How open is your wife about her past?

[raysallx]

The first story my wife told me also involved a photographer. She was still involved with him when we met. She was walking along a bay one day and he started talking with her. He was a photographer and somehow convinced her to pose nude outdoors for him on the sand dunes. She had recently lost a lot of weight and probably was proud of her new look. They also spent a lot of time on nude beaches. She even let him take underwater "art" photos. I’m sure he took some indoor shots too. They would do a shoot, then go back to his place, smoke pot (which makes her very horny) and have sex. This happened a number of times. There was only one problem, the poor guy had a smallish cock, and my wife prefers larger ones. In fact, she even cheated on him with her previous boyfriend who lived in another city and with whom she had broken up with earlier. I almost felt sorry for the photographer; years later he used to contact her and ask if she was still with me. Sadly, I've never been able to find any of those photos online.

Then there is the story of how she lost her virginity. She was living in a house in San Francisco with a bunch of hippies, men and women. One week the guys living there had two friends visiting from the east coast and staying at the house. My wife and her best friend at that point had both decided they wanted to lose their virginity, so they had recently gone on birth control. My wife was heavy and super busty back then and her friend was a stick; it would have been funny to hear how the guys decided who got who. At first she made it sound like it was a one night stand, but later I found out (from her friend) the guys were there for a week and we all know how often people in their early 20’s can fuck (I could easily go 3 times a night back then). So I highly doubt it was a one and done situation. When I quizzed her on this she sort of acknowledged that it was more than once, but wouldn't comment beyond that. One night when she and i were having sex I got her to tell me some details (bj/doggy), and as she neared orgasm she blurted out, “I fucked a stranger!” I guess the other guys living with them in the house were surprised and a bit ticked off that she and her friend had fucked the visitors and not them.

My wife was very busty in high school and said guys were always trying to feel up her tits and fuck her. She was terrified of getting pregnant and refused to go all the way. In fact, she purposely gained weight thinking that would keep them away, but of course much of the weight went to her boobs and it had the opposite effect. At some point she discovered that she could give boyfriends hand jobs and defuse the situation. One guy wasn’t satisfied with that and introduced her to blow jobs, which she came to enjoy. Unfortunately he told his friends and ruined it for everyone. She won’t give me details about this for some reason.

[Teeyes]

My wife is pretty opened a about her past and I know she did a lot of threesomes (mostly MMF) and a few gangbangs of which she showed me pictures and videos. Really hot to see!
She's been with a lot of men, mostly hookups.

[shower1000]

Well, she was not yet my wife. And sorry for the long story, but details matter.

I was privileged to have parents that were avid nudists. The entire family was nude most of the time at home. Most of our family friends were also nudists, including the family of Julie, my future wife. We met at a nudist camp when I was 11 and she was almost 10. Our families were close and much our teenage years were spent nude at each others' homes and at two nudist camps, Swallows or Samagatuma.

This was the 1960s and very few women shaved their pubes. Of the many women in our nudist circle we knew of only 2 women that were fully shaved. Another 3 or 4 partially shaved the lower half of their pubes, from slightly below the clitoris to the anus. Others, including my mom, kept neatly trimmed and groomed. According to my parents, they thought that this was mostly to please their husbands.

Skipping ahead, Julie and I had "dated" off and on through my high school years, but had broken up when I left for college. Except for a 3 week winter visit 2 years ago, I had been gone for 4 years. I had been a full-time student, student teacher and didn't have time nudism or girlfriends. In June 1974 I was back and ready to resume my nudist life. The day I returned I arranged to meet up with Julie as soon as possible. Happily, she was still a nudist, so we decided to meet the next morning at Swallows.

The last time I had seen her was two years ago at Swallows when she was 17. She had long brown hair and usually wore a colorful ribbon to hold it. She had modest sized breasts with slightly puffy light colored areolas, typical of teen-aged girls. She also had a well developed crop of pubic hair.

During the time we were high school sweethearts we had engaged in petting and even had oral sex on a few occasions. In keeping with self imposed teenager developed nudist camp sexual norms, we never tried penetration and I never ejaculated in her presence. Except for these periods of innocent experimentation we both made it through our teen years as technical virgins.

That morning when I first saw her I was stunned. Now at 19 Julie was more beautiful than ever. Though nude, her posture indicated that she had a confident attitude. She was a woman on a mission. The thick yellow ribbon in her hair complimented her beauty. The scent of her perfume made me want to be nearer to her. Her breasts seemed larger but quite perky. Also her areolas were somewhat less puffy and a little darker. And I was most pleased to see that she had shaved the lower half of her pussy. In those days that took a lot of courage and self-confidence.

We sat on the lawn and talked for hours, bringing each other up to date from the past 2 years. My story was short and boring, hers more informative and exciting. No matter what position she sat my eyes were drawn to her beautiful shaved pussy. Eventually I built up the courage to ask her what had led her to shave. I recalled that about 5 years before my parents had hosted a famous shaved nudist couple for a week while they participated in a magazine photo shoot at Swallows. At that time Julie thought she could never bring herself to shave.

Her response was unexpected and started her unforgettable story. First, she was still a virgin and was saving it for the right man. She started shaving a few months ago in response to her then boyfriend's request. She had let him lick her hairy pussy several times before. After she shaved the licking became a lot more enjoyable and she came more often. She eventually broke up with him but noticed that her circle of friends at camp had expanded considerably. She realized that having the courage to shave had made her more confident, attractive, and unafraid to explore her friendship options.

