Wearing cockring at a nudist place.

[anonjohn]

Originally Posted by bigfatpig

I frequent my local nudist club and it is without a doubt a highly sexualized environment. It just doesn't get openly addressed by some nudist since many of them are trying to push the whole nudity isn't sexual thing. I'm a very fit guy in my thirties and I have never been hit on or flirted with more then at nudist resorts.

The International Naturist Federation, British Naturism and almost every naturist organization would disagree with you. The proof that there is no unofficial wink to sexualization is that families (with children) are encouraged at genuine naturist/nudist places. Swinging environments do not allow children.

Does your local nudist club allow/encourage families with children? - If yes then it is unlikely there is an official "not-sexualized" policy and an unofficial acceptance of "simmering sexuality".

Are you hit on more in nudist resorts because it is sexualized? or because you seem more attractive?
If it is sexualized then everyone would be hitting on each other like at a singles bar or swingers club. Maybe you are more attractive naked because your whole beautiful body (not only your massive dick) is on display (cf the premise of the TV show "Naked Attraction"). Maybe you are more attractive because your personality is on better display because you are more relaxed and already have something in common - naturism. Naturist clubs, like churches, tend to be friendly open places.

Every naturist club I have knowledge of, will tell you that they get a number of prospective male members who only visit once. These men were hoping for an erotic thrill in seeing naked women or to hit on a woman ("they are naked so 'obviously' up for it"). These men never returned - they were disappointed because the nudity was not sexual and the women were not up for it just because they were naked. Difficult to believe until you have experienced it.

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by anonjohn

The International Naturist Federation, British Naturism and almost every naturist organization would disagree with you. The proof that there is no unofficial wink to sexualization is that families (with children) are encouraged at genuine naturist/nudist places. Swinging environments do not allow children.

And you are absolutely correct.

Whenever I read a post - here and elsewhere - where someone says that nudist resorts are "rife" with sexual overtness, I give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they've only been to places like Caliente, Paradise Valley, Sunny Rest or something similar. Because family-oriented resorts are utterly devoid of sexual overtness. Their posts, though, may lead some people to believe otherwise.

My wife and I go to 2 different venues. One is an AANR-affiliated family-oriented club; the other is a couples-only, non-AANR affiliated, non-swinging venue. They are very different. My wife likes the couples-only place a little more because there are few rules beyond unsolicited advances; so she feels a little more "freer" there to sunbathe "open-legged", do naked photoshoots, or get "tipsy and frivolous."
None of this would be acceptable at our "regular" nudist resort.

[driftwood3791]

This is all rather new to me. Are there nudist places (cock-rings and other devices permitted) where a sexually-charged environment is not taboo, yet have a no-touch policy? A club where erections are understood to be a natural reaction instead of forbidden, where masturbation might be acceptable during certain times, but absolutely no touching- ever. Someplace which would fall in between the AANR "family-oriented"-type places and the libertine sex-drugs-rock n' roll swinging clubs. I'm curious.

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by driftwood3791

I'm curious.

Sort of. These are typically the "adults/couples only" venues. They are less common than the "family-oriented" clubs or "swingers clubs"; but the venue I described kinda fits that "in-between" category.

While we were there one guy hung out with us - with a full erection. No one really batted an eye; and we even invited him and his GF to play pool with us. Like I said in a previous post: my wife is not ok with actual sex in front of her or being propositioned; but she is fairly open-minded about letting it all "hang out." She had no issues with the guy or his hard cock - or being naked in front of him, as he was actually a cool guy; and we had a fun time socializing.
My wife also likes that "nudist etiquette" is a lot more lax there; so she can freely sit/lay around "open-legged" without being concerned about "shocking" anyone. At a "regular" resort it would be considered rude to sit open-legged on the ledge of the hot-tub, with other people being able to see directly into you vag. It's totally ok there; and my wife embraces it. As a matter of fact we're going back soon.

We didn't see anyone having sex; but then again we weren't in the hot-tub "after hours so it's quite possible some of the other guests did. As a matter of fact it was very likely.

But; before going to a "couples/adult" place and "cutting loose", I recommend getting a feel for the vibe there, as they are all a bit different. You don't want to end up embarrassing yourself.

[lkn4maturemale]

We have visited most all the nudist resorts in SC,NC Ga and Fla and have never seen a gentleman wearing a cock ring. I have seen a few Price Alberts but thats about it. In a AANR resort even a semi erection is frowned on if not covered you will be asked to leave the area until you do. We do not visit AANR resorts that allow kids and most of them do. We stick with adults only clothing option places that tend to be more laid back but still see very little if any play in the public common areas. Most all play is done at the after parties away from the common areas.

Of course this is not cast in stone so you could possibly see a boner however I think you would feel out of place.

[ENF Hero]

It depends on place to place one beach I frequent, I wouldn’t bat an eye if I saw one. However in most saunas and social nudity settings not only would wearing a cock ring be stupid but also extremely selfish and disrespectful.

Even if there is “simmering sexuality” in these places (I’d say it’s no less simmering than any other bar or social gathering) by putting your parts on display with a ring you are making things very overt. We all love to fantasize about women staring at our cocks and all that but in reality 85% of women in these spaces don’t want to be bothered. If you wear a cock ring in a space like that all you do is make women uncomfortable and less likely to come back.

Women in the nudist community gossip often and if a place gets a reputation as one where creeps go to show off (even tho let’s be honest isn’t that why we are all in these places ) the reputation sticks and it can take a while for women to get comfortable going back. So for the sake of all of us pervs having a chance to enjoy some wonderful ladies bodies leave the ring at home unless it’s an explicitly sexual nude space!

[postnit4u]

Nudism can be a family activity.

Swinging definitely is not.


There's definitely a different vibe when you're packing to take the kids to the beach compared to the one you get as a couple dressing to hit a swingers club.

PS When the Beach we were going to got too sexual we left the kids home and then finally stopped going there altogether.

The truth is Swinging is hard work, Nudism is relaxing.

[driftwood3791]

I have a lot to learn here! It never occurred to me that some nudist places could be so Puritanical. But then that would be consistent with a 'nudism isn't sexual' code of conduct.

I wonder if there are any websites which summarise the "do's & dont's" of nudist places.

[driftwood3791]

It's been several decades since I last read up on nudism (pre-internet), checking out books from libraries and ordering brochures from several resorts. So I can only assume the definitions have changed over the years. We used to refer to nudist places in these terms:

Naturist Resorts: Where sexuality (erections, masturbation, sex) was taboo and children were permitted. Definitely wholesome, back to Mother-Nature family-type places.

Nudist Resorts: Where sexuality (erections, masturbation, sometimes consensual sex) were permitted. Absolutely no children or teenagers permitted. One I actually visited off-hours (clothed) had an age limit of 25.

It seems semantics have changed and that Naturism now includes social movements and ideologies not previously embraced. And Nudism these days seems to align more closely with what we used to think of as naturism. Fascinating!

[Goodfella87]

Yeah right nudist resort and nude beaches are not sexual. Until An attractive young woman shows up. Watch every guy stare and drool.

The places that say that nudism is not sexual are right, nobody that goes is attractive.