A Questionaire for the Ladies of the Board

[madahab]

I also love hearing these kinds of info from the women. Roxanne had a great story about losing everything while water-skiing and having to endure a long nude boat ride back to camp.

Along those lines I loved SukiNippz story about finding pics of her on voyeurweb. Guessing you're a Brit from your language (costume, holiday). Any chance of us seeing those

I also wonder: since you're not terribly easy to embarrass, what's your most embarrassing exposure (even if its just a BF catching you rubbing one off)? And what would you consider a more embarrassing picture of you to be left up on the computer when a mixed-sex group of friends were around? You spreading it wide, or you clothed but pleasuring your man by hand or mouth?

And your point about compliments is well taken. I always make an effort to compliment original contributions for that reason.

[SukiNippz]

Originally Posted by madahab

I also love hearing these kinds of info from the women. Roxanne had a great story about losing everything while water-skiing and having to endure a long nude boat ride back to camp.

Along those lines I loved SukiNippz story about finding pics of her on voyeurweb. Guessing you're a Brit from your language (costume, holiday). Any chance of us seeing those

I also wonder: since you're not terribly easy to embarrass, what's your most embarrassing exposure (even if its just a BF catching you rubbing one off)? And what would you consider a more embarrassing picture of you to be left up on the computer when a mixed-sex group of friends were around? You spreading it wide, or you clothed but pleasuring your man by hand or mouth?

And your point about compliments is well taken. I always make an effort to compliment original contributions for that reason.

Hi madahab

Yes, I have noticed that you leave comments.

And yes, I am British. The voyeurweb stuff is long gone - hell that was 9 years ago! if someone still has them I wouldn't admit to them being me, as they showed my face (see answers to Fango's questions above).

And your last question I have some trouble giving an answer, really. The one scenario (a leg spread) is (to my mind) just nudity; whilst the other is a form of porn and assumes that my face is visible. The first scenario could happen, whilst the second one wouldn't, as I try very hard to be in total control of the cropping of my pics so there can be no accidental ones around showing my face.

Suki

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It's been over a year. Anyone new want to take this?

[darkwarriorkane]

Fango I put your question up on another forum and thought you might get a kick out of the answers. I may have added one as well.

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? Yes, Very. Naked= scary for me

2. For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? I am embarrassed where my body ended up at. I am not happy with myself as I am, and I am not one of those "happy being chubby" people. sex= lights off, in bed or in shower. I wear at least a tshirt or something to cover me a little, showers with lights off.... and I wont change in front of anyone.

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? Hopefully someone has a (big)jacket near by.... I duck and hide behind anything I can. (jeebus christy I am going to have nightmares now, aren't I?)

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? body double. no questions asked. (sharpei doubles should be cheap )

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I'd go if *I* didnt hafta be nekkid. Again, my own demons and insecurities. I envy people that are ok with who they are

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? If I was comfortable enough in myself to be naked, I dont think I'd give a crap if people were taking pics. Either a) someone thinks I am hot or b) I am apparently a side show and my pics will be all over the net the next day.

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? I'd ask whoever posted it if he's single

8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? both make me puke in my mouth a lil. probably people I know. I'd never be able to look them in the face again

9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) jeebus any of the situations you have listed above would have me in counseling for a LONG LONG time.

10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later. I'd take their suit too... and I'd be pissed. UGH. STOP THE MADNESS! lol

11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover? one arm across boobs, one covering the kitty. In a fitting room, being naughty. LOL I wasnt as chubby then though


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[darkwarriorkane]

1. I am not easily embarrassed. Being naked in front of strangers would be embracing being naked in front of friends not at all.

2.I am somewhere in the middle I guess. I dont find showing all of my goods to strangers fun for me. Just how I was raised I guess. I would much rather have my hubby see me.

3. i borrow a coat until I can buy new clothing.. In a public place children are around.. there needs to be decency.

4. I would do it myself depending on the situation of the play or movie. Also how much would be shown.

5. Sure nude beaches would be fun

6. Humm I would be pissed because I dont know what they are doing with them not out of embarrassment.

7. Same.. without my consent my image shouldnt be plastered about.

8. Large group I guess

9. uhhh I guess being naked in front of my family wouldnt be so great..

10. Again it depends if it was at night and I had other clothes around it would be funny. If I was in daylight and there was a 5 mile walk involved I wouldnt call them my friend anymore..

11. I havent no..


1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? not really.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
I get sexually excited. I like for my partner to fin the pictures and be thinking about them when he sees me. Also I want other people to feel like it is ok

3. What do you do? wave

4. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? do it myself

5. why not? I would go, but have not been. I still have some things on my list to do before I die

6. How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? It would not bother me really

7. Now, how would you react? I think it would be a violation to post it. I would talk to the person who posted it. But in general it is more of a priciple I would be enforcing

8. Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Really just walking down a street.


10. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later. I have dipped in the pool without a suit. People in general do think it is funny. But it would not bother me. Well it would not paralyze me from action.Revenge is a dish best served cold

11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover? I actually cover my nipples.

[darkwarriorkane]

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?haha no i'm not very embarrassed in general unless it's something to do with my mom...mmm depends on who was seeing me naked, one of my coworkers walked in me while i was changing pants i was mortified

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?
For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?i show it off, low cut shirts...shorter, body hugging dresses...tight pants...why? because it makes me feel sexy and more attractive...plus you do catch more flies with honey

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?my face would probably be 10 shades of red but i'd pretend i didn't notice a thing & pray that i had waxed my vag recently

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?do it myself, why get a double...that would be admitting i was insecure about my body, while there are things i wish might be a little firmer or smaller, it's my body and i love it...took me a long time to get to where i could say it

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?oh i'd love it, i walk around nude in my house 85% of the time if i have clothes on it's usually because i'm coming home or going to work or i have company that being nude is not really an option

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?i wouldn't want someone taking pictures of me, i don't do free porn...the point of a nudist beach is where you can be in comfortable surroundings with like minded people, not pervs who are going to take advantage of the situation or even worse people who want to take snap shots which they can later ridicule on photobucket

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?seriously pissed & then i'm callin my momma....then heaven help ya cause my momma is a scary broad

8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?it would be more embarrassing to be naked in front of friends and coworkers...i would

9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)mmm... i think the most embarrassing thing would be having my stepdaddy or my cousin Matt (who's like a brother) walk in on me while nude...bleh i think i would cry and vomit from humiliation

10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them thinks it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later.haha i've actually done it to my best friends...we laugh about it but if they did the same thing to me i think it would be something to laugh at because we've been swimming topless numerous times, which i was the only chick but oh well

11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover?i got caught without pants luckily i had on a long sweater....i didn't cover up i shrieked then explained i was changing pants he didn't see much and he turned his head..

[darkwarriorkane]

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? Hm, yeah i would say so. I blush easily. If i was in a situation where i was naked it would be very very embarrassing.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?
For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?
I only like showing it on the internet because i can decide what get shown, so it's "good" pics. I show it because I like reassurance and it makes me feel better about myself....unless people are saying negative things. :X

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?
I'd be extremly embarrassed and hide behind something and beg for someone to throw me something to wear. LOL
I'd also be worried about getting charged for bein naked in public.

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?
I'd get a personal trainer so maybe i'd tone my body. IDK what i would do. I wouldn't like someone pretending to be me.

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I haven't been to one, but if i improved on my body I'd maybe go. It would be nice to feel "free."

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? Hm, I'd ask to see the photo and if I liked it... they can keep it. hay if ppl are gonna have pics of me they better be flattering >:O

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? I'd be in shock and it would depend on the site I am on. I would maybe want it taken down...I would definitely email whoever owned the site and tell them that they should have permission before they post pics of people.

8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?
Well, they are both embarrassing.... but i think i would choose the strangers. lmao...

9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)
Being caught naked in front of any classmates or co-workers would reallyreally suck..

10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later.
Something to laugh bout later, but i'd be really pissed at the time.

11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover?
my ugly boobs LOL

[darkwarriorkane]

1. Not really.

2. It makes me feel sexy and I love the excitment.

3. I would hide and ask for help. Some places are not meant to be seen in that light.

4. I would play the role.

5. I have always wanted to go to a nudist resort for the experience, excitment, and freedom.

6. I would most likely shrug it off and/or show off a bit.

7. I would post on the thread letting them know that I am aware of what has happened and go from there. All picutres posted should have the permission of the model.

8. I would prefer the intimate group. I'm not a fan of crowds in any situation.

10. I would laugh at depending where we were and who is there. There is a good chance that I would do it back to them and just keep swimming. As long as there was no one else there I would have no hard feelings.

11. If it was someone that I did not want to see me then I would cover everything.

1. I am very easily embarrassed in general, yes, and that would carry over 100fold if it involved me being naked.

2. I don't have a significant other -- never had a boyfriend or anything. I won't show myself because I am very embarrassed with how I look. I don't even think I've looked at myself directly in the mirror in a long time now.

3. Probably make a dash for the nearest clothing (or other) rack, try to cover myself, and then curl up into the fetal position and start crying as I hear the nearest teenage boys asking if they just saw that fat cow over there.

4. The only place I would get cast as an actress would be the "before" model in something, whether it was for some acne product or a new diet pill. I guess it would have to be me, then, but I am sure I'd refuse the role.

5. Never.

6. Well, assuming in the hypothetical situation I was nude, I would be extremely upset, because I would be sure they were going to post it on the internet as some ugly fat chick on a joke website.

7. That would be pretty amazing. I guess I would PM that person.

8. Definitely the large group of strangers, for some reason. I guess I feel like the people I know already see how disgusting I am, so while it woud still be highly embarrassing, I would move on.

