Spa Experience

[johnhenry@dr.com]

Originally Posted by naked.guy74

I certainly don’t see any harm in the old man taking a look at your wife and getting “excited”. He didn’t harm her or give her any unwanted advances, just had a look. You also got to watch as another man appreciate your wife’s beauty. I believe I would do the same thing.

Thanks for validating what I did. And you're right, no harm done whatsoever, and the images I have in my head is priceless. I would love to set up similar situations where she's topless or nude and being observed in a "byproduct" sort of a way - where she isn't the focus of the attention (or doesn't know she is) and I get to watch another man check her out. Unfortunately, I think situations like that have to just happen and I just have to be ready for it. And have a camera ready!

[Mogli1960]

Originally Posted by johnhenry@dr.com

Thanks for validating what I did. And you're right, no harm done whatsoever, and the images I have in my head is priceless. I would love to set up similar situations where she's topless or nude and being observed in a "byproduct" sort of a way - where she isn't the focus of the attention (or doesn't know she is) and I get to watch another man check her out. Unfortunately, I think situations like that have to just happen and I just have to be ready for it. And have a camera ready!

...to have a camera "ready" to capture the moment would be perfect. We ran into several situations as you described. As a younger guy I was often a kind of jealous to see other guys starring at my then topless or naked gf. Over the time I noticed that I started to enjoy her being seen or even photographed by other men. We have tried several times to arrive at different times at the beach or the sauna and pretend not to know each other that I have the chance to see if other guys are looking at her. I find it arousing, especially when she is there first, and text me about guys around her.

[driftwood3791]

Originally Posted by johnhenry@dr.com

Speaking of guys hanging around in one place, I got a photo of a guy hanging around near where my wife was kneeling down and collecting interesting rocks at a local beach...
I'm including a photo of the gent and showing only a profile of his face not because I was upset that you took photos, but that if you are reading this post, can you please not post them anywhere public, and PM me so I can get a copy of the photos you took?

I suppose you could have walked up and asked the man to text you photos he took. Perhaps explaining point-blank you don't mind him taking pix of your wife as long as he sends them to you. Hmmm.... seeing my suggestion in print still sounds rather too brash.

[Mogli1960]

We had a similar situation where a guy took photos as I was taking photos while we strolled through the dunes. I was speechless as he started and my then gf took it as " if he does not speak up, he agrees to it" and started posing also for him. I am still angry that I did not ask him to forward/share the photos with us.

[johnhenry@dr.com]

Originally Posted by Mogli1960

...As a younger guy I was often a kind of jealous to see other guys starring at my then topless or naked gf. Over the time I noticed that I started to enjoy her being seen or even photographed by other men. We have tried several times to arrive at different times at the beach or the sauna and pretend not to know each other that I have the chance to see if other guys are looking at her. I find it arousing, especially when she is there first, and text me about guys around her.

You bring up a very interesting point...as much as I enjoy watching other men look and stare at my wife, it's a fairly new thing for me and on multiple occasions on a recent vacation, on a topless beach for example, I would see a guy staring at her as we're walking on the beach, and you would think I'd welcome the attention and guide our walk closer to him so he can have a closer look but no, I would do the opposite and move us away from him, or one time, I actually turned us around as he was approaching us and we had no "escape" route. Jealousy or protectiveness kicking in perhaps.

Afterwards I kick myself wondering why I ruined another perfect opportunity!

I wish I could get to the same level as you where your partner actually participates and helps you out with your game! I'm curious, how did you introduce the topic to her? Or did she picked up what you were doing, and she just started helping to create the scenarios? My wife is shy so I'm always looking for ideas of how to introduce it to her...

[Mogli1960]

Originally Posted by johnhenry@dr.com

You bring up a very interesting point...as much as I enjoy watching other men look and stare at my wife, it's a fairly new thing for me and on multiple occasions on a recent vacation, on a topless beach for example, I would see a guy staring at her as we're walking on the beach, and you would think I'd welcome the attention and guide our walk closer to him so he can have a closer look but no, I would do the opposite and move us away from him, or one time, I actually turned us around as he was approaching us and we had no "escape" route. Jealousy or protectiveness kicking in perhaps.

Afterwards I kick myself wondering why I ruined another perfect opportunity!

I wish I could get to the same level as you where your partner actually participates and helps you out with your game! I'm curious, how did you introduce the topic to her? Or did she picked up what you were doing, and she just started helping to create the scenarios? My wife is shy so I'm always looking for ideas of how to introduce it to her...

I think it started almost at the same time that I started to enjoy that other guys starring/looking at her and she enjoyed the attention. At one point we talked about the whole topic and as she found out that I enjoy it, her “reservations” disappeared. It is now a kind of agreement that she is looking for opportunities to show off and I am looking for exposure s of her. We do it in a soft way and therefore we both have fun. A simple example is when she is shopping lingerie or bikinis. She will say inside the dressing cabin that it might be too sheer or too sexy and I would answer that she should come out and show me. She steps out and every otherguy would take a look. It looks absolutely innocent.
Same for our public pool - she showers close to the door and everytime somebody enters or leaves, she is on full display. There are always men waiting for their wives close to the door and have a good look.The more she is doing stuff like this, the more she gets uswd to it and enjoys it. Especially for a shy wife this is the way for her to test it - it looks innocent, she can always stop it and she decides how much and how ling to be exposed. Believe me, no “watcher” will complain on the spot😊A few guys might be in trouble later on for warching, but I think they do not regret it.

