[Request] How did you convince a woman to be an exhibitionist?

[postmanuk]

How did you convince a woman to be an exhibitionist? alcohol

[crisnicht]

In my case, i had been asking the wife for many many years to do more daring things without success.

She surprised me 2 or 3 times (in 15 years) when there was a lot of alcohol involved and she would just act sexier or comply to a dare to walk to the mailbox naked and come back at like 3am.

Other than that, she is always a straight NO, and her mind is always too busy to even think about it.

After many years I took hints of what would make her want to do it.
- safe place
- no gawkers
- Not sexual
- She's not the only one showing
- somewhere where nobody knows her.
- She's not the hottest surrounded by grandmas and she's not the ugliest either.

I thought about it and then it hit me.... She's a runner. Let's do a nude 5k race in a nudist resort.

I gave her a blog with a report from a 30-something old girl, and presented it as something for the bucket list. My wife read it and said "sounds fun, we could do it"

So a few months later I enrolled ourselves in the race.
Then a few days before the race I told her and she freaked out, closed her eyes and said "let's do it".

We got there, checked-in in clothes and there were already several naked girls. So we went back to the car and got naked.
As we walked back to the starting area there were lots of people and nobody was looking at my wife. The focus was the race. So she felt safe.

She felt so comfortable that she ran faster than me and forgot that she was naked.

The feeling of seeing my wife naked infront of so many guys was strange but very exciting.

She liked it, but said that only like 20% were women.
She is not interested in doing it again unless there are more women.

I asked her if she would do it again if she came with some girl friends (one of them liked the idea) . She said "if you find one that wants to do it and she begs me enough, then i would."

[Freda_1962]

I was one before we started dating...

[MrBrummell]

Originally Posted by postmanuk

How did you convince a woman to be an exhibitionist? alcohol

On a boat if you don't want to take any chances.

[BaconBot]

Originally Posted by crisnicht

I gave her a blog with a report from a 30-something old girl, and presented it as something for the bucket list. My wife read it and said "sounds fun, we could do it"

Do you still have the link to the blog?

[crisnicht]

Originally Posted by BaconBot

Do you still have the link to the blog?

https://www.womensrunning.com/traini...-bare-dare-5k/

http://mealsandmiles.com/2012/05/20/streak-the-cove-5k

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by crisnicht

We got there, checked-in in clothes and there were already several naked girls. So we went back to the car and got naked.
As we walked back to the starting area there were lots of people and nobody was looking at my wife. The focus was the race. So she felt safe.

This illustrates the point I've often made about the nudist resort.

When my wife first agreed to accompany me, she went with no real intention of "walking around naked in front of strangers." So we stayed in the "clothing-optional zone" where she could keep her cover-up on.
It didn't take long before she started noticing all the other women who were going about completely naked and seemingly comfortable with it (ratio was about 50/50). And she realized the same thing: it was a

- safe place
- no gawkers
- Not sexual
- She's not the only one showing
- somewhere where nobody knows her.
- She's not the hottest surrounded by grandmas and she's not the ugliest either.

And so she got the notion that if she was naked in the pool area she would just "blend in." So all I had to do was give her a little encouraging "nudge", and we headed for the pool area.
Once we were in there - where everyone was naked - and some women tanning with legs open, she got progressively less self-conscious. When we got out of the hot-tub, and she wrapped herself in a towel, we went to sit by the pool next to another couple. When the woman greeted us, my wife immediately dropped her towel and greeted her back, showing herself naked as the woman was. I guess the woman being comfortable interacting completely naked with us gave my wife the motivation to be naked in front of them too. And the rest, as they say, is history. As long as she sees other naked women at the resort, my wife will now undress right away and stay naked the entire time around everyone

The nudist resort. Give it a shot.

[whatnow3]

I didn’t so much convince my wife, I basically just asked, telling her it would be a huge turn on. I would label Lisa a closet exhibitionist. It definitely turns her on but it was never something she would have pursued on her own. So me asking her to show off a little “gave” her permission. But even saying that, her idea of exhibitionism is mostly about giving me peaks and teases in semi public situations. The idea of getting caught is her turn on, not so much actually getting caught. LOL

[rsghbb]

I have always been a congenital exhibitionist, but I have a very prude and religious family. I have always been topless or nude on the beach, here in Spain, even infront of my family, but I have always been the only one showing her intimacy.

When I was 25, I was going to a Bon Jovi concert with my boyfriend. I knew that my 18 years old cousin was eager to go to the concert, too, but she had not achieved to buy any ticket online (it was really tricky...). I had been more lucky, and eventually had bought 2 of them.

My boyfriend was not really a Bon Jovi fan, so.we thought that we could give the ticket to my cousin and go together. However, it was not going to be a freebie...

We used to go to go to the beach together, and despite I was alwas topless she had never been brave enough to take her top off. She had never done it. She was like a nun.

We arrived to the beach and I just put her up to it...

- I have a Bon Jovi ticket for you
- What???!!!
- But only if you stay the whole day as nude as I am...
- No way...
- I am your older cousin, and I know what's good for you. You have an outstanding body, but you don't have the confidence to flsunt it. You have 18 years old, for God's sake!! I don't even know if you're still a virgin!! Take off your top right now, and maybe I give you that ticket.
- Oh, no. I have never been nude infront of other people...
- Nobody knows you here... I am topless, you can do it, too.

She needed more 5 minutes to gather enough strengh, but she take it much in her stride.

We spent the whole day topless, and the beach was rammed. There were not many topless girls, and we stood out a lot. We went swimming, took a long stroll all along the shore, took several showers, and eventually we hung out with a group of boys of her age. She did relish the attention!!

Next day, after the concert, she took off her top as soon as we arrived, despite my boyfriend was with us. Surprisingly, she even went stark naked after some minutes (it was a little secluded beach).

Now she is as exhibitionist as I am; she takes after me, her older cousin...

[piecenick]

I never had to convince my wife to be an exhibitionist, sometimes I had to get her to tone it down. The first time we played strip poker with another couple, she was a bit shy, but once all the clothes came off she liked showing off, a lot. From then on she was the 1st to suggest some stripping game or skinny dipping. She even shaved her bush when no other women did that unless they had a baby, but to show off. This is not a part time stripper, this is a schoolteacher, church lady.