American Idol Antonella Barba BJ

[jjanda_2000]

Originally Posted by bettanger

mike230652 said:
I reckon the mods should remove her name......can't be a lot of fun when people print and produce photos of another person to try and tarnish your name....give the kid a break.......

. . . Okay what is about this that is tarnishing?

- Well, to start with . . . nah, you wouldn't understand anyway.

[Mr.Trumble]

Originally Posted by bettanger

mike230652 said:

Okay what is about this that is tarnishing? I agree that attempting to mislead us (the public) by putting the incorrect name on a set of photos is wrong, however what is about a BJ that tarnishes ones name, except in the case of political fiascos? Isn't a BJ a good thing? Does anyone imagine that Antonella Barba has never given one? Would she be less of an "idol" if someone had photographed her doing it? I certainly hope not.

Back to your regularly scheduled programming.

I agree with you. I think since the time of the Pamela Lee sex video/pics (maybe others before) being able to see anyone in the public eye exposed, especially in candid sexual situations has really become popular to the point that some people (thanks to PhotoShop) will create them to fantasize what it would be like to see (in this case Antonella Barba) suck on a stiffy.

P.S. She's probably going home from A.I. this week anyway and will soon fade into obscurity.

[bettanger]

jjanda_2000 said:
- Well, to start with . . . nah, you wouldn't understand anyway.

You are absoutely right, I cannot understand what is demeaning about it and given your (possibly humorously intended) demeaning response to me, I don't think you CAN explain it.

Look, BJs are a common sex act. Most men want one and, based on my experience, most women give them. In our culture we apparently like to imagine and/or fantasize about it rather than see it. Why this is true is not clear, except possibly for the puritanical origins of North American society. Our peers even deem the sight of a nipple unacceptable when it is on a female's breast. But naked bodies and sex are an intrinsic part of who we are, and elsewhere this is accepted. Here... I'm including a photo of an actress from New Zealand, Kerry Fox. She gives a BJ in a widely distributed film... not some porn flick. I don't think it diminished her reputation at all.

[jjanda_2000]

Originally Posted by bettanger

. . . Our peers even deem the sight of a nipple unacceptable when it is on a female's breast . . .

- My comment was not intended to demean. I meant it sincerely. And your last post proved my assessment to be correct.

In almost the same breath, you say your peers find an exposed female nipple to be unacceptable, yet you still claim that published photos of a girl giving a bj would not be unacceptable or damage her reputation.

You do your own demeaning. With self-contradiction.