How open is your wife about her past?

[SpyStrip]

The problem about when my wife discussed her past was that afterward, I had to deal with seeing two guys at her company's annual party who I saw, and she told me that she had gone out with them, and that they had been in bed with her and had experienced everything from A to Z with them in the bedroom. I felt completely humiliated.

[OPD940B]

She has if very open in that she revealed everything that she remembers. There was not much awkwardness with most of her exes. All but one that I met shook my hand and congratulated me telling me I had a great girl and how lucky I was. Except for the one that she called off her engagement with to be with me.

First time I met him he gave me the dead fish handshake while talking to another person. Unfortunately, my wife ended up fooling around with him before we were married, trying to explain and make him feel better about their breakup. She tried to say that it was nothing and that didn't last even one minute. Apparently, he was a was a quick shot that could never even hit the target, evidently, he would ejaculate before getting it in her Vagina or mouth. I was so pissed and always got a smug look from him when I would see him on campus.

She is not always quick to open up but always does in the end. But sometimes she is too open. But now it is 37 years later and still together.

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by SpyStrip

The problem about when my wife discussed her past was that afterward, I felt completely humiliated.

Why? She chose you, my man! You're the winner there so be proud!

I was also going to say that the only guy I was ever humiliated by was the guy who stole my first wife from me but hell, its easy to see now that he did me a favor! I'd like to shake that guy's hand!

[Fantasymaster1951]

How open is your wife about her past?
Very open, at least she was in our first years, when having sex was our primary activity, besides work (for me) and studying (for her).
Having lived together one and a half year before getting married, some of her stories came in that period of time, I am not sure. But her stories made me jealous and horny at the same time.
One was about a guy from Lebanon she met during the last part of her last high school year, a couple of months before graduation.
She took her out but all they did was kissing. When the first fuck was ready to come, she was admitted to the hospital with acute appendicitis and operated the same day.
She went home after four days and was there alone all day: she was the only daughter and both her parents worked.
It was late July and the guy called her to say he was leaving, traveling back to his home country.
She invited him at her home and he arrived with a bouquet of red flowers.
I remember clearly my wife, who was 20 years old at the time, saying: “I knew I would feel really bad if I let him leave empty-handed (...so to speak). I had stitches at the bottom of my belly, so no way we could fuck”.
My question “What did you do, then?” was totally unnecessary, as I imagined the answer. But I asked it anyway.
“I gave him a blow job”.
She even admitted swallowing, as she was in her living room and was afraid her mom’s favorite couch could get dirty if the Lebanese’s semen would splash away.
I asked to hear this story more than once in the following years. So arousing…
This is ONE story. More to come, stay tuned!

[Fantasymaster1951]

When I met my wife she had just turned 20, while I was 25. I was just through Medical School in Italy, she had graduated from German High School three months earlier (she’s from Berlin).
We married EXACTLY 3 years from the day we met, it was so romantic choosing that date.
But both before and after our wedding stories from her past came up. She understood that telling me her previous experiences was arousing, so she didn’t keep anything back. Or so I hope.
Virginity lost at 15, in the 70’s. She did NOT like that first time at all. The guy was a school mate, the same age and same inexperience…
But she made up later on.
Of her stories there are two, from the years in Berlin, when she was between 17 and 20, that I remember most.
A story with a young teacher from her high school, around 30 yrs old. A couple of months, then he chickened out. Probably afraid of being fired.
And a hot affair with her dentist, about 15 years older and VERY experienced. He is the guy who taught her most things about sexmaking, so I should thank him. Or be very jealous, it depends on the POV.
Many times they had threesomes, adding her best girlfriend, 2 years younger than her. Meeting and sex were in the dentist’s office, afterhours.
Even though for me a threesome is more arousing with two men and a woman, just thinking of those two girls taking care of the lucky guy’s body almost made me cum. And I always asked for a minute by minute story of their sessions.
Anyway she swears that I was the first guy in her life to use her posterior hole.
Talking about anal just reminded me of something that happened AFTER our wedding, in a cheating period.
But that’s another story.

[Fantasymaster1951]