She was very frank in her detailed descriptions of her past dating relationships. She wanted to admit to everything now so that there would be no doubts later. While we were apart she was with 3 different boyfriends on more than 60 total of what she called "dates". They were all older teens from Swallows, though some dates took place at her home. She broke up with all of them because they lacked self control. She would not specifically identify the boyfriends, but I could guess who a couple were.

She had engaged in kissing, petting and detailed body part exploration with all of them. She dated the third boyfriend for the least amount of time, though he made her come more frequently. She dated the 20 year old because he had a very large dick and she wanted to see how it was to suck. She gave many blow jobs to the first 2, usually twice on a date. She always stopped before ejaculation, the common practice among teens at camp then. One couldn't hold off and ejaculated onto her neck and breasts, making her angry so she broke up with him.

A few times she had two of the boyfriends rub their dicks with pre-cum on her chest and breasts because the smell excited her. On almost every date all 3 of them licked and sucked on her pussy until she had an orgasm. Sometimes she would squat on their face so she could control the position of her pussy and achieve a more intense
orgasm. She almost never failed to orgasm and would reward the boyfriend with a blow job or a ball licking. Her last boyfriend convinced her to shave, magnifying her sensation and pleasure while being licked.

After a few dates all of them would insist on penetrating her with their fingers or their dicks. She wasn't fond of digital penetration, only allowing it a few times with a couple of the boyfriends. She came close to being penetrated with a dick twice with two different boyfriends. They both occurred when she suffered a moment of weakness at her home. Each time it was during an especially passionate making out session on her parents' bed. The boyfriend would start by gently rubbing his dick head on her pussy's clitoris. For her the sensation was very enjoyable, but her sanity prevailed and she was able to resist.

She took all three boyfriends to her home, where they could play records and dance nude. She liked the fast dances because she would watch the boyfriends stiff dick bouncing around. When they played slow dances and she would hold their dicks pointing down between her legs and against her pussy. When properly placed it would press against her clitoris. During one such slow dance the big dick boy ejaculated onto the inside of her thighs, and the date was over. They broke up.

When she was telling me her story I was imagining those three dicks up against her pussy, something I was never able to do, even though we had dated for 2 years. On the other hand, I was the first to lick her pussy and fondle her newly emergent and later impressive breasts. And mine was the first dick to ever meet her lips.

Listening to her story I felt that, though not sorry for her actions, they were a learning experience for her and she was a better woman because of it. I was impressed that she was able to use these three boyfriends to satisfy her sexual desires and still deny herself to them.

After a few dates with Julie I realized that in her way she had really saved herself and became a better woman for me. We married later that year. We had a civil wedding downtown and that weekend had a nude wedding at her parents' home. And though we had jumped the gun and she was no longer a virgin, she was fully shaved for the wedding.

To understand Julie's attitude to her sexual activities you have to know more about her home life and her parents' attitude to sexual behavior. I'll post about that in a who taught your wife to fuck topic. To give you a hint, her mom and dad were disappointed that we did not consummate the marriage right there in front of the rest of the family and guests.

The attached photo shows Julie's normal pubic hair style. Taken about 15 years after marriage

[shower1000]

A little follow up to a previous post.

After Julie and I married we continued to make regular visits to Swallows. We would meet up with our old circle of nude friends, mostly the same people, some were missing but there were a few new faces. As usual everyone was very chummy, sharing lots of hugs and kisses. All went without incident for about a month.

She had assured me that her old boyfriends associated with other groups and were elsewhere. But when I went to get drinks, I noticed a guy with an extra large dick approach and gave her a very close body hug. I had never seen him before. He looked a lot older than 20 and had a massive dick. When he left she got defensive, saying that he was not the big dick boyfriend.

Later, as we prepared to drive home she admitted that it was the big dick boyfriend and he only wanted to congratulate her. She was miffed at him anyway because he had rubbed his dick against her thigh and felt her breasts when they hugged. In future she would avoid him.

In the end I got to see the big dick that she had sucked and rubbed against her clitoris. I wasn't upset, after all they never actually fucked and she kicked him out when he ejaculated down her legs. And I ended up with the grand prize.

[bbuk59]

Originally Posted by rvd23

I also enjoy getting my wife to tell me about her past. She usually starts out by saying, "I don't want to talk about it." but after a good bit of prying she begins to recount stories of the past. I noticed she gets very wet after telling me about it.

That's hot!
My wife won't talk about her past, before or after we met.

[Naddy3]

Originally Posted by bbuk59

That's hot!
My wife won't talk about her past, before or after we met.

Mine doesn't either.

[rracoonz]

My wife is open about her previous adventures, but I have to coax all the naughty little details out of her. She just isn't detail oriented.

[qazzy1749]

Originally Posted by rracoonz

My wife is open about her previous adventures, but I have to coax all the naughty little details out of her. She just isn't detail oriented.

Mine has to be in the right horny, sexy mood before she would share any past experiences. With me eating her pussy and a finger or two inside would help to jot her memory and loosen her tongue.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by bbuk59

That's hot!
My wife won't talk about her past, before or after we met.

This would totally break my heart!

[Massguy70]

My wife is mixed when it comes to that. She's told me her body count, the biggest she's had and a lot of her experiences but she doesn't get into the fine details like who it was, if she still talks to the person and what they look like. She tells me some of that stuff is irrelevant. On the other hand, I'm all about details. I'll show her pictures of women I've been with, talk about them by name and tell her things that we've done.