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3. Get Out of Town
Breaking out of a routine can be all the aphrodisiac you need sometimes. Even if it's just an overnight, having someone else do all the planning and then surprising you with the destination can be a real turn-on.



4. Pack Adventurously
Whether you're heading out of town or you're planning a romantic night at home, prepare a little goodie bag of toys. You can have your lover open it, then enjoy playing with his and hers toys like vibrators, butt plugs, cock rings and colored condoms!

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5. Get Wet
Treat your lover to a sensual, relaxing bath. Dim the lights and put scented candles all around, pour in her (or his) favorite bath oil, give a sexy scrub, and slip in a waterproof vibrator.



6. Explore Tactile Territory
Turn an ordinary massage into a tactile adventure. Find out how ice, feathers, fur—-even a hairbrush-- can make your partner's skin tingle.

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7. Take It Off
Show off your body and your comfort with nudity--this can be incredibly exciting. Undress as if it were a stage performance, taking care to linger over sexy body parts.



8. Get into Dirty Talk
Seduce your lover with your words. Explicitly describe the best sex you ever had, what you plan on doing, or some fantasy you've always enjoyed. Consider supplementing your hot talk with a toy like the Audio-oh, a voice (or music) activated vibrator.

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9. Submit
Experiment with a little power play, by bringing along some wrist restraints or a blindfold. It can be liberating and exhilarating to put such trust in a partner, plus the anticipation of what will come is divine.



10. Be Generous
Whatever it is your lover likes, do it lovingly, thoroughly, and more than once! Don't be afraid to ask, and by all means lavish him or her with compliments and words of affection.

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The art of kissing by a woman who knows:
I bet you did not think there was an art to kissing. Kissing is a very big part of being intimate before you even begin the foreplay. Kissing in it's self is promises of what is to come and can be the foreplay leading up to other thing's, or can be just the thing to make you think of things to come. I love a to just kiss a man for hours, nothing else, and a good kisser can just make me melt into a puddle.

I have never gotten any complaints about my kissing technique, yet even as a smoker I still have them coming back for more even if they don't smoke. One of the biggest secrets is to have respect for yourself and your partner. If you're on a date, and he's not eating onions or garlic try to stay away from them yourself. I know it can be difficult especially if you're like me who loves those two abrasive smelling spices. If he happens to be enjoying them, then go ahead and indulge. Always carry mints on you. Gum will get in the way of kissing but a good mint, Altoids, are great they dissolve quickly and last for a while. On the other hand the pocket packs are great but they leave your tongue blue or green and this will throw some guys off.
For oral hygiene this helps a lot. Brush your tongue or get a tongue brush and a tongue sc****r. Do this before you go out for date. You will have fresher breath to kiss with. Use toothpaste or mouthwash when you brush your tongue.

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Now for the good part how to make your man hot for more of your kisses. Start by a soft butterfly kiss. Don't shove your tongue down his throat. We don't want him to choke. As you open your lips for a more open kiss use your tongue to wet his lower lip, slowly tease his lip with your tongue. Just use the tip of your tongue, not your whole tongue. As you start getting into more of the kiss, use your tongue to "dance" with his, pull back a little to make him come to you. Pull back from the kiss and nip his lip between your teeth. Be careful not hard- we are not being vampires here. Just enough to nip his lip then tug on it a bit. That is a "Teasing Kiss"

Now on to something really daring. The sucking tongue kiss. Guy's especially tend to like this because it reminds them of you sucking and licking something a bit south. It will give most an instant hard-on. As your tongue wrestles with your guys, slowly get his tongue into your grasp, this can be done in two ways. Take your teeth and gently grab it and suck it into your mouth and slowly go up and down (or in and out) in a sucking motion on his tongue. The other way is pull back a bit and let him come to you. Like a Venus flytrap let him come to you and then slowly grab him. He will catch on and will end up doing the same to you, in a game of tongue wrestling. Ladies, see where the oral hygiene comes in handy here.

Now a nice seductive way is always involving a bit of food. If eating in a restaurant or eatery, get a whipped cream topped coffee or hot chocolate. Tease your guy by getting a bit on your upper lip and lick it off slowly. Then go to kiss him with just the tip of your tongue so he gets the sweet flavor. Try a canolli (a Italian cream filled dessert) lick the canolli instead of biting it lick out some filling. The ideas your guy will get will turn you into a molten puddle, again if your in a situation where you can kiss him, let him taste the dessert on your lips. This idea also works great using a chocolate covered cherry or a good Godiva truffle. Before you know it you will be a treat for him to devour.

As for your lips, some men don't like the taste of lipstick. If you wear neutral tones, some lipsticks have a mocha taste to it. You can also use a nice lip-gloss, these make your lips look luscious, and lip-gloss does tend to taste better. Try to stay away from the kiddy sweet flavors like Bubblegum or cotton candy. Cinnamon works as well as vanilla and coffee. Don't have enough funds to buy all these lipsticks? Use a little petroleum jelly and some vanilla extract, mint, cinnamon or even chocolate extract or oils(use sparingly especially the cinnamon). Mix a little up and use a light coating on your lips. You will get a flavor along with your gloss. Want a Pout-y lower lip? When applying your lip-gloss don't do it left to right go from the top of lower lip and stroke down it will make the lower lip fuller. Try to avoid sparkles or glitter.