9. Anything involving nudity, really. I suppose it would be if someone stripped me of my clothes and threw me into the middle of some all-boys high school. Those guys usually like seeing women, since they're around guys all the time, so it would hurt much worse for me to be so bad that they would be repulsed by me, much worse than just at a normal high school, if that makes any sense.

10. Actually, I would probably just rip off her swimsuit, too, if she ever did that to me. Assuming no one else was around, it wouldn't be all that embarrassing. It would probably be kind of funny. I only have 2 friends, but they are the best friends anyone could ask for, so I wouldn't be embarrassed to be naked around them. I just wish I could see them more often -- I only get to meet up with them like once or twice a year .

11. Yeah, by my younger brother. It was during one of my weight loss attempts when I was 16. I took off my jeans to work out on the exercise bike in my parents' room, because I didn't have any pants that would allow me to move freely. He was 12, came in to watch television, saw me, we basically just looked at each other and he turned and walked out without a word. It wasn't complete nudity, so I don't know if it counts, but it wasn't all that bad, I guess. If I were completely nude and caught by a stranger, I would probably curl up on myself.

[darkwarriorkane]

1. Actually embarrassed easily with certain things (like confrontations in public, criticism in front of others, doing something clumsy/stupid, etc.) but when it comes to anything sexual or dealing with nudity no problems with being embarrassed at all. Modesty and embarrassment are two different things. I learned to not be modest from the earliest of times in my life with having to change outfits for routines and competitions (dance, twirling lol, cheerleading, etc.) in dressing areas set up with curtains just under the stands or just out of sight’s eye for most observers (everyone changed in these places not just me) as well as from doing runway modeling and stripping as soon as you hit the curtain to get in the next set and be right back on the runway (with security guards all around making sure no one bothers you- what a job! The guys loved it and my mom always reminded them that I was X years old… what a great mother…. hehe).

2. I love my body. I am completely comfortable with my body. I like showing that state of being with others and to give some women who may have had bad situations in their past like me with name calling and such to realize that they too can have confidence in themselves and their bodies. You have to love yourself before you can truly open your heart to love someone else (that has nothing to do with posing nude in any way). There are things that are not my favorites about my body, but I love that I have been given what I have.

3. Laughing my ass off would be a start. Followed by “wow I didn’t know they had invisible clothes vacuums in here?” or “I knew I would get caught taking those clothes” (not that I would but that would teach a moral too). Then more laughter and “Can I borrow a shopping bag or something to head outside so that I don’t get arrested?” That is if anyone were left standing by that point in time around me.

4. I would do it myself no matter where I was.

5. Yes. I have not been to one, but I would like to go. It is on my to do list. I have not been yet as I am always with friends or family who just do not understand that side of things when I am even remotely close to a place like that. Another thing is that everyone has their perception of what they like in a person’s body. What if I go and there is no one that I like? That would be a disappointment.

6. I would talk to the person if I realized that it was being taken. After all, why take a picture of just me when I would invite them to take a picture with me. I do not mind having my picture made (even naked) and would love to give them the picture that they really want.

7. I would ask them how their vacation was at “x” place and send a picture of me to them so that they knew that it was truly me speaking to them. I would probably give them a Spotting Verity award for actually seeing me in public and posting a pic. I would also ask them why they did not want to take a picture "with me" instead of "of me"?

8. You know I would not mind being naked in front of either group. But, I would be more excited to be in front of a larger crowd.

9. Not modest… so not applicable.

10. Definitely something to laugh about later. Hopefully the friend taking the bathing suit off was a guy and that leads to something else. But never know those girl friends can be quite naughty at times too.

11. Yes. I have been caught when I did not want to be caught. In the past I would have covered my boobs with one arm and my muff with the other. That was when I got caught. Now, I do not care as I am naked in my home most of the time and completely comfortable with my body. I have found in that situation that it is better to come back at them with something funny, like “How are you today?” When they turn tail and run in embarrassment for catching you naked, then you throw in the “Have an awesome day!” That will get them every time. Just turn the situation around on them.

[darkwarriorkane]

Here goes:

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?Yes, I am very easily embarrassed and being naked would be difficult

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?
For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?I worry about people thinking I am unattractive

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?Blush, run, find the first thing to cover up with

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?Acting allows you to be someone you are not, so I would do it either on stage or in a movie, but a movie would be easier.

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?I have been to one, but didn't take my clothes off for the above mentioned reasons. I have no issue with them though and if I felt like I would be accepted I would do it.

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?
That would make me very nervous and I would leave
7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?That would upset me because that person is violating my privacy

8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?It would be much more difficult in front of people I know. Especially if I have to see them again.

9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) The most embarrassing would be becoming suddenly naked by someone or a group in order to ridicule me.

10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later.embarrassing

11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover?hasn't happened