside you and you’re trying to make me feel better by saying you didn’t suck him off?”

In my single days I went by my girlfriends house and waited for awhile at night, cause I haven't heard from her in a few days! I guess it was my Lucky night cause I didn't have to wait a long time before she came home in her car.
We went inside her house and while talking at least I started to get playful with her, but was startled some when I noticed she didn't have her BRA on and with her Huge tits - she always wore a BRA!
When I asked about the BRA, she gave me a lame excuse telling me she was out with her girlfriends at a BAR and after awhile her tits were sore from being stuck in the BRA so long that she took it off and put it in her purse!
She had her purse nearby and pulled it out showing it to me!
I still continued on with my playful actions on her and noticed that her pussy and undies were extra wet with what appeared to be a CUM coating, so I asked her if her girlfriends got playful with her?
She finally broke down and told me that she met her old boyfriend in the BAR and they ended up going to a Motel, but it was nothing serous or to worry about! (?)
By then she was doing oral on my cock and I went inside her for Sloppy Seconds, but still enjoyed it!
When I went to leave, I told her that for lying to me it was our last time together and she can give her Old BF some Sloppy 3rd's from Me!
Just like You ( Overthewall80 ) were saying, it's suppose to make me feel Better?