[johnhenry@dr.com]

Originally Posted by Mogli1960

I think it started almost at the same time that I started to enjoy that other guys starring/looking at her and she enjoyed the attention. At one point we talked about the whole topic and as she found out that I enjoy it, her “reservations” disappeared. It is now a kind of agreement that she is looking for opportunities to show off and I am looking for exposure s of her. We do it in a soft way and therefore we both have fun. A simple example is when she is shopping lingerie or bikinis. She will say inside the dressing cabin that it might be too sheer or too sexy and I would answer that she should come out and show me. She steps out and every otherguy would take a look. It looks absolutely innocent.
Same for our public pool - she showers close to the door and everytime somebody enters or leaves, she is on full display. There are always men waiting for their wives close to the door and have a good look.The more she is doing stuff like this, the more she gets uswd to it and enjoys it. Especially for a shy wife this is the way for her to test it - it looks innocent, she can always stop it and she decides how much and how ling to be exposed. Believe me, no “watcher” will complain on the spot😊A few guys might be in trouble later on for warching, but I think they do not regret it.

Thanks for that Mogli1960, good tips. You are indeed lucky to have a cooperative wife. My wife is shy and doesn't know that I enjoy showing her off yet. Other than topless and nude beaches and spas (as I talked about here), she has been topless during long drives as she doesn't think anyone else can see. I like to think they can! I learned that on another tread on OCC.

Oh not true, I also enjoyed watching her disrobe and being examined by a male doctor! I almost forgot about that one...I think I wrote about that in another OCC entry. If I can manufacture doctor visits, I would be a happy man! Alas, she's very healthy.

So far my favorite is the topless beaches scene since it's the only venue that people don't bat an eye if I take photos. She's open to anything as long as she thinks it's just for my benefit and no one else notices. If you think of any other venues from your experience I should try, please let me know!

[Mogli1960]

Originally Posted by johnhenry@dr.com

Thanks for that Mogli1960, good tips. You are indeed lucky to have a cooperative wife. My wife is shy and doesn't know that I enjoy showing her off yet. Other than topless and nude beaches and spas (as I talked about here), she has been topless during long drives as she doesn't think anyone else can see. I like to think they can! I learned that on another tread on OCC.

Oh not true, I also enjoyed watching her disrobe and being examined by a male doctor! I almost forgot about that one...I think I wrote about that in another OCC entry. If I can manufacture doctor visits, I would be a happy man! Alas, she's very healthy.

So far my favorite is the topless beaches scene since it's the only venue that people don't bat an eye if I take photos. She's open to anything as long as she thinks it's just for my benefit and no one else notices. If you think of any other venues from your experience I should try, please let me know!

What about the classic "change room curtain a little bit open" ? She can decide how wide it is open. Another one would be lingerie shopping - there are always other husbands waiting. Make her come out of the cabin and show herself - she can decide which lingerie she is wearing and how long she will be on display.

[johnhenry@dr.com]

Originally Posted by Mogli1960

What about the classic "change room curtain a little bit open" ? She can decide how wide it is open. Another one would be lingerie shopping - there are always other husbands waiting. Make her come out of the cabin and show herself - she can decide which lingerie she is wearing and how long she will be on display.

Hey Mogli1960, I kept what you said in mind above for the last month, and finally last weekend, opportunity strikes!

We were in a small independent store to buy a Christmas party dress. At one point, she was in the change room (it was just a small corner of the room with a curtain for privacy) trying on a dress. Being the helpful husband, I was looking for other dresses for her to try while she was changing. Success, I found several. Without announcing myself, I opened up the curtain a bit to hand her the new dresses. No one else was in the store except for the one salesperson and he was in the stockroom at the time so all good. Once I gave her the dresses, I did not close the curtain tight again. It was open about an inch so if someone was walking by, they can definitely see in. Sure enough, the salesperson came out of the stockroom, walked right by the change area and definitely got an eyeful. To take advantage, he stopped and started fussing with the racks near the change room, with a perfect view of my wife changing in and out of her dresses. He was there watching her for about 10 minutes. I was just walking around the store looking at other dresses so he didn't think I noticed. Many of the dresses are strapless so she had to take her bra off to try them on so he definitely got to see her nude with just her little panties to cover her modesty. In hindsight, I wish I took a few photos of him watching her. I never remember until it's too late

Anyhow, thought I'd share that with you since it was you who gave me the idea...

[driftwood3791]

Thanks John Henry, for posting that! That's clever thinking, leaving the curtain open... no worries about forgetting the cam. That's always something to aim for next time. You were able to experience something erotic most of us sorry-lot-of-hopefuls might never see. Well done!