Have you ever said no

[DJS1985]

I once had a friend who’s sister was hot for me, but I was not even remotely interested in her. She was a bit to big for my taste, and had a mouth on her like a drunken sailor on shore leave. One time she flat out ask me if I wanted to fuck, I told her something that really pist off…. NO !!!!

[DJS1985]

Originally Posted by SyFoster

This one goes way back, to the early days of AOL and chat rooms.

I had a similar incident, but in my case I flat out told her I wasn’t interested. I also had a incident with a friends gross sister that had the hots for me, but I already posted about that.

[andyt29]

Only time that comes to mind had nothing to do with how the woman looked, but it was because she was dating a friend.

College, he was away for the weekend but she was still over at the apartment drinking with a bunch of people. Nothing unusual about that. It got uncomfortable (let's say) at the end of the night when I had gone to quite likely pass out in my room. I was startled awake and it was her on top of me kissing me. I was startled, and extremely drunk so not overly comfortable to begin with, but was surprised to find a tongue in my mouth. I had enough faculties to know who she was and that she was dating my friend so pushed her off and stammered out my objections.

She kept going. "He won't care", "He's not here", "it's ok". She gave it another go but this time was pulling down my pants and started going down on me. For some reason I just didn't and couldn't let it happen so again had to tell her to stop. She gave it a few more tries, and again I still had to stop her.

She finally gave up, I'm thinking between my objections and the likelihood that I wasn't getting hard due to my drunken state.

Over the years, i flip flop on whether I should have let her continue or not.

[Peek]

I was just stationed in Alaska and one of the Sergeants over me was a divorced slim hard-bodied redhead. She was always making 'suggestions' when we were alone and openly flirted with me in my home in front of my wife. Part of her history was when partying in a club in Korea, she was with 9 guys, she then went in a backroom and sucked/fucked 8 of them, the 9th guy pissed off, filmed her actions (no I don't have the pics) but her husband got them, and divorced her. On more than one occasion I told her NO, one of the other guys in my shop did fuck her and she was always trying to make his life miserable. I think I made the right choice.
A side note about AK is that the married women were always looking for married men to a degree I never saw before. My wifes co-worked routinely propositioned me until I just started talking filthy to her and she just stopped, I think the wife sorta knew and we never said anything, but she was pleased.

[Obironic]

There was a girl I worked with, nice personality, little on the chunky side, but a lot of her weight went to her tits.
Anyway, one evening after work, we were all together having a few drinks and she mentioned that she had lost her phone at the weekend and using the 'wheres my phone' feature, tracked it down to a rather dodgy part of the city.

We all told her she was mad knocking on some random dudes door on her own, but her reply was 'I had to get it back, it had all my nudes on there'.
Obviously, this piqued my curiosity.

Cut to a month or two later, and I was leaving the company and had a few people out for leaving drinks.
The girl in question had had a few and wanted to keep partying, so, I headed back to her place for a few more drinks. Was flirting a bit with her and brought the convo around to if she still had her nudes on her phone. When she nodded, I told her to send me one of them.

I was expecting more resistance, but she did. I took advantage of her willingness and told her to take her clothes off and I would take some more of her with her phone.
She did and I snapped some gratuitous ones.

Somehow, managed to convince her that a pic with my cock in her mouth would look really good, and she complied.
Then she started really going to town on my cock, ramming it down her throat until she gagged, then recovering and doing it again. Her make up was smeared from her eyes watering and yet she kept on smacking my balls with her chin.
After a while, she rolled on to her back and started playing with a dildo whilst talking dirty to me, about how she'd like to lick my wife's asshole whilst I fucked her from behind, then if we wanted we could both piss on her.
Then she started telling me about some of the shit she had let other guys do to her. Some pretty nasty stuff.

She then grabbed my cock to guide it in to her and I told her I didnt have a condom. She said she didnt care and that's when I made the call that I wasnt going to fuck her.
She looked hurt and asked why, and I guess with all the alcohol in me, decided to be honest and told her I didnt know where she'd been, or rather, I had a pretty good idea where she had.

Eventually she settled for taking a load to the face, which she took like a champ

She cleaned up and I told her I was going to transfer the pics I'd taken to my phone.
She came back in and fell asleep. I got dressed and left.

Next day, she texted to say her only regret was letting me have the pics. So, like a gentleman, I told her I'd delete them, though in hindsight, the way she had phrased it, I think she wanted me to 'blackmail' her not to share them.

Ah well.

[Gee_Star]

Originally Posted by Obironic

There was a girl I worked with, nice personality, little on the chunky side, but a lot of her weight went to her tits.
Anyway, one evening after work, we were all together having a few drinks and she mentioned that she had lost her phone at the weekend and using the 'wheres my phone' feature, tracked it down to a rather dodgy part of the city.

We all told her she was mad knocking on some random dudes door on her own, but her reply was 'I had to get it back, it had all my nudes on there'.
Obviously, this piqued my curiosity.

