Struggling with a temptation that won’t go away

[bone4annie]

I agree with that. My wife is so pretty, I hate having to hide her face

[gwm]

My wife is similar to the OP's. When we first got a digital camera she let me take a few photos in lingerie or nude, but then suddenly a hard stop. I've sneaked a few since then, but not very many (like my avatar). I posted a few online several years ago, but then deleted them a few days later. She knows I like when other men notice her, but she is also concerned about causing them to lust, so dresses modestly. Like she has these shorts she wears with her one-piece bathing suit. Once time we were going to a friend's house for a swimming party and I told her she didn't need to wear the shorts, and and she said, "You want your friends to see my butt cheeks hanging out?" Um, yeah, but I just said, "Well..." Still, it's a thrill when she mentions things like when she was shopping with my sister one time and my sister told her some guy was checking her out, or when she was out walking once and got a wolf-whistle. I have got her to go out bra-less some, but only in busy floral shirts where her nipples aren't noticeable. She has nice small b-cup breasts, but great nips.

[coupleak]

Originally Posted by bone4annie

I agree with that. My wife is so pretty, I hate having to hide her face

There are also non-nude topics on this forum.
But if you feel that is too public, I'ld be more than happy to look at them and comment on them by pm

[chuckfinly]

Originally Posted by Myreligiouswife

Way to casually just drop in that you have nudes of your dead aunts hahaha.

Yeah. Duran Duran, I feel like being patient through the process will be a killer. Like if I’m at the finish line coaxing her to come along….

LOL... I talked about them in more detail in another thread a couple years ago. I now own the family "homestead" that has been in the family for over 100 years. The original wing of the house was built by my great great grandpa in I believe 1903 or maybe he got the property in 1903 and built in 1906 but either way it has been in the family for generations. one of the aunts was my great aunt and the pictures appear to be from the mid 1940's. I cam across them in one of the outbuildings that is full of old family stuff from generations. The other aunt was my dad's sister. I was the only person in the family she still talked to at the end so I got all of her stuff. What did not go to Good Will I put in that same out building and found pictures that appeared to be from the 1980's when she was in her 20's. Several people have sent me PM's but I am not sharing them. I feel that would be a betrayal. I kind of feel wrong looking at them but I can't bring myself to get rid of them so they just sit there and will probably be found by one of my kids when they get the ranch but at that point it is on them to decide what to do with them.

This brings me back full circle to the issue of consent, trust, and betrayal as it relates to your situation. Do not do something you will later regret. There would be no repercussions if I were to post my aunts. For my ex I could potentially run into a revenge porn issue. In both cases it is a sense of honor and my own moral code of ethics that prevents me from posting. In your case, legalities aside, what happens realistically if you share pictures of your wife without her permission in terms of your relationship? Does it cost you your marriage? Is that a risk you are willing to take? If it is a risk you are willing to take, maybe this is not the right person for you and you would be better off moving on to someone more in line with your values/desires. Just remember, after you pull a trigger, there is no undoing it. I teach my kids this on many issues, literally the trigger because we have firearms on the ranch, words, and in this case things you post on the internet. An exercise I did with them on a family retreat was to have them squeeze all the toothpaste out of a tube. Then I tell them I will give them $100 if they can get it back in. They spent an hour trying to put it back in but it is impossible. I then give a talk about not being able to undo or unsay certain things.

[MrBrummell]

Originally Posted by gwm

"You want your friends to see my butt cheeks hanging out?"

Baby, I want my friends to see your boobs hanging out.

[nachumnoone]

My ex was was the same way. Very religious, very cold in many ways, even with me. I struggled with the same emotions you do. I eventually found a few trusted people I could discuss her with openly and it was an incredible experience. Feel free to message me.

[tracecreascentmoon]

Originally Posted by Myreligiouswife

I did talk to her last night about some of this. She said she wants to feel like I’m protecting her modesty and not giving her up to other men….soooo

With all due respect, regardless of what the modesty benchmarks are set by your wife, which we all here respect BTW, I would submit for you to to argue that; while religion can provide guidance and a moral compass, it's ultimately up to the individual to decide what actions to take. Having said that...; People's beliefs and values can evolve over time, and that it's healthy to question and reevaluate one's beliefs. By being open to new ideas and experiences, one can expand their perspective and potentially find new meaning and purpose in life.
With the above in mind, it is entirely possible for both your beliefs and needs can co-exist, for example if the were to be in attendance at a swimming pool in a swimming suit, the wife may not be able to control what/how the others are tempted because of he state of clothing or lack thereof.
So in closing I would say regardless of how/what you may chose to post, people will lust regardless..

[milfwatcher69]

Originally Posted by nachumnoone

My ex was was the same way. Very religious, very cold in many ways, even with me. I struggled with the same emotions you do. I eventually found a few trusted people I could discuss her with openly and it was an incredible experience. Feel free to message me.

I too have found a couple trusted people to talk openly about our wives. We share photos of our wives (no faces) and we talk about our wives in great detail...we "enjoy" them fully....it's a huge turn-on for sure. Feel free to message me too

[gwm]

Originally Posted by Myreligiouswife

I did talk to her last night about some of this. She said she wants to feel like I’m protecting her modesty and not giving her up to other men….soooo

I get this. Women like to be protected, the knight in shining armor syndrome. Your job is to make sure she feels protected. The best you can do now is to keep complimenting her and make her feel attractive and feel good about her body. That will give her confidence, and then, probably very slowly, you can inch her towards some more relaxed clothing, going bra-less with a thick shirt, yoga pants, etc. I wouldn't hold out for her to ever agree to posting nudes. What you can do is post some attractive clothed pictures of her. There is a thread somewhere here with a title like "Post your wife clothed." EDIT:https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...81#post2397081 I put some of my wife in that thread and that's as far as I'll probably ever get without feeling like I'm betraying her trust.

[MrBrummell]

Originally Posted by Myreligiouswife

I did talk to her last night about some of this. She said she wants to feel like I’m protecting her modesty and not giving her up to other men….soooo

I feel your pain on this. My ex-wife didn't object on religious grounds, she just objected. She was a natural redhead, had an amazing body and I wanted to show her so badly I couldn't stand it. She became difficult in general about absolutely everything, not just those sorts of issues, but I do very much understand how you feel.

I still have the pics, still have not exposed her.