Your thoughts please.

[squirrel516]

My fiance gets extremely embarrassed by being seen topless or nude, but it is a huge turn on for her at the same time. She hasn't done the actual "locked out in the hallway" routine yet, but she's talked about it more than once. She's done plenty of other things, but since this isn't a story board I will refrain from writing about them.

However, to try and address the original question in this thread: My fiance believes that a large majority of women have what she calls "The Playboy Magazine Fantasy." Meaning, most women wish they could pose in such a magazine, but don't for various reasons (embarrassment, poor physique, children, job, etc). But regardless of why they don't do it, they wish they could. Not for the money mind you, but so that they can be seen naked. She believes that deep down, most women enjoy being seen sexually. Her "Playboy Fantasy" analogy is not limited to magazines by any stretch. Its just what she calls it. She believes that women secretly like to be exposed in one way or another. She points to Halloween as an example. In the U.S. its the one night in the year that any girl can wear as little as they dare, yet blame it on Halloween. And in the U.S. a lot of women really do wear much less than they normally would. Younger women and teens get really into it, and often dress in very skimpy outfits. Why? Its the "Playboy Fantasy" she says. On Halloween everyone gets a pass, but instead of wearing scary things or whatever, many girls show off more skin than they ever would on any other day.

She says most girls are embarrassed by being seen, but turned on by the sexual component. She explained that being seen naked is almost like have a sexual experience with a guy(s) w/o any contact. Like an ultra safe sex of sorts. So while the embarrassment can sometimes almost be overwhelming, the sexual gratification wins out. And for many (perhaps even sharonpullman or abbycakes) the two emotions blend together and feed off one another.

Sorry for the rant...

[sharonpullman]

Hey! Don't apologise. I like rants. Here is an idea for you and your girlfriend.......
Sit down and watch a movie together that has a good ENF scene in it. This may put her in the mood and get her to actually carrying out her/your fantasy. A few movies that have great Enf scenes that she might like are:
M*A*S*H
Used Cars
Beginner's Luck (old Little Rascals short/no nudity but great stripping scene)

Would love to her how she reacts to it.