What is More Embarassing: Nude Pic or BJ Pic

[laura_bi]

Well, I would HAVE to say the naked one. Let's face it.. EITHER one is bad for your friends to see... The thing about it for me is that pretty much all women at some time or another will give a bj.. honestly, I never understood men's fascination of seeing pictures of this. Anyone, please help me out on that.

To see the naked form though, that is SO much more personal. I mean, who doesn't have a mouth? Who hasn't seen the mout of a coworker? A friend's wife, ect? Sure, you don't see any "male members" in there usually, but that is all that is missing. Now, how many people seen your coworkers nude? See what I mean?

I have been an accidental victim of the whole "nude pic" thing. LOONG story, not for this thread, ect. All I will tell you is that it is quite mortifying.

Laura

[Roxanne]

I would prefer not to be photographed either way, but I'd be much more embarrassed to be imortalized with an image of me sucking on a penis than I would be by an image of me naked.

Roxanne

Originally Posted by harrymooore88

I feel most women are more embarrassed to be seen naked than they are to be seen sucking a dick.

[Mellow34]

Alot of good points here, being a male, I would be very impressed with my mate if she was nice enough to give me any picture erotic. But knowing this, she also knows going into this that she has now left herself open to others seeing it. Not that I would go around like chester the molester and show everyone the pic or pics, but things do get seen by others when they are well hidden. I have caught many babysitters riffling through my stuff just to see what we have. What it comes down to is if you dont want to be seen by others, then hide under a rock. I am not one for showing my wifes pics to anyone no matter what the reason is UNLESS she wants others to see them. Then again, being Australian is a bit different then being American as sex or the nakkid body is looked upon differently.

Being an american living in Aussieland, I can say that when I lived in NY, I gave up my rights to not having my picture being taken. You cant walk down the street anymore without 40 video camera's taking your picture. Big brother is watching you walk, talk, even taking a bloody piss. Does this make it right? Not in my book. Then again, I am also someone who will go on Paltalk and turn my vid on and show my face and chat with women teasing the shit out of everyone in the room. Again, I also know I give up some of my dignity if someone wants to capture my face and place it on some board in Russia. If someone thinks that I am so good looking that they need to have my picture, then good on them. God only knows that my picture is in the files of every casino, airport and licencing hall. Not that I am a bad person, just the opposite, but to think that every one of us doesnt have some kind of picture somewhere would just be bad judgement on your part.

Plus, we are all here looking at what others have done. I would tend to bet that 80% of the people that post pictures here (if original owners of the pics) didnt even tell the other person in the pictures that they are being posted on blogs. Men and women alike come here to perv on what others do. Arent we just causing this to keep going as supply will never meet demand? If there was no demand, would anyone give a rats butt? Would there be blogs and girlie mags and porn movies? One of the hottest girls now is Paris Hilton and everyone calls her a sl*t, but is she really? Seems to me is has done nothing different then MILLIONS of other people, but she has this CELEB status and well, now this makes her a sl*t.

If any woman who reads this post decided to post pictures of themselves here, I would resepect you as much as if you decided NOT to send pics. Its your life, you should do what you feel you want to do without someone like me looking at you as anything other then yourself.

Cheers

[Sheb]

Lot of good points.

Damnit... I guess I won't ever post "the ex" pics to the internet. I had thought if I pose the question and then get a lot of supportive responses that would.... cleanse my conscience... I could post them and others guilt free....
but not working out that way. It's a question I've been pondering for a long time now, but these forums are the first place I ever bothered to ask. Thanks to the people that responded in regards to the question I asked.

[abobql]

Originally Posted by Roxanne

There is no such thing as a private photo between spouses or lovers.

I've got a few nude photos of my other half and no one else will ever see them. Well, perhaps if she wanted them to.

Originally Posted by SocialCapital

A big part of the turn-on for me as a viewer of ex-gf photos, is the humiliation factor. Same reason I like ENF.

I like ENF, but I also like photos where she is obviously enjoying the attention. I think its more about getting some, any, sort of emotional response from her, rather than another pic of a bored model. And those pics are usually of real women too, rather than some "ideal" that I don't find attractive.

Originally Posted by laura_bi

I have been an accidental victim of the whole "nude pic" thing. LOONG story, not for this thread, ect.

Please tell. We'd love to hear it.

Originally Posted by Sheb

I had thought if I pose the question and then get a lot of supportive responses that would.... cleanse my conscience... I could post them and others guilt free.... but not working out that way.

I'd like to tell you something to change your mind because I'd like to see those pics, but I'd be lying.

[abobql]

PS: I'm not a woman so can't really answer this, and I think it'd vary from person to person anyway. I will say though that they're embarrassing in different ways. A BJ is a sex act, and posing nude kind of is too, but voyeur pics aren't and the subject is more likely to get sympathy than ridicule if they're circulated

[alphaboo]

To Laura Bi:

I really don't get it. I am not really interested in seeing such pictures. Also I never know any woman who didn't enjoy giving or receiving oral sex. Maybe men who are very interested in this type of material aren't very experienced yet. Maybe it is still a little taboo.

I think it's context. I do think it would be more embarrassing if granny found a photo of you giving oral sex than if she found a nude but I think that in a peer group the nude pictures are really more intimate and revealing.

To the group:

Now what about nude and giving oral sex?

What about photos of getting oral sex?

P.S.

AS to the Pamela Adderson comment, some of us don't find her attractive and those things on her chest have very little realtionship to real breasts. The make her look like a freak of nature. They are perfectly round, don't move and look like they are about to burst. Not very sexy at all.

[Jessica Savage]

By far, being seen in the nude is worse. If guys you know see pics of you give a blow job, big deal. It's just your face and they already know what that looks like. Also, since they like getting BJs, there's nothing humiliating about the fact they know you're giving one, except if maybe it's video and you're being "b*tch-dogged" by your bf. (H'e grabbing you by the hair and "making" you do it, or shoots off all over you in a way you feel used bcause it turns you on.

But standing there butt naked. OMG! The worst. Then they guy seeing the pic knows it all. Very the worst!

Jes

[alphaboo]

Actually I would think it would be really embarassing if no one wanted to save your nude photo.

If everyone was downloading your naked picture and saving it to their systems so they can look at over and over that might balance out the original embarasment knowing that all these guys and gals think your hot.

But if no one was interested in your nude photo that would be embarassing and painful.

Ouch!

[natasha]

bj pic would be waaaaaaayyyyyyy worse