How open is your wife about her past?

[MFN]

Said this before in this and other threads: if your wife had an active history of sex with many men, either before you or ongoing, be happy about it, knowing she was, and still is, desirable. Encourage her to share her history with you, tell her you appreciate the experience she gained, and tell her you love her for it. Worship her body the way others did before you, and try to make love to her better than anyone ever did before. And realise that even though she gave her body to others, she's now giving you her entire self.

[Teeyes]

Originally Posted by MFN

Worship her body the way others did before you, and try to make love to her better than anyone ever did before. And realise that even though she gave her body to others, she's now giving you her entire self.

That's almost poetic! But I agree....mine has a past. I couldn't even begin to put a number of the amount of guys who jizzed in her mouth,face,pussy or ass. But hey she's mine now! Completely...not just for a hookup.

[Handiwerker]

Reading this thread and thinking back over the years and wondering about ex gf's/wives and their history......just imagine that before being granted a marriage licence, each partner had to legally declare the names and numbers of past sexual encounters in detail..... and the information was available for public viewing
Yes, a ridiculous idea but imagine finding out the secrets previously unavailable.....many girls would be looked at very differently I think and several husbands worried or in awe!
Hmmmmm

[steel79]

Originally Posted by shower1000

The attached photo shows Julie's normal pubic hair style. Taken about 15 years after marriage

Mr. Shower, looks like you forgot to attach the photo, we appreciate very much your sharing

[frodobaggins19]

She was active, very active from 15 to 22 when I met her.

By her original count she had 17 guys cum inside her and sucked off another 75 or so.

After 40+ years together she let me in on a little secret she had forgotten to tell me. Of those 75 she sucked off, over half were inside her, but since she wasn't on birth control and hates condoms, she had them pull out and swallowed them instead.

She outlined all 17 guys with names, places, how many times, how big they were, how much they shot and how many times she had an orgasm with each one.

Of the guys she sucked off, she commented on their cock size, how much they shot and what it tasted like. Evidently cum comes in a wide variety of flavors.

The only general rule I could find was that eight inches or longer always got to finish inside her. The bigger the guy, the bigger her orgasm.

She even detailed how one guy gushed cum, she thought a couple of ounces, so much she couldn't swallow all of it and it got on one of her favorite sweaters. The guys was small, just four inches or so, but a fountain.

Her biggest was 11 inches, with a couple of guys around 10 and five at 9 or 9 1/2.

Being from a small town, I know about a dozen of the guys she either screwed or sucked off.

I've seen seven of them naked, and from their limp size I verified her stories. A couple of "pokers" as she calls them, tiny cocks that barely peak out of the pubic hair and her old boyfriend Kirk who still parades around the gym with his eight limp inches swinging back in forth. He got her off a few hundred times in the 18 months they dated.

[Massguy70]

I don't know how some people remember all of the names and details. Especially after the number starts getting high. I had a hard enough time remembering all of the cars I've owned when I made a list. That number is 30. I did it in chronological order. I can probably list the ones I went out with for a few months and longer along with some that were memorable experiences. A lot who were one night stands and a couple weeks of fun are now forgotten. My wife can remember everyone she's been with along with some details about them. Even the one night stands.

[nectcouple]

Hell, not only do I get to hear her recollections about her past, but early on she gave me all the photos (Polaroids) and digital8 video cassettes that she kept after some of her breakups! So, I have visual proof of some of her stories.

[VXCguy]

Originally Posted by nectcouple

Hell, not only do I get to hear her recollections about her past, but early on she gave me all the photos (Polaroids) and digital8 video cassettes that she kept after some of her breakups! So, I have visual proof of some of her stories.

She is one of the good ones!!

[rabbit07]

I have sometimes tried to extract details from Toni, and it can be exhaustive and a bit annoying to her. Its easier to just wait for the details to spill out and enjoy those moments. I'd love to hear more from her, that would be crazy hot. I think she was a way bigger sl*t than she lets on.

[JonScores]

My wife seems to like to start arguments by bringing up what I did with other girls before we ever got married. We dated for about three years prior to getting married. During that time, we both had dates with other people. It seems most of the problem areas that she identifies occurred after a period when we terminated our engagement, but then did get married about 6 months after the break-up of the engagement. Also during that off time, we still dated, but sometimes dated other people.

One such date I had was with a girl that takes a guy's breath away. She was beautiful, and, oh, so sexy! I took her to a dance, She was literally a wild woman on the dance floor. People would just stop dancing and watch her. She wiggled every part of her body as she danced. After a good while dancing like that, some of her clothes were working off. The buttons of her blouse were coming undone, and that was offering a pretty good view of her boobs flying around under that thin material. And her micro miniskirt allowed everyone to see that she had no panties on by the conclusion of the dance night. I could not wait to get her out to the car. Once there, I didn't even offer up the front seat. I helped her into the back seat. We started going at it and both were naked within minutes. Unfortunately, we were parked in a very busy parking lot, and there were cars adjacent to us on both sides. A true ass hole's car was parked in one of those adjacent cars. As he approached his car door, he looked over into my car and saw to naked bodies lying on the back seat humping one another. He hollered out, "Hey, there are two] naked people fucking in this car!" Several people ran over to see the action. My girl said, "Oh, fuck, that is it! Let's get out of here!" I did as she asked. As I climbed over into the front seat, started the car and pulled out, I looked in the rear view mirror at her still seated in the in the rear and saw her getting dressed. I told that that was unnecessary, and I could find a more out of the way place, but she stayed in the back seat and got dressed. I told her that I could locate a more private place to park. She said, "No, that she was out of the mood and ready to go home. I did as she asked, and I never had the opportunity to take her out again. However, word got out to my ex-fiancee, and she has never forgotten.

And this was the item she brought up to attack this particular evening. However, I was ready for the attack. I had some limited ammo available. I provided about 15 minutes for her to start into me. Then I said, "You were not totally innocent during that period." She responded, "Oh, really! Just what did I do?" I came back by detailing an apartment party where she was less than a lady. We had had an argument about something on the way to the party. I really can't remember what we are arguing about, but it was one that was pretty heated. Shortly after our arrival with a number of drinks downed quickly, my girl started making out with one of my really good friends. She was climbing all over him and providing him with deep tongue passionate kisses. I grabbed another woman known as being pretty hot and ready to trot. I ushered this other woman down the hallway to the bedroom. My girlfriend didn't even notice me going into the bedroom with this hot chick -- she was too busy making out with my buddy. Soon after entering the bedroom, both the girl and I were naked and ready to do the BIG ONE. However, I was jealous about what my girlfriend was doing with my buddy. I told the lady in bed with me that this was not the right time and wouldn't be good for either of us. With that I put on my pants and headed out the bedroom back to where my buddy and girlfriend were making out. They were still going at it. He had her pulled into his hard dick by tugging her butt into him. They were in a heavy mouth lock, and he had her skirt up around her waist with his hands deep down into her panties and was massaging her ass. She was really into the whole make-out scene, and was feeling his ass (albeit on the outside of his pants). I broke in and said, "Excuse me, Tom, I need to talk with her." He pulled his hands out of her panties and let go of her as I pulled her away by her arm. We had a pretty intense conversation and left the party.

However, the real point that I am getting to is what transpired as I related this occurrence to my wife. And the same is true with most any indiscretion that involves my wife and another guy. After she listens to what has occurred, she claims she doesn't remember anything about it, and she doesn't want to discuss it any further. It is always the same. She loves bringing up details about my supposed indiscretions, but hers are not remembered and certainly are not to be recalled or discussed. Does ant other guy out there have a similar problem?