Cut to a month or two later, and I was leaving the company and had a few people out for leaving drinks.
The girl in question had had a few and wanted to keep partying, so, I headed back to her place for a few more drinks. Was flirting a bit with her and brought the convo around to if she still had her nudes on her phone. When she nodded, I told her to send me one of them.

I was expecting more resistance, but she did. I took advantage of her willingness and told her to take her clothes off and I would take some more of her with her phone.
She did and I snapped some gratuitous ones.

Somehow, managed to convince her that a pic with my cock in her mouth would look really good, and she complied.
Then she started really going to town on my cock, ramming it down her throat until she gagged, then recovering and doing it again. Her make up was smeared from her eyes watering and yet she kept on smacking my balls with her chin.
After a while, she rolled on to her back and started playing with a dildo whilst talking dirty to me, about how she'd like to lick my wife's asshole whilst I fucked her from behind, then if we wanted we could both piss on her.
Then she started telling me about some of the shit she had let other guys do to her. Some pretty nasty stuff.

She then grabbed my cock to guide it in to her and I told her I didnt have a condom. She said she didnt care and that's when I made the call that I wasnt going to fuck her.
She looked hurt and asked why, and I guess with all the alcohol in me, decided to be honest and told her I didnt know where she'd been, or rather, I had a pretty good idea where she had.

Eventually she settled for taking a load to the face, which she took like a champ

She cleaned up and I told her I was going to transfer the pics I'd taken to my phone.
She came back in and fell asleep. I got dressed and left.

Next day, she texted to say her only regret was letting me have the pics. So, like a gentleman, I told her I'd delete them, though in hindsight, the way she had phrased it, I think she wanted me to 'blackmail' her not to share them.

Ah well.

I had a similar situation, in which I had no condom and was faced with the choice of having sex with a risky woman or not and I (foolishly) decided to fuck her. After some urging a gay friend convinced to be get tested and while I came back clean it was nerve-racking and I decided to keep a ho-bag on me at all times, lol.

But you played it smart.

[Massguy70]

I can only remember a few times that I've said no. One was a girl I was dating when I was 24. It was someone I worked with. I believe she was 19 at the time. We went out a few times. Things got pretty hot one night and she really wanted the D. She was nice enough but not someone I wanted a long term thing with. That wouldn't have mattered if she wasn't a virgin. But seeing that she was, I didn't want to be that guy so I said no and told her why.

Another was someone I knew for a number of years. It was the ex wife of a guy I know but I'm not close friends with him. She's a nice person but not someone I'm physically attracted to. Kind of a big boned/big woman. She'd hit on me once in awhile and I'd kind of laugh it off. One night she went for it and kissed me while we were standing outside a club. It was a quick kiss that I joked about so she didn't feel bad.

There has been an occasional women that I'd do and not even tell my best friend about. But they had some qualities that I really liked (probably very large breasts).

There is one woman I dated that generally wouldn't be my type (met on POF). But she was fun, outgoing and great to talk to. And she looked nice when she got dressed up. It was when she wasn't dressed up and didn't have make-up on that is the problem. I know I don't look like good 'ol Brad Pitt when he was 25 but I don't have trouble getting women and I know what I like. So she'd have a good night, fuck like rabbits after we got home, I'd fall asleep and she'd take her make up off. Then I'd look at her in the morning and think "I'm not coming back again". Then the next weekend she's say "I have tickets for us to goto _____". And I was like, Okay. we'll go". I eventually ended that. Just faded away.

[Irish drunkard]

The only times I’ve said no was when I sensed behavioral red flags; clinginess, Fatal Attraction-type crazy, a little too much emotional investment after too little time. The type of stuff that makes you say to yourself, ‘yeah, this might be more trouble than it’s worth’.

[winston optic beer]

Yes, it has happened to me. God knows why. I'm no adonis.

Decades ago, the wife of an old university friend stayed overnight with my girfriend and me. She was in the area for a conference. The next day, my girlfriend got up early to go to work, but I had a day off. I was expecting the lady would be wanting to get away to see her family, but she didn't get her bus until the afternoon. At one point she dropped a massive hint by telling that she loved having sex. I enjoyed her company, but there was no way I'd have betrayed my girlfriend or my friend. Also she had kids and I didn't want to risk being responsible for breaking up her family. When I told my girlfriend about my day, she thought it was funny that I'd passed on the opportunity. So no brownie points for loyalty from her.

Years later at my annual works dinner, a woman who I was talking to over the table said "Would you like to fuck me?" She was obviously only interested in me because I was the boss. I didn't find that in the least appealing.

More recently, a friend's wife propositioned me on a night out. When no one except me could hear, she the most ridiculous words that I've ever heard "I want you to make mad passionate love to me." Trying not to offend her, I said that she didn't really mean it. She that I should call at her house during the day when husband was at work. This would be on her birthday so I could use dropping off a card as an excuse to my wife. I said that it wasn't going to happen.