Why Do We Show Our Wives Naked?

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by rednose

They try to control us with their pussies, we take back the control with our photos.

Interesting take on it.

Like most things in life I think there are a myriad of reasons why and it differs depending on the person, relationship and situation.

[postmanuk]

Why?

Frustration - Revenge I guess

[BaconBot]

Originally Posted by rednose

They try to control us with their pussies, we take back the control with our photos.

Originally Posted by postmanuk

Why?

Frustration - Revenge I guess

Cool. Thanks for reminding me about the creepy, mysoginist undertones of most amateur porn. It can't just be ladies or couples having fun. There's gotta be some dude punishing her.

[thefergieferg1]

Agree complex and varied
Look up Candaulism and it predates what we know as revenge porn today.

e.g.

"Sadger hypothesized that the candaulist completely identifies with his partner's body, and deep in his mind is showing himself " - discuss

[cufan86]

Originally Posted by tributemywife

How many guys post and or swap without their wives knowing? Which is hotter: posting and swapping with or without permission?

Interesting question. I'm not sure what my answer is. If it is someone I know, it is hot knowing that she is ok with me seeing topless/nude photos or whatever.

But it is also hot seeing a woman clothed and knowing what they look like undressed and they don't know you have seen them.

[Tifosi]

Originally Posted by smoothguy

Jeez it's a good question with several good answers/reasons:
It's a huge rush for me. My wife has never been camera shy and is definitely an exhibitionist. I literally have thousands of pics/videos taking over the years that have been collecting dust in a hard drive and I like to share. She's a looker, I love read the comments, but the biggest thrill is seeing her pics pop up on another website. Our majority of posts are beach pics with no face, so seeing her pics used in one of the big name beach websites is a thrill. Maybe that's the ego component. I'm "proud" of her.

There is also an element of my attraction to her. I think she has one of the hottest kitties, breast/nipples, bodies I've ever seen. Coupled with her piercings and tan it drives me wild. The way her lips open up when she gets horny and her clit swells up.... I love to share that hotness. Why should I be the only one to see her naked? Hehe
I think many men here feel the same about there wives regardless of their physical attributes. They are just "into" their wives. Lucky for the women in my opinion, to have guys so attracted to them. It's empowering to women.

Also things tend slow down when you start a family and life gets in the way. Posting pics is a also a nice way to re-live all the hot moments of our past.
She used to be more involved in posting etc... but family, raising kids... priorities change.
But I'm still horn dogging her pics when I have a chance ! Hehe

That's a great post! Well done!

[rufus2252]

I've been trying to come up with an answer to this for years. You guys have given some good insights but it still doesn't completely make sense to me. I used to be really, really jealous and I am not sure how or why that changed, but now I love sharing her pictures ... and sharing *her*. She knows I have posted her pictures and doesn't like it at all. But she is *really* into the whole hotwife thing. Both turn me on, so 50% success ratio isn't bad.

She won't let me take pictures of her anymore because she caught me posting them in the past. Before she found out though I had taken hundreds of her and I, usually during sex. It really turned her on and I had some very explicit shots. I don't dare mention pictures during sex anymore because she gets pissed.

Lots of them ... maybe most of them ... weren't very good, but the ones that were good were great. I've posted them all over the internet in the hopes that they'd become part of the "standard" set of internet porn pictures that get posted over and over again. But much to my chagrin, none of them have.

The past 4 or 5 years I've been submitting them to various Tumblr blogs. But that hasn't worked out well for a couple of reasons. First, Tumblr seems to take down porn blogs pretty regularly. So I'll submit a bunch of her pictures, they'll get posted and get some attention and a few weeks later the blog is deleted.

The other issue is that the most popular blogs post lots of pictures. That's why they become popular. And most people don't look at more than the first couple of pages. So her pictures would be on the first or second page for a few days (or hours) and then get pushed down and nobody else would see them.

I pretty regularly go through her pictures on my computer at home and search for them in Google Images. Right now there are three of them that have some exposure but again, it's mostly on Tumblr and when those blogs go away, so will her exposure. There's one that has been re-blogged on Tumblr a few hundred times, so I have some hopes for that one.

I'll keep trying to get her pictures exposed but it's more fun when she has a steady guy fucking her brains out anyway. She had taken a break for a few months but she has a couple of guys on the line now that seem to be heading in the right direction. Here's hoping for lots of great sex stories this summer!

[Tifosi]

Originally Posted by rufus2252

I've been trying to come up with an answer to this for years. You guys have given some good insights but it still doesn't completely make sense to me. I used to be really, really jealous and I am not sure how or why that changed, but now I love sharing her pictures ... and sharing *her*. She knows I have posted her pictures and doesn't like it at all. But she is *really* into the whole hotwife thing. Both turn me on, so 50% success ratio isn't bad.

She won't let me take pictures of her anymore because she caught me posting them in the past. Before she found out though I had taken hundreds of her and I, usually during sex. It really turned her on and I had some very explicit shots. I don't dare mention pictures during sex anymore because she gets pissed.

Lots of them ... maybe most of them ... weren't very good, but the ones that were good were great. I've posted them all over the internet in the hopes that they'd become part of the "standard" set of internet porn pictures that get posted over and over again. But much to my chagrin, none of them have.

The past 4 or 5 years I've been submitting them to various Tumblr blogs. But that hasn't worked out well for a couple of reasons. First, Tumblr seems to take down porn blogs pretty regularly. So I'll submit a bunch of her pictures, they'll get posted and get some attention and a few weeks later the blog is deleted.

The other issue is that the most popular blogs post lots of pictures. That's why they become popular. And most people don't look at more than the first couple of pages. So her pictures would be on the first or second page for a few days (or hours) and then get pushed down and nobody else would see them.

I pretty regularly go through her pictures on my computer at home and search for them in Google Images. Right now there are three of them that have some exposure but again, it's mostly on Tumblr and when those blogs go away, so will her exposure. There's one that has been re-blogged on Tumblr a few hundred times, so I have some hopes for that one.

I'll keep trying to get her pictures exposed but it's more fun when she has a steady guy fucking her brains out anyway. She had taken a break for a few months but she has a couple of guys on the line now that seem to be heading in the right direction. Here's hoping for lots of great sex stories this summer!

We'd like to see her!

[rufus2252]

Originally Posted by Tifosi

We'd like to see her!

Stand by. I'll put up a few this weekend. That's her in my avatar, although if you look at my profile, the big picture is NOT her, just some random cutie I found on the web.

[rufus2252]

Just a few for now, better ones later.