After doing all this, I promise you will have a great kissing session. Hours of enjoyment. Enjoy and Happy Kissing!

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Ladies, If your having difficulty getting into the grove of pleasing your man with oral sex, try it at your leisure, not just during love making. Anything too routine is bound to get boring. We've come up with a few ideas to help you rejuvenate things.

· Take a long drive to some special place, and while he's driving snuggle up close to him and tell him to be sure to concentrate on driving. Put your head in his lap and start unzipping. Remind him again to keep his eyes on the road. You may never be allowed to drive again when you're together.

· Give him a layback and relax honey session with your tongue during halftime when he's home watching his favorite sports game. He may never leave home to watch sports again.

· Join him in the shower, massage him while you wash every part of his body and once rinsed, start licking the water away. He might surprise you in the shower next time.

· Go with him to his favorite fishing hole and before he gets completely into the thralls of fishing, tell him you want to nibble on him first. You may be invited to go fishing again soon.

· When he comes home after having a long hard stressful day, listen as usual saying uh huh, but between the uh huhs start messaging him anywhere and tell him to keep talking, you're listening. All the while making your move to his groin area and kissing away his stress. Next time you ask, "How was your day dear?" he'll be grinning ear to ear.

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· At a special yet boring get-together that you made him attend with you, keep your eye on him and when opportunity strikes, grab his hand pulling him into the bathroom with you. Lock the door and let the fun begin. Next time you tell him you need him attend something with you, he'll probably volunteer before you finish the sentence.

· Set an evening aside for a movie and popcorn night at home for just the two of you. Light a few candles, get the movie and popcorn ready in advance. Don't forget the beer or coke on ice. When you push play, on comes the porn movie you don't really want to watch anyway (and if you do, all the better) but you know he wants to watch it. So as the porn's playing, you play with him in your mouth. Don't forget the ice can be useful here too. Movie night just got better than he ever dreamed.

· He calls you at home saying he's working late and will probably be home by 7:00. Before seven, you arrive at the office. Do the usual chit chat routine, telling him to stay in his seat while you walk over and get on your knees and aim to please. He'll never look at that office or chair the same.

· Keep you hand wrapped around the base of the penis. This will help you control the length of the penis you insert into your mouth. Deep throat really is a myth; you'll find your own depth comfort zone.

· Have your partner hold the base of the penis for you. This helps to free your hands to use elsewhere or get into a more comfortable position. Also who knows what the penis likes better than the man himself! Let him work it, watch and learn.

· Experiment with soft touches of the lips and long lingering licks with your tongue making him anticipate the rhythm you're going to set…fast or slow. Ask him what he likes and see if he can answer in the mist pleasure.

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· Stroke the penis by hand in the same or opposite rhythm of your mouth's movements. Remember how much you like to be stroked and feel the strokes your giving him, set the pace.

· Fondle his genitals or simply hold them, not squeezing too hard…unless he asks you to of course. Rub his thighs with your fingertips. Men like to be touched as much as women do.

· Let the saliva from you mouth run down his shaft, this is no time to try to be neat. Most men like the wet moist feeling your generating. Think of your saliva as a lubricant and keep the juices flowing.
· While moving your mouth up and down, let your lips flow completely around the rim of the penis creating an in and out sensation. Along the rim of the penis head is a most sensitive area, which deserves special attention unto itself.

· Try flicking your hard pointed tongue quickly back and forth against the under carriage area at the head of the penis or try the bottom area of the shaft near the testicles.

· When your partner is moaning and bucking in pleasure and you're not yet ready for ejaculation, backing off allows him to peak not cum. Changing your rhythm bringing him down leaving him open for another peak later with your next set of moves. Trust your feeling here to know the right time to make the moves. While he enjoys the roller coaster ride you have him on, you'll feel like a powerful control goddess.

· When your partner is moaning and bucking in pleasure, if you want ejaculation at this time, try not to change your rhythm. Consistency helps to keep the excitement building. What you're doing is working well right now and you want to keep his concentration right where is, headed for oblivion.

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· When your partner spews, don't stop licking and sucking immediately. Continue you magic as you feel his thrusting and pulsing. Follow him into the aftermath of pleasure for another moment or two while his orgasm lingers.

· Let your partner's juice flow over your tongue with your mouth open. Gracefully let the juices flow off your tongue, out of your mouth or swallow.

· Strong tasting cum may become milder in flavor by a simple change in diet, such as adding pineapple and other fruits to the menu.

· Place soft kisses on your partner's testicles. Pull the testicles slowly and gently into your mouth while he pumps his rock hard cock to fulfillment and release.
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· Let your partner release his hot juices on your face or body. Place his cock between your breasts and now that your mouth is free, talk dirty to him and watch his manhood swell and burst. It's a beautiful sight.