Your 1st reaction at staying at some Adult Resort?

[1michael]

I think that was my major worry about going to any of these Adult places and being NUDE, getting a full erection and being embarrassed in front of my Wife / family / strangers and all the workers there that wore clothing too!
But taking the advise from my wife's female cousin that's been there a few times now, she said the times have changed and unless your a Newbe there on vacation nobody else is going to pay any mine to it~
We even had a few of the workers hear part of our conversations about it and they said it is now thought of as "Spontaneous Erection's" and that could be brought up by anything, but they come and go fast too!
The only thing that I knew was mine was from seeing all the thrilling women Nude & Exposed lol.
I was thinking the workers that see the Best of Everything, cause they get to wear clothing and get to see & enjoy the Guest all nude and many of the employee's use the Beach too!
Besides seeing my wife exposed, I got to see her Busty cousin and enjoy being able to see many guys doing a double take on the wife's and trying to put a hit on them too!
Besides getting me excited the cousin's hubby got thrilled with me from watching at a short distant away from our wife's! It was part of a plan to see who would get picked up and having the thrill from watching.
There were still many female workers that I would have loved to seen exposed, but they were willing to pose with us for pics and were always pleasant and smiling!
The more trips you make to these places, the Better they get and you learn more each time!

[Shihoin]

There are differences between AANR-style resorts, adult/couples' venues and swingers' venues. The adult/couples' is somewhere between AANR and swingers, in varying degrees depending on where you go.

My wife and I go to both an AANR and adult/couples' venue. The AANR resort has more amenities and people; but it also has more "rules." So you have to kinda "watch yourself" and "keep it PG." It's not an issue for us; we just go along with the "rules."

It was actually my wife's idea to try a smaller adult/couples' venue. She wanted to try something "different." And it was definitely "different."
The only two rules were: "no open sexual activity" and "don't be a nuisance." I found out on the second day that they're weren't any rules about erections; as we met and actually hung out with one dude with his GF (I've mentioned him in another post) who was quite a bit erect. My wife (and the other couples) did not take exception to it at all (he would have definitely gotten thrown out of an AANR resort). I personally don't walk around with an erection; but it's good to know that I don't have to hide my morning wood there, should it occur.

Surprisingly, my wife actually embraced the situation. Once she realized that she didn't have to worry about "posture etiquette" there, she loosened up and got comfortable lounging around with her legs open - as did some of the other women. Cookies were on "full display" that week end; which is something that wouldn't go over very well at our "other resort."

My wife enjoyed herself there so much that we go there regularly now. We're not swingers, but we do enjoy the freedom of being able to be totally open around other people. But the "adult" venue is definitely not for everyone.

[driftwood3791]

Thanks for posting that comparison, Shihoin. That clarifies things splendidly for me. Much appreciated!

[1michael]

After going to at least one place and finally getting use to it, we found it more relaxing to continue coming back to the same place just in case like it was noted above - some places have different Rules to follow!
But with women in mind, going to these clothing optional Beaches still has their challenges!
At least for my wife and her female cousin as well, do they go just Topless at the start or start off all natural and see what will happen?
I'm sure my wife is like many other women, trying the latest trends and fashions out and that even comes down to Beachwear too! My wife had the normal but kind of thin Bikini for starts, then she bought some that were only Strings or Thongs! She found a place for what is called a C-clamp and got a few of them too. I found them to be just a wade of material that is on a spring loaded system that covers her crotch from the front to the rear with a bit more material in the front and rear. The only thing is she gave them a try at a pool party we had and added on a Bikini top from another suit so as not to Shock the guest as much! lol
The only thing is after she took a dive into the water, she came up minus the C-clamp bottom! So we ended up having a hunt in the pool for it and the Happy finder got to watch her put it back on! lol
Now today, my wife just came back with a newer version of that suit called a C-string! She had to buy at least 2 of these because the price isn't much cause there isn't much of a suit. It still is spring loaded with more material to cover the front even with her mid size trim landing strip showing a bit over the top now!
But the rear of the suit only looks like a thick straw, that goes right deeper in between those buns and holds this suit in place great now! My wife made all kinds of fancy or playful moves and the suit stayed on, but time will tell when the pool is open or we're on vacation again? lol
I was really excited when she showed me pics of other suits that made my mind go naughty, it was like having everything exposed with those lower lips in view as well as the nipples too!
Maybe we'll go back for them too, I hope so!
Keep your info coming in and its great having more knowledge on these place!

[PalmsMan]

Several years back my wife and I were in the big jacuzzi at Rios in north London. Having popped a sildenafil earlier, and being surrounded by naked couples, my other half had no difficulty bringing me to a full erection under the water.

When we stood up to leave, I was more than happy for others to see my hard cock. But my wife was very insistent on walking close in front of me to limit other's view.

Earlier one woman had asked us not to have sex in the jacuzzi, although couples often did. I would have been quite happy for that miserable kill joy to have seen my cock, but my other half wasn't.

[anonjohn]

Originally Posted by PalmsMan

Earlier one woman had asked us not to have sex in the jacuzzi, although couples often did.

Other guys' semen leakage? well mixed and swirling around the tub? all over your body? getting into your mouth?
Even tiny amounts leaking, allowing for dilution and filtering, would make me feel "contaminated".
Or am I being wierd?

[PalmsMan]

Originally Posted by anonjohn

Other guys' semen leakage? well mixed and swirling around the tub? all over your body? getting into your mouth?
Even tiny amounts leaking, allowing for dilution and filtering, would make me feel "contaminated".
Or am I being wierd?

The water is constantly being filtered. And there is so much chlorine you wouldn't want the water in your mouth. Anyway there are plenty of showers for cleaning off afterwards.

It's worth it to enjoy your spouse riding your cock while another couple is doing the same right next to you.

[rudolfm]

Ask somebody who works in a swimming pool how much urine and menstrual blood are normally in the water. You will stop worrying about sperms, but you might never enter a pool again.

[GRITS]

Actually very boring... too many posers, and egos, and novices....... after 20minutes you don't really notice anyone any naked....

The we won't bother with it again... nude beaches are the same..... assholes and posers.........

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by GRITS

Actually very boring... too many posers, and egos, and novices....... after 20minutes you don't really notice anyone any naked....

The we won't bother with it again... nude beaches are the same..... assholes and posers.........

Hmmm...regular nudist venues too tame for you?
Or maybe you're just not meeting the right people?