An episode worth telling happened a couple of years before our wedding.
First of all I have to explain that we are talking about the late 1970’s and that my then girlfriend (and later wife) is German, while I'm Italian. German girls were way ahead of Italian girls, at that time, sexually speaking.
Well, back to what happened.
We had been going out in a steady way for 10 months or so, in Italy where she was an au pair girl in a family.
In July she went back home for the summer.
When she came back in September, to start one more year as an au pair girl in a different family, I left her. Not before having fucked a few times, again.
I am not very proud of that, but I wanted to meet, and possibly fuck, different girls. I was 26, after all.
She was understandably sorry and sad, but being a smart girl she found the way to win me back.
She was staying for a few days at my best friend’s apartment. He and his 30 yrs old brother were alone (without their parents) until the end of September and my girlfriend (ex at that time, I should say) was not expected at her new family’s for a few more days.
My friend behaved as a real friend, non taking his chance with the pretty 21 yrs old German girl. But his brother was not so understanding.
After two days my friend called me on the phone and told me: ”Too bad you left her! My brother says she GIVES GREAT HEAD…”
Chills and pangs of jealousy all over my body.
The next day I met her to try and get back with her. Of course I asked what had happened with the older guy.
“You know, he had no condoms and I quit the pill in July. So we couldn’t really fuck”.
“And?”
“He took me down to their basement, laid a mattress on the floor and we SIXTY NINED”.
“You what?” I asked, pretending I didn’t understand.
“What do you call it when he licks my c*nt and I suck his cock?”
“Yes, we call it 69 as well…”
Needless to say that in the 10 months we had been steady we never tried 69, so hearing that was quite painful. But arousing at the same time.
We got back together, 69ed quite a few times and two years later we got married.
Maybe I should have thinked about it better, but she was a sex machine.

[Teeyes]

she told me that the gangbangs she did were "a lot of work" to please that many men in a short period of time. That sounded hot!

[JonScores]

My wife doesn't always relay the same story to me that male friends of mine do. For example one night another couple was visiting with us, and things got pretty sexual. I was fondling and fingering the other guy's wife, and he mine. We all were nude and in the same room, but my wife and the other husband were blocked from view to some extent by the furniture. I am all for letting my wife do whatever she wants with another guy, so long as she extends the same privilege to me with another women. Things, I thought, culminated with the ladies getting fingered to climax. However, the next day the guy told me that he fucked my wife. I didn't say anything about it to her for almost a week. When I asked her at that point how far she had gone, she said that the guy just fingered her. I mentioned that he said that he had fucked her. I continued by saying that it was alright if she did fuck him, but I thought she should be open about it. She replied that she was pretty drunk and didn't think she fucked him, but she could have, yet didn't think she did. Again, I assured her it was O.K., but I did expect her to tell me whenever she carried things further than I knew. She agreed.

Most recently, we were over at another couple's house. We all usually get pretty wasted and then some nudity occurs. Both wives end up at least topless and sometimes entirely nude for pictures the other guy takes of them. This particular night, the ladies got totally nude and were squirming around on the sofa with each other. I enjoyed the scene, and some pretty sexy pictures were taken of the ladies. Both of us guys got down to our underpants and joined the ladies on the sofa. There was some fondling of our own wives by the husbands, but to my knowledge nothing beyond that. After a short while, I had to go take a leak and left the three of them for only a few minutes. Once back on the sofa, things continued as before, but never advanced any further. On the way home, my wife said that the other guy asked her to grab his dick. I casually asked if she did. She replied, "Oh, no, I didn't do that." Then she said, "He did fondle my boobs, but you know that." I said that I didn't. She said, "Oh, yes you did, and you said it was O.K." I replied that it was O.K., but that I wasn't aware that it took place." She told me that I must have been too drunk to remember. We were all drunk, but I remember things pretty well even to the point of passing out drunk. So, I really don't think that I would have forgotten that event. Then a few days later, the guy told me that he was fondling my wife's boobs on the sofa while I went to pee, and he asked her to grab his dick. He continued by saying that she did. I asked how she reacted to all of it. He said she seemed to enjoy him fondling her boobs, and she grinned real big when she grabbed his hard, erect crank, and worked with it for a short time.

The truth is that I don't care if she lets a guy feel her off and/or grabs a guys hard dick and feels of it. She has done a whole lot more than that that I was aware of from time to time. However, I feel in away like she is cheating on me when she refuses to tell me the whole story. It seems like her little way of cheating and is disingenuous. Would you guys and gals agree? And, why do you think she does that when she would know that I would always give her permission to do what she wants? It is a mystery to me.

[buddha1]

I'd say she was honest of most of the important stuff but anything that she thought would put her in a bad light she wouldn't tell me. Over the years I have heard the truth from some of her friends etc.

An example is a story about her and her younger sister going to a local bar every once in awhile where they had pool tables. She was 23 at the time. She said that they would have a beer and shoot some pool. Since it was after work they would get comfortable by removing the pantyhose. That was then end of the story but her friends told me that she and her sister (both have well endowed chests) would take off their pantyhose and their bras. They would then get a lot of attention by the locals. The friends never said what happened by they implied that my wife and sister rarely left the bar alone.

[Curiouscouple2469]

I have had the same experience where a very censured version is told until she and a girlfriend get a few drinks in them then they start to recall the times when they would hit the local bar every Friday and leave with some guys to continue the party at someone’s house.

The favourite seems to be when she woke up naked in the back garden with her clothes and hair extensions pulled out and scattered across the lawn and every corner they did it in.

The fact that “we” now live in the same area of this small town and the bar is still relatively local meaning we run into “old friends” just about everywhere.

I know we both have a past but it becomes pretty uncomfortable knowing half the town has been